What does it mean to hold hands during sexual activity?

I was giving my friends with benefits a bj while he is siting down. My hand is on his leg and he reaches for it and squeezes it in my hand. he has done this 2 different times we have done this. Does this mean anything?
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He even kept holding his hand after he squeezed my hand.
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  • Probably not, its simple, the pleasure was so intensifying that holding your hand was away to hold himself.

    It is a bit like when a someone might squeeze someones hand when something painful is about to happen, its a way of helping them to undergo that unbareable tension.

    Like when a woman gives birth, she often takes her husbands hand and squeezes it to death.

    They say there is a fine line between pleasure and pain, now obviously the guy wasn't in pain, but overwhelmed by the pleasure squeezed your hand to help with the tension.

    If you had been having sex, and he held your hand, it would 'might' mean more, and be a lot more intimate and involved, but what you have described doesn't.

  • it could be that he really likes you and wanted to show his love and appreciation or that he simply was enjoying himself and about to cum. it similiar to grabing the sheets during sex or something like that.

  • Well for one thing it pretty well tells you he is enjoying the way you are sucking his penis. Did you let him empty himself in your mouth?

    • no we had sex. it was just to get him warmed up to get the game started.

    • Did he continue to hold your hand tight and kiss you really passionately as he bucked and emptied himself in your vagina?

    • No. He kept making me look at him because he wanted to see my face.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Why do girls think every little thing means something? One of these days some girl will post a question like what does it mean if he farts while he is watching me masturbate?

    • cuz he needs to lay off the beans duh

    • n if it don't mean anything then the guy shouldn't do it because it makes the grl feel awkward. we don't like doing anything like that unless there is sumthing emotional. while men don't care unless it is just physical

  • When I do it, it means I feel close to her and I want her to know I feel that way and that I appreciate her and that it is emotional (not just a physical thrill).

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  • yeah its just a way to physically connect with you...it's nice, don't worry

  • He's trying to be sensitive. He doesn't want you to reconsider what you're doing.

  • he probably likes you, I'm always holding something when my girlfriend goes down on me ;)

  • 1. he has feelings for you

    -or-

    2. he's abt to finish

  • I wouldn't read too much into it. The worst hook-up I ever had was with a guy who just used me and then didn't give anything in return. He held my hand while I blew him...

  • my guess is he's liking what you're doing...

  • To all the guys that are saying it doesn't mean anything then maybe you don't see sex or sexual activities as anything more then a way to bust juice! Personally I would say that he was trying to make some sort of connection I can't tell you what cos I'm not him so best I can say is ask He's happy enough to receive the favours then he can at least awnser a little question of curiosity :)

  • it means he grabbed your hand dumbass. girls try to read so much into every little thing

  • it mean he cares about you and I encourage you to keep holding hands during sex friend me if more questions pop up?

  • Stop trying to read into our actions men are , in a word, blunt

  • It probably means that your boobs were out of reach. Next time give the guy some access to them.

  • it's more intimate and more of a relationship move than a friends with benefits thing