Missionary vs. Cowgirl?

The guy I'm into is more into me being on top, but I have a hard time getting a good rhythm going, and I really just prefer getting pounded. Is this going to be a problem in the long run? Do you think he'll be fine with me not riding him that often? I'm into trying other stuff; doggy style has worked for me in the past, though it's been a little off for us.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't like being on top..so I don't do it, it doesn't do anything for me, in fact it turns me off...i don't know why, prehaps I'm made differently...and every guy I have been with, I have made this entirely clear and made them get that if I go on top, I'll lose the motivation to have sex, and therefore his fix will fall short..lol

    This is all you can do, I'm sure there will be things he doesn't like, so if he's smart enough he'll understand and just find other ways to do it...like you could make a compromise prehaps.

    But if it is just about the rhythm then why don't you ask him for a bit of help, where he can show you how to get in to a rhythm, I'm sure he'll be more then willing.

  • Men do most of the work during sex. Think about it. My boyfriend told me that its a turn off when the girl doesn't want to take control sometimes. It means she's selfish in bed and lazy. Mostly lazy.. Experiment with cowgirl. I'm sure he will appreciate the effort. Not many guys want a girl that just lays there I was told. I wouldn't steer you wrong. Promise. I used to suck at the rhythm on top too. boyfriend helped me out and now I'm very good at it. He more than appreciated the effort.

    • Well spoken, and very, very true. Missionary and Doggy style is nice, but when it's all the time, it's like "okay, am I going to have to do EVERYTHING?"

    • lol

  • I don't like being on top either. We usually do variations of Missionary and Doggy. As long as you're into it, guys won't care. Besides Missionary amd Doggy are the most used positions.

Most Helpful Guys

  • go to a couch arm and just practice riding the arm or a dildo that stick to a wall put it on the ground and just grind or just allow him to tie you up that would make him want to do all the work for longer times if more question friend and private message me?

  • All I have to say is...practice makes perfect. Your guy will appreciate your efforts, as well as your increased skill @ being on top. :)

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  • let me guess. He doesn't have much stamina.

  • He should get you off by trying different positions, and if he hasn't finished yet, you can ride him. That way you both get what you want.

  • To exprience in many positions are better than knowing only one. Yeah I hear ya doggie style is the bomb...