I want to give head, but I'm scared I'll do it wrong?

[Anonymous]

I really want to give head, but I'm scared I won't be good at it. What can I do to make it better for the guy? Btw I'm old enough to be asking this

[cindys]

You probably will, but all you need is practice. First, get your mind straight. Just because it’s called a “blow job” doesn’t mean you should view it as a job. He can see it on your face if you don’t enjoy sucking on his “friend” – and that’s NOT the attitude you want to convey. You have to love his cock.

It’s all about preparation. Make every blowjob one of a kind, unique, memorable. How do you prepare? Candles, good lights, music, some wine, fix up the atmosphere, spice it up. Look good. Make it special.

Throw him in the couch. Seductively, naughtily, with a sexy smile on your face. Look at him with fascination. You slowly get on your knees in front of him, unzip and take his pants off. Make a happy, surprised look – as if you just saw your favorite ice cream, and you are starving to death.

Men are visual. Pull your hair back, so that he can see you completely and enjoy the view. Massage his legs seductively, get closer to his cock. Before it grows large, put the entire thing in your warm, wet mouth – moan with pleasure. Slowly suck on his **** as it grows large in your dripping wet mouth.

A few “aaahs” and “mmms” are essential. There’s nothing better than the magic words when giving a blow job. No BJ is perfect without the right words entering his ear. Compliment him, tell him how much you love His **** in your mouth. Use your hands. Combine fast and slow strokes. Be his p*rn star, not a nun.

When you get tired, rest your mouth, stroke him. Be his “slut”, be dirty, sexual – free. Do whatever you want to do. He won’t think you’re a slut if you swallow, on the contrary – he’ll love you for it. So get dirty and slut it up.

Speed it up as you come to the finish. Involve his balls in the game. A perfect blowjob isn’t just with your mouth. Use your whole body. Let him see your sexy ass, thongs, a sexy necklace. The way to turn him on is by being turned on by yourself. You have to feel sexy in your body. It’s all about positioning.

Tickle his balls, lick them and suck on them gently. Use your sexy nails to drive him wild. Hold his shaft, lick it up and down sexily while looking him deep in the eyes.

Now you start pumping his **** faster. Fast, and short strokes. Pump, pump and pump some more. Moan louder, suck harder, stroke faster. And then – he starts shooting, and screaming, and popping his eyes out of his brain. Pull his **** out and pump it out gently. Open your mouth, show him what he gave you. Giggle. Then swallow all of it. Smile happily, give his **** a few more kisses and sucks – clean it up. ;) Of course – you can always get even better. I recommend you read Jack’s Blowjob Lessons, probably the best book ever written about satisfying your guy sexually, by clicking on the link

[Anonymous]

I'm sure your boyfriend will be comforted, even if you're terrible, by your mouth around his penis x)

anyways, just don't bite at all, don't use teeth, use pressure with your mouth but know you can bite off penises so dont.

dont get lockjaw lol

im sure ull be finnne

hell be drooling lol

[Azdoc77]

use lot of spit,ask him to blindfold you and tie your hands behind you..start deep throating his cock. Also make him push his **** deep in your throat. Don't use your teeth at all,slobber on it,fall in love with his d***.

[Littletad]

A doctor is suggesting this? It's her first time. Deep throat is not something a girl should learn first, makes no sense.

[Azdoc77]

Practice ...practice...

[Quadrophonic84]

Basically, there are two rules and the rest is flexible:

1) Be into it and show him you're excited to be doing it!

2) Pay attention to his reactions to different things you do to know if you should do more or less of any particular thing.

If you follow those two rules you'd have a tough time giving him a boring experience. You could always just ask him to guide you the first few times. I had a girlfriend once in your position who had never done it before and she ended up being really good at it after about 5 minutes. It's pretty instinctual.

[MrOracle]

Enthusiasm will overcome inexperience every time (just keep your teeth off it!). If you are enjoying it and are turned on by it, it will enhance his pleasure tremendously. Likewise, even if you had "perfect technique", if you acted like you were just phoning it in, it would be lousy.

Otherwise, ask him to tell you what he likes and doesn't like as you do it, and pay attention to his non-verbal reactions, and you'll learn quickly.

Don't forget ENTHUSIASM!

[Distant]

It's pretty hard not to give head properly. Guys are all different though so they like different things. Try watching p*rnography in this category, if you're absolutely clueless. To make it better for him: Ask what he likes and listen to his instructions.

~Distant

[l-hedoniste]

You won't be great the first time, and THAT'S OKAY.

What matters is that you want to be good. If you do, any good guy will be patient enough to hang around until you get there.

[1stblackx]

1) Always do something with your tongue, just imagine it like a kiss. A kiss would suck if there was no tongue movement.

2) Focus on the head, its the most sensitive part.

3) Don't forget the balls, even if its 20-30 seconds we just want to know that you recognize them.

4) Act like you truly want to do it, if you act like you hate doing it we feel kind of bad and its just awkward. Talk dirty, tell us how much you want it in your mouth, rub it on the side of your face. Don't be shy.

[Africanlegend]

You will probably suck the first time no pun intended. Be gentle and keep the situation lubricated. Other than that watch some p*rn and see how its done then try to apply what you see. Communicate with the guy to we'd love to help you improve.

[Anonymous]

then don't do it. it means a lot to me so I don't and haven't done it. I'm 22 by the way. I just won't go down on a guy.