Why does she get nervous around me? What's going on through her mind?

[Anonymous]

We've been on three dates, today having been our third. And as of now she has been avoiding kissing me? The first night I beat myself up over it because I thought I was the one that screwed it up, we had cuddled and I didn't go for a kiss as she was leaving. Thing that stopped me was she was so nervous to even cuddle, though she warmed up to me a bit. Her hands were really cold, she never looked me in the eye. Second date, I went for a kiss at the end of the night, she bobbed and weaved and just gave me a tight hug at the end of the night. Third date, we cuddled again, this time she didn't seem as nervous, but her hands were sweaty and she still didn't look me in the eyes. Then at the end of the night I don't go in for the kiss, just look her in the eyes, and she's the one that initiates a tight hug. Am I getting put in the friend-zone? I'm worried that we're not sexual enough and that I may end up a friend. But at the same time we flirt, call each other hot/beautiful, and she knows my intentions when we're going out, or should I remind her that I see her as a possible girlfriend? Also why is she so nervous around me? She's had past relationships so it doesn't make much sense to avoid getting physical like that...She lets me touch her even when we're not cuddling. Like I can put my arms on her.. sit so close the sides of our bodies connect from shoulder to toe, She lets me touch her hair, her face. But when it comes to kissing and even cuddling she gets what seems to be nervous. So in summation 1) Am I in danger of the friend-zone and how to I make it clear that I see her as a sexual/romantic partner 2) Why does she get nervous around me when we step up our physical interactions?

[38rakia38]

You should just straight up tell her.

I mean, you and I, and everyone else on here can play this guessing game all god damn night.

Or...

You could stop trying to mind read and just ask her why she won't kiss you.

I mean, it sounds to me like she's just not generally interested in kissing you, maybe your breath smells bad, maybe she's a germaphobe, idk.

Cut the bullsh*t and just ask her.

[aimster587]

Dont worry your not in the "friends" zone cause if she knew your intentions before she went on a date with you ment she was interested, and still is if she keeps going on dates with you. She is just being cautious. She probably was hurt in the past and doesn't want to take things to fast. Just give it time maybe on your next date try and kiss her and if she doesn't then ask her what's sup?