Do all women lie about how many sexual partners they have had?

[cun7n1nja]

Some women probably DO lie, because they're afraid of what the guy is going to think. I think people shouldn't ask questions they may not like the answer to, and then get pissed off when they don't hear what they want to hear. They should be grateful that the person was honest with them.

I've personally never lied about my number because I don't believe in pretending. I'm very much my own person, and if something as ridiculous as my number is enough to make a guy lose interest in me, he's not a guy I would want to be with anyway. I value openness and honesty, I don't care how many people someone has been with as long as they get tested and are clean. And if this is someone who wants a relationship with me, that they're intending to COMMIT to me. Having a past full of casual sex and one night stands with the occasional relationship thrown in doesn't make one unable to be perfectly happy in a committed, monogamous relationship when they really feel for someone.

[38rakia38]

I have no reason to lie about how many people I've slept with.

Why lie to someone about it? I mean, it's their sexual health at risk to, and the key to any successful relationship is being honest. How could someone not be honest or cop up to the number of partners they've had.

Me, personally, have had 4.

2 virgins, 2 non.

See, not all women lie about their sexual partners.

You want their numbers so you can ask them yourself? In case you think I'm lyin.

Cuz if I'm lyin, I'm cryin.

[selfishstars]

I tell the truth. I'm not interested in dating or being friends with people who judge me negatively based on my sexual experience, so there's really no reason for me to lie.

[G_GTom]

Some women will others will will not. Statistically speaking, women will lie about a lot, including how many men they've slept with. Men will lie too, just in opposite direction.

[Anonymous]

And a lot of guys lie and say a higher number, what's the difference? Everyone wants to be more appealing and *some* guys get so insecure about it sometimes. Their imaginations run wild over any kind of experience and it's often made to be a much bigger deal than it really is. In a social setting, I wouldn't talk about it. It's no one's business. I've never lied to a boyfriend before, but I could see why some girls would. In my experience, a girl's sexual history is not that indicative of her personality (although many guys think it is). I know some really bitchy, dishonest, backstabbing virgins, and I know some very loyal, classy women who have a few sex partners.

If guys want all women to be honest about it, best give us some more leeway to be, you know, human? With actual sexual urges like nature intended? Rather than asking us to sew our vaginas shut lol

[Anonymous]

a lot of guys lie as well. I tell the truth, but only to a couple people. if I don't feel like you need to know my business, ill just say that its personal or ill just say its a lot more than some. I never make up a number though. if I'm giving a number, it will be the correct one.

i never get these "do all women do this" Qs as if we are all the same in every way. so dumb.

[cristinaboss]

I have no shame in my number and I always answer honestly so no, I don't lie about that.

[Anonymous]

yeah my friend lowered the number. because she regrets her past as being a bit loose... many girls are ashamed usually and that is when they lower the number.

[Bombshell13]

I don't lie but I try to avoid the question unless 1. it's a guy I like 2. It's just us, so I can explain some things and 3. he's telling me his number also.

[Peggelyn]

Isn't there supposedly a rule of 3's?

Take the number a woman tells you and times it by 3.

Take the number a guy gives you and divide it by 3.

Or so they say... I don't really believe that to be true so much. For some people it would be though.