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Do all women lie about how many sexual partners they have had?

If you are asked. Do you really tell the truth? In a social setting or if a boyfriend asked. I find that a lot of girls lie/lower the number.
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  • Some women probably DO lie, because they're afraid of what the guy is going to think. I think people shouldn't ask questions they may not like the answer to, and then get pissed off when they don't hear what they want to hear. They should be grateful that the person was honest with them.

    I've personally never lied about my number because I don't believe in pretending. I'm very much my own person, and if something as ridiculous as my number is enough to make a guy lose interest in me, he's not a guy I would want to be with anyway. I value openness and honesty, I don't care how many people someone has been with as long as they get tested and are clean. And if this is someone who wants a relationship with me, that they're intending to COMMIT to me. Having a past full of casual sex and one night stands with the occasional relationship thrown in doesn't make one unable to be perfectly happy in a committed, monogamous relationship when they really feel for someone.

  • I have no reason to lie about how many people I've slept with.

    Why lie to someone about it? I mean, it's their sexual health at risk to, and the key to any successful relationship is being honest. How could someone not be honest or cop up to the number of partners they've had.

    Me, personally, have had 4.

    2 virgins, 2 non.

    See, not all women lie about their sexual partners.

    You want their numbers so you can ask them yourself? In case you think I'm lyin.

    Cuz if I'm lyin, I'm cryin.

    • hahah that's such a low number... I do believe you.

    • I don't give a f*** if it's a low number or a high number. I've been f***ing 5 years, 4 is just fine.

  • I tell the truth. I'm not interested in dating or being friends with people who judge me negatively based on my sexual experience, so there's really no reason for me to lie.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Some women will others will will not. Statistically speaking, women will lie about a lot, including how many men they've slept with. Men will lie too, just in opposite direction.

  • Instead of just asking for a number, I ask

    "How many have you had unprotected sex with?"

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  • I don't lie but I try to avoid the question unless 1. it's a guy I like 2. It's just us, so I can explain some things and 3. he's telling me his number also.

    • After reading the other answers, I like this one the best.. It's nice to see women that have standards regarding questions their answering. I think it makes people shine in their true natural light. Not all of us want to be asked 21 questions in the matter of a few seconds, we'd like to know that the other person is investing enough to stick around after a question has been answered.

  • I have no shame in my number and I always answer honestly so no, I don't lie about that.

  • Isn't there supposedly a rule of 3's?

    Take the number a woman tells you and times it by 3.

    Take the number a guy gives you and divide it by 3.

    Or so they say... I don't really believe that to be true so much. For some people it would be though.

  • a lot of guys lie as well. I tell the truth, but only to a couple people. if I don't feel like you need to know my business, ill just say that its personal or ill just say its a lot more than some. I never make up a number though. if I'm giving a number, it will be the correct one.

    i never get these "do all women do this" Qs as if we are all the same in every way. so dumb.

  • And a lot of guys lie and say a higher number, what's the difference? Everyone wants to be more appealing and *some* guys get so insecure about it sometimes. Their imaginations run wild over any kind of experience and it's often made to be a much bigger deal than it really is. In a social setting, I wouldn't talk about it. It's no one's business. I've never lied to a boyfriend before, but I could see why some girls would. In my experience, a girl's sexual history is not that indicative of her personality (although many guys think it is). I know some really bitchy, dishonest, backstabbing virgins, and I know some very loyal, classy women who have a few sex partners.

    If guys want all women to be honest about it, best give us some more leeway to be, you know, human? With actual sexual urges like nature intended? Rather than asking us to sew our vaginas shut lol

    • I personally have no problems with a girl being honest. I wouldn't pass judgment. I just think in a relationship you should be honest. If a guy is insecure about it then its his problem.

    • I totally agree, and I think everyone should be honest. But I could see how an amazing, loyal girl who maybe had a crazy past when she was young, would lie to a guy she was in love with so as to portray herself in the way she is now, not the way she was then.

  • yeah my friend lowered the number. because she regrets her past as being a bit loose... many girls are ashamed usually and that is when they lower the number.

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