Bad experience! Very bad ones!
Many woman are forced the first time. For many others it was with a guy that didn't love them and left them after. They need emotional part and sex is connected to ... nothing, or even worse to feeling of being hurt emotionaly after (guy used them and left or something else). This may not have happened directly to them. Their mother or best friend could have been used and they felt that with them. And now they think that sex just hurts women. And guys don't realize that. Woman will start to hate sex if she is forced and close her heart for it. Guys don't mind the girl and then they wonder what happened.
Those things some girls experienced are destructive at best.
One more thing. Be nice to the girl. Don't force that on her. (but try ... again and again) Keep one thing in mind all the times. It may not seem like it (because it is different for a man, we are direct in this, you touch our sexuality, we usualy open like in no time) but way to having sex with her is through her heart. Direct aproach will cose her. Touch her heart. Repeatedly. Best way you can. Search for what she wants, needs. And do it. And she will open sexualy without need to touch that part of her directly. It may take a while, but she will.
You should ask her why she hates sex but don't force her too have sex. Or force her to tell you why She wont. But she could of had a really bad experience with sex. She may not be ready to have sex with you just. Yet I know a good friend of mine she hated sex because she was raped as a child now I'm not saying this is the case with your girlfriend but What I'm getting at could be the same she could of had. A really traumatic experience that could cause her to hate it or just a really bad experience and trust me we all as women have at least one really bad experience. And I just went through one lets put it this way my pinky was bigger. Just try to get her to tell you Why she hates sex and ask questions that she can't answer yes or no to make sure they are very open ended. For ex what didn't you like about the whole experience. Or what did you like about sex you can also ask what can you do to make it a better experience for her I have one more thought about her Are you sure she is not a virgin because if she IA she maybe scared to go through with sex and scared to tell you she is a virgin. But back to your main question most girls I know love sex
Well, your girlfriend isn't representative of the entire female population. A lot of girls love sex.
Reasons why some women don't:
- fear or worries (pain, pregnancy, afraid of being used for sex, etc.)
- doesn't feel ready
- religious reasons
- she's shy or self-conscious
- low sex drive
- history of sexual abuse/sexual assault
- personal views about sex (maybe she was raised to see it as a dirty/negative thing)
I suggest talking to her about it and asking why she doesn't like it.
yeah I tried asking her why she don't like. and she didn't response. well as far as I know she's always going to church every Sunday. maybe that's the reason.
well for most girls the first I don't know like 30 times they have sex its not great, or good... Would you want someone to shove a 7 inch thing in your body, ANYWHERE? Why should girls, really? Plus have you seen what you look like nude? Some girls don't like that, I think men look very weak naked. too. Girls work different then guys, simple as that.
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Not all of us do, hunny.
has she had sex before? maybe she's scared of the pain or is self conscious of how she looks naked. Or maybe she's had a bad experience. My first time was horrible, I'm not wanting to do it again any time soon, might take me a while to get over.
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