In which WAY is penis size actually attractive?

[Anonymous]

I wondered for a while in which way penis size is attractive to girls. I don't want to talk about if bigger penises are seen as more attractive but more the reason(s) why. Is it because girls think from a logical perspective that (no matter if its true or not) that bigger penises give more sexual pleasure? Or is it an emotional process when you see a huge penis? Does it make you feel aroused to see a huge penis, without thinking logical about it? Is it some ego thing , like girls can "show -off" in front of your other female friends like "my boyfriend has a very big penis" equal to "my boyfriend drives a Ferrari"? (Its not important if you actually talk about it; I mean more the felling like..."hey my boyfriend has the biggest one" as kind of a status symbol) Is it penis-size to girls like tit size to guys? I mean, If I as a guy have fantasies about huge t*ts, it has nothing to do with the reality. Its only fantasy, and if a woman really had these big breasts, it was difficult to have sex with her. Another point is that in my opinion, I'd rather like beautiful small breasts than "ugly" ( whatever that means, I guess its different for everyone) big ones. Is it the same with girls and penises? Did it ever happen to you that you went crazy for a guy with a small penis? If yes, was it more like "I don't know why I'm crazy about him!" or was it an emotional state where you didn't even think that anything matters (also penis size but not limited to) besides him and you and the "love" or whatever you want to call it? Were you ever really sexually attracted to guy with a "small" penis? Don't get me wrong, I don't want to judge any of these behaviours - it's completely okay. Why I ask this...A few weeks ago I found out that other guys are really unhappy with their penis size. A friend of mine told me he wants to get a penis enlargement surgery cause he has only 7 inches. I was confused cause I never cared about my penis size...So I begun to laugh. He understood that wrong and begun to cry that his penis was so "small". At that moment (and after some research in my friends circle xD) it came clear to me that many guys, no matter which size they have (even a 10 inch guy), have huge problems with it. But after asking them WHY they think they should have a bigger penis...they didn't have a clear answer. "its better for sex" was the most common thing... But based on my .(I have a so called "smaller" penis I found out...xD) and my ex-gf's experiences.. I never had any problems with girls or give them and myself pleasure. So I want to find the "real" reason behind all to find a way (maybe its just a different mind-set) for them to "cope" with their penises. Thanks for your help, girls!

[Jay7Seven]

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[LazyProphet]

Who cares how tall you are bro, what's your size?

[nightdrot]

You've know the men's locker room where guys are looking at each other and comparing while trying hard not to? Turns out, according to evolutionary biology, that a man's penis - when erect - was his way of displaying and impressing females, as well as warding off rival males for mates.

The bigger the penis, the more instinctively the female would assume that you have healthy sperm and would be good at warding off rival males and predators and would be good at providing for her and her baby.

Congrats! You won the evolutionary lottery.

Flash forward several hundred thousand years and while man now transcends his evolutionary nature, certain evolution based instincts remain. So we have the men's locker room and a recent study by Victoria University in Australia found that women - though not generally visual beings - are turned on by a man with an erect penis.

They showed a random sample of women photos of naked guys. Some with an erect penis, others not. They then asked the women what guys were better looking. Overwhelmingly the women picked the guys with an erection - and typically the larger the penis, the more votes the guy got.

[Anonymous]

I personally think that if there is any reason why a bigger penis could be seen as more attractive, it has more to do with perception than with the actual pleasure factor. I don't believe that a bigger penis is better equipped for sex. Here is what I think:

1. Because guys are so concerned about penis size, those with bigger penises probably tend to be more confident and secure. In contrast, men with smaller penises may have insecurities that could negatively affect their relationships, sex life, and overall attitude. Girls are attracted to confident men. They also don't want to feel bad for their guy because of his fears or feel obliged to constantly reassure him.

2. Guys act like it's "better" to have a big penis. They turn it into a competitive, alpha-male thing. A guy with a bigger penis wins respect from other men.This can lead girls to feel like a big penis is a good catch, not because of the penis itself, but because of it's social connotations.

[Razer]

Number 2 is completely wrong. The average guys does not care or envy the guy with the bigger d***. We say good for you wish I had a tad bit more. At the same time I've heard of guys that have a hard time cause it is too big. Girls have a hard time fitting it and it isn't as great as it might have been if it was just comfortable. If a guy is REALLY small that sucks but the big guy doesn't gain respect or any of that alpha male sh*t. He is just more confident, and for a good reason.

[Opinion Owner]

Obviously it is not ALWAYS the case- I never claimed that it was. And I also never said that guys directly envied others with bigger penises. But don't try to tell me that guys don't ever wish they had a bigger penis or view bigger penises as superior. With the number of posts regarding penis size that I've seen here, I know enough to recognize that as nonsense. And again, of course that's not how it is 100% of the time. Just in general.

[feminismisnarcissism]

@Razer this is spot on. Guys (unless gay) really don't pay attention to other dudes-except when/if mentioned by their girl. Size does matter and it goes both ways-good and bad. You are correct, big guys have to be REAL careful or we can make sex very painful at least until it gets going. But both length and girth matter plenty, just as technique, knowledge of the vagina matter, confidence (as she said), etc. The key is to maximize what you got-and being really good (and passionate) at eating pussy is a great way to set yourself apart-most dudes suck at it...

[Flower-petal]

@feminismisnarcissism excellent answer!

[rockrewls]

Seems to me that us guys with bigger penises tend towards arrogance far more than confidence.

[BigGuy8]

@Razer I beg to differ. Multiple men have been envious of mine, and many women have been envious of the women I've slept with. Some men even asked me to bang their wife or girlfriend in front of them so they can experience a "real" man. One guy tried to arrange a "random" encounter at a bar where I seduce his wife and end up "surprising" her with a large penis. There are A LOT of men that envy the well endowed, and many that are jealous of them. Envy and jealousy aren't the exact same thing. Just because you don't personally doesn't make it false. Then again, the moment seeing a larger penis makes you express a desire to be bigger, that's envy. So stop kidding yourself.

[BigGuy8]

@rockrewls not necessarily. I'm confident when I know a girl wants to see my penis, not arrogant. Because I know she'll be either : surprised, excited, intimidated, shocked, a little scared, or a combination. I don't show it to them, they need to come get it. They come for the bulge and stay for dessert.

[VinaThreeOne]

Wrong!!! Because a lot of guys have heard their women friends & girlfriends talk about big penises. And some were ghosted because of it

[VinaThreeOne]

Well you need to go to Urban Dictionary and type in any guy's name and see how many women talk about guys penises either being big and awesome & therefore the guys highly attractive or small and disgusting & the guys ugly af! Please go take a look for yourself

[LazyProphet]

@feminismisnarcissism God I hate when guys/girls tell you to get good at eating pussy to make up for a smaller dick... thats demasculating af!

[LazyProphet]

@BigGuy8 rockrewls was right, you do sound a bit of an arrogant prick.

[Anonymous]

I feel like it’s just awkward to see little dicks.. porn portrays large penises 24/7 almost.. I would break up with a guy if there was an amazing connection emotionally and then I see he has a small dick.. however when a guy pulls out something bigger.. it’s more fun to play with/ look at / fuck with... bigger dicks feel better.. I don't know maybe it’s just me but I feel more during sex and it feels better.. there’s just more to do with a big dick... but if u have a small one don’t get down on ur self.. if a girl really loves.. the dick size won’t matter anymore

[Opinion Owner]

*wouldnt break up with a guy if...

[mariospapadopoulos12]

Do make fun of guys with smalls dicks? Like sph? U know just for fun maybe

[VinaThreeOne]

Stop giving guys false hope there are many women like you and many men have experienced women just like you

[mobbie32]

Is average size penis good too?

[LazyProphet]

Wtf? You literally went on about how big dicks are much better, and that you'd even break up with an amazing guy if he had a small dick... then turn around and say "if you have a small one don't worry, if a girl really loves you it won't matter". So which is it because you completely contradicted yourself?

[LazyProphet]

Oops, now I see the ammendment

[Spaceforcedropout]

Would you feel awkward being with a guy that was 4.25 inches long but had good girth?

[Billlewis]

That is so incredibly hot -- you'd dump him if he had a small penis...

[Danny1775]

Shallow empty pos.

[Anonymous]

I actually find really big penis's look kinda gross, I think its just my personal preference. The average penis size is 4 - 5.5 inches when erect so, 7 inches is big, its sad that he would think his wasn't big. I prefer smaller ones in that respect but to be honest as long as they do their job size does not matter to me.

[sausuman14]

Is 7.5 inch is too big for an indian girl?

[pierre7i]

@sausuman14: whatttt? you're Indian, you should know the answer to that question, so why on earth are you asking here? anyway, according to the World Penis Size Survey, Indian men have small penises on average !

[pierre7i]

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[HMS1189]

And what about the girth size?

[LazyProphet]

@sausuman14 For girth, are you kidding me, you have a 7.5 girth? That's huge for any race.

[LazyProphet]

@pierre7i that's what they say, but my brother's wife is Indian, and apparently their son is hung like a moose already at 14 yo. And me and my brother don't have big penis's lol.

[bridgetttthamilt]

It depends on the woman. But one thing I do know is that they all like a penis that is clean and strong so make sure to use a penis health creme daily to ensure that it is getting the right amount of vitamins and nutrients... these cremes are great and will improve your sex life and your confidence for sure. Check them out.

[LazyProphet]

What is it with everyone and these fucking penis creams?

[quicksilver7154]

WTF is a penis health creme? lol

[lindacalloway847]

Well it really depends on the woman, on the state of the man’s health, fitness, etc. There is truly nothing worse than a smelly, unclean penis. This is why my boyfriend uses Man1 Man Oil as he has some hygiene issues… he got it online and it works pretty well. Good luck!

[johnRD11]

I've never thought penis size was that big of a deal- to me, technique, function and hygiene are better for me. I'd recommend using a penis health creme so that it helps with your hydration and smoothness.

[Razer]

This may not be right to the point you were looking for but I just copied my answer from another similar question. => This really all depends on the experience of the girl. She would have to experience all sizes to really have an acurate say. And it would still come down to her preferences and how small or large her vag is. You could average this all out, but I still think it's a bit off. I'm just glad I'm at least average. I'd love to have a big one cause we all know how much confidence a big d*** gives you. I would still be the same nice guy but with a big d*** as a reputation. lol No pun intended there. The funniest thing to me is when you see a big guy like 6'2"-6'5", 220-270lbs with a small d***. You can usually tell it brings their ego down a notch. For the ladies, this whole d*** size thing is almost but barely comparable to boobs. Most girls can live with whatever size they have but a lot would like to have just the right size as it obviously is attractive to guys. The biggest difference is that boobs don't play a role in the main pleasure of intercourse. At least I've never heard of a girl getting off from playing with her nipples lol. And even further I would bet that girls get automatically get more turned on when they think of a bigger d*** filling them, which would make it easier to land them in bed if you have that bat to swing. Ladies am warm or cold here?

[jackmcmillin83]

For sure, like the skin!! If it's too dry or not moisturized, it's not performing its best. Seriously. Take heed of my advice lol. Get a penis health creme.

[LazyProphet]

🖕🏻

[BigGuy8]

My penis is beautiful, and it is also large. Is it beautiful because it is large? You'll have to ask the women who say it is beautiful.

[LazyProphet]

Yeah you're definitely an arrogant prick

[Tamera952]

If it has a cute perky HEAD... then it's cute

[hghg12345]

Great answer lol

[Margillard]

Here is what girls really think about dick:
http://www.misterpoll.com/polls/368041/results

[ben7point4]

That was rather insightful.

[LazyProphet]

Yeah that poll is a little depressing. 52% of women have or would cheat on their partner with a guy because he has a bigger dick. Only 20% have never had a penis as big as mine, and 82% prefer a penis bigger than mine. And I'm not even that small at 6". Is there a God or what, cause if so... fuck him!

[___ayaan___]

in my opinion since porn has become so easily accessibke to everyone , i guess it has altered our vision and our expectations from our partner... its very important to understand that what a person watches in porn is not exactly 100 % true... i agree there might be some pornstars who can perform amazingly.. but there are some who just can't without medications for example i read an interview about a pornstar with a 10 inch penis ( he even got it insured) who could not last for more than 2 minutes with his wife without medications !! He always used medications and confessed on taking injections on his penis to perform ! Personally i love thick women with big butts and boobs but i would have absolutely no problem if my girlfriend isn't as thick as i like or if she has cellulite or her ass isn't as big i wanted it to be cos hey i know i'm not perfect either... she might have her own expectations from me like a 7 or 8 inch penis but i'm only 6 inches ( she never complained about it tho ) nor do i have an theletic build ( i'm just have an average body ) .. what i'm trying to say is that rather than expecting expecting our partner to be a muscular hunk with an 8 inch dick and a greek god like face why not just embrace him for how he handles you... cos frankly there will be guys who will be so proud of themselves that they won't give a damn if your are on your period and need so chocolates and cuddling cos they will be so busy in themselves... (not saying all good looking greek god faced 8 inch endowed men are that way ) ... who know your partner might surprise you in all ways if you underestimate him... and sex is always better with your own girl and it works out differently for different people... it got too long (thats what she said ;) )
PS GIRLS- its not wrong to have physical expectations from men but who knows if he ain't good in bed he might just be able to keep you happy emotionally and really love you... same goes for guys :)

[1977Rob]

I think smaller penises always being used as a joke, an insult or generally being associated with hate figures does not help. Either because some women then see a small penis as a negative thing, or because guys who are small and see it as a negative thing have less confidence. And girls are generally more attracted to more confident guys.

[TriggeredPeen]

When it's proportional and cute !

[Andrw772]

I have a friend that a chick n her n her friends have some game they play on tinder, they see who can find the guy whos huge. She met some Moroccan who she said was true 11". So she told her friends now this bog dickd bandit is fuckin all 4 of these girls. Just because he has a huge dick

[LazyProphet]

😳😭

[ocean7]

Penis size I believe is more of a male dominance thing. We honestly don’t go bragging about your guys dicks. Yes the pleasure is nice but seeing it doesn’t turn us on like our boobs and butts do for guys. So those are my thoughts.

[VinaThreeOne]

Boobs and butt do not give strong pleasurable Sensations to the male genitalia through friction CAUSING orgasm! So you definitely cannot compare the two especially since boobs and butt can be enhanced or diminished depending on the maintenance one applies to themselves

[LazyProphet]

@VinaThreeOne very true

[Smallguydundee]

I think it matters cos I have a small penis

[Anonymous]

penis question!!!

[Anonymous]

Only one person mentioned a specific size rather than just big or small. I have always thought mine to be small. Some guys were watching men urinate in the men's room comparing their sizes. I tend to be very flaccid and shy at the urinal. They were giving me crap about it. At 7 inches erect, I am happily surprised to be somewhat above average. Its funny, my SO hadn't notice any differently about size until I told her some study I read and how I measured up. We had sex not too long after and her orgasm seemed more potent in that session. As long as she's happy, I'm happy, but I could do without the locker room comparisons, which definitely happen.

[Anonymous]

@BigGuy8, you've gone on & on about your size: "Multiple men have been envious of mine, and many women have been envious of the women I've slept with. Some men even asked me to bang their wife or girlfriend in front of them so they can experience a "real" man. One guy tried to arrange a "random" encounter at a bar where I seduce his wife and end up "surprising" her with a large penis"

You say you're confident not arrogant? Yeah, right ! Don't think I've come across a more arrogant post from a guy about his dick size, ever. by the way, I'm not envious because mine is pretty big too, but I sure don't brag about it the way you do