Girls and guys welcome to answer, oral sex and reactions...weird?

[Anonymous]

hi everyone, alright let me explain; so my friend and I were experimenting with oral sex last Friday night, it didn't take very long for him to cum, my friends told me he wasn't that experienced so this I knew, and could care less really :) lol but anyways, that's not the weird part, before he came he didn't finish in my mouth. now I have never swallowed before and I was prepared to for the first time, I was shocked that he stopped me and came on the other side, away for me. the first thing that came out of my mouth is "are you alright?" I didn't know if I hurt him or not...then he said he felt embarrassed. I told him he didn't have to be, and I told him I liked it and smiled :) because I did...but I still feel a little bad, I want to make sure it wasn't my fault. he's my friend and we aren't dating but we've had this thing for a few years now, I don't know weather to be worried or proud, to be honest I'm kind of both right now lol, any input? please its much appreciated, is that normal?

[Sam_i_am]

Well I don"t believe you hurt him if you made him cum, at least he got some pleasure. Yeah I am pretty sure the reason he pulled away is that he respected you, some guys know that not all girls like to swallow so he came off to the side. The 'are you alright' happened to me as well when my first gf gave me a handjob and came away from here even though it was a handjob, that being said, while cumming the worst most embarrasing thing to hear is 'are you okay'... but its fine, I know you were being considerate of his penis I'm sure he got over it when you told him you liked it (:

If you truly want to make up for it, continue to do oral and just tell him you've never swallowed and your wanting to try it, for someone who doesn't have much experience, this will be a huge turn on.

As far as being proud or not, I would just let it go and keep experimenting! Have fun there is nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about. You certainly dont mind the small amount of sexual experience he has or consider 'what he might consider' messing up a 'big deal'... which honestly is really chill. Overall you seem like an amazing friend, just having fun, and trying new things.

[IMcanadianEH]

When I was young and in the days of my first few blow jobs, I also didn't know if I should come in the girls mouth. I always pulled out and finished on her boobs or stomach. After a few times of me doing this she finally asked me why I don't want to come in her mouth. I said that I was unsure if she wanted me to, she then told me she welcomed it . From then on I always come in a girls mouth. I love it.

[Asker]

you think its just out of not being sure? I mean I find that a turn on and really sweet, shows that some guys actually have respect lol

[IMcanadianEH]

yes I think it was me not being sure if that's what guys do or if she wanted me to or if she liked it. I'm sure if she never asked, I would of brought it up at a later date if I could come in her mouth,

[Asker]

yeah, that's understandable, thanks!