Why do guys find it necessary to jerk off?

Why do guys need to jerk it if there is a warm live body (woman) willing to go anytime you are? As well why does it bother women we all do it? Just curious?
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what if she was lying right beside you, would you still do it? If so you don't find that degrading or insulting?
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  • Because getting sex is only as easy as breathing for girls. Girls can open their legs and get sex whenever and with whomever. Guys have to find a girl who's willing and that's a lot more trouble than just jerking it. Especially, since most guys are doing it once a day, at least.

    ~Distant

    • "...getting sex is only as easy as breathing for girls. Girls can open their legs and get sex whenever and with whomever.." = doesn't mean it's good sex or that we want it that way. you've got a funny view of the female sex mate, it sounds like roman times in your world where the women are all lounging about legs spread waiting to be served, lol. anyway, we wank off as much as men, it's about knowing what you like and doing it to your own pace. makes you feel sexy esp if he's limp & you're horny

    • I think you've misread my answer. Sex is a lot easier to get for girls provided that they throw their standards out the window. Approach a stranger and he won't find you creepy. Advance on him and he's a lot less likely to turn you down than if the situation were reversed. In all your 30+ years, you've never noticed that? Funny. The question was why guys feel the need to wank when there's a woman around, not if girls wank too. So that was irrelevant. ~Distant

  • Guys do it because no girl (that I have ever met) can keep up with the male sex drive. There might be periods of days, weeks, even months where the girl wants it as much but never over the course of years. If I had a girl that was ready to go 24x7x365, I would never jerk off again.

    • I must be the minority...i can go anytime with really not much warm up

    • Any guy that is with you is a lucky man. If there is a ready willing and able girl next to you, the only reason to jerk off is if it gets her excited or you want to last longer when you are with her.

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  • Because it's nice to go solo. No one can please him more than himself

    • I disagree. Sex > Masturbation.

    • Did I say always? Uh no

    • I'm saying "Always". Pussy is WAY better than your hand. Even with good lube. You need to be a man to understand.

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  • If she's lying beside me and she's ready and everyone has the energy great!

    If she's lying beside me and she's not ready, I'd do it.

    If she's lying beside me and I lack the energy, I'd do it.

    If we're both not ready, I'd do it.

    I think that's all the outcomes ...

    • I've never related so much in my life.

  • 1. Sex is work. It just is. Sometimes you want tension release which isn't equivalent to sexual desire. It's actually very complex, surprisingly, despite the outcome being the same.

    2. It's bothersome because it's a waste of valuable seed...

    3. That question does not make sense.

  • Change of pace.

  • jerking off is like taking meth. once you start you can't stop even if you keep going till you have sores :O

    • Learn something new everyday!

  • Because sometimes we just want to get off, not have sex.

    • Update: You need to talk with him about it, and you need to get over yourself. Sometimes, he's just going to want to rub one out. Would you feel better if he hid in the bathroom?

    • Kind of yes I would feel better if he hid in the bathroom...or at least ask me to help or go down on him

    • Okay. You should say that to him. I don't think he's doing it to hurt your feelings.

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  • We were given thumbs for a reason

    • Oh if a girl was next to me I wouldn't do it lol