How to tell your boyfriend you like rough sex?

i like the routine loving gentle sex... but he is always like that. I don't want some ultra crazy, kinky,abusing sex ...but something a little rough. but I feel weird saying it wondering what he would think. I know its stupid but I feel inhibited. what's the best way to give him the message
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Have you guys tried doggy style? It's a good way to "introduce" rough sex to your routine, because it's easy for a guy to, uh, pound you.

    If you're in doggy style and he's still being really gentle, just keep saying, "harder," haha. If he doesn't get the hint, you might have to go out on that slightly awkward limb and be like, "Just go crazy. I'm in the mood for rough."

    I had to say that to my boyfriend, because he always acts like he's going to hurt me. No matter how close you two are, it can still feel weird to just say it, but seriously, it's worth it.

    • great answer, I completely agree :)

  • You shouldn't be afraid to speak your mind specially with someone you are that closed to. He might like it too he just doesn't want to say it in gear to scare you off.

    I say you plan a hot date. Get some lingerie put some candles around the room. And tell him this time I'm taking control. Tell him what you want him to do to you, he'll get the hang of it. You can also whisper to his ear very softly and in a sexy voice I want you to do me hard, I swear that'll drive him crazy and so will you ;)

    • thanks...that might help. actually we just started having sex.. so I was feeling a little weird.

    • Yw, good luck :)

Most Helpful Guy

  • If you can't tell it him, either he shouldn't be your Boyfriend ot you shouldn't be having sex yet.

    • thanks fr the advice

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