Why does doggy style hurt me so much?

my boyfriend of course absolutely LOVES that position, and I do too, mainly Because I know it gets him off so much. but we can't do it for long at all because it starts to really hurt me alot. it feels like every time he thrusts, his penis is jabbing into something way deep inside me and it hurts too much. this really bothers me Because I want us to both be able to enjoy this position. but I literally can't seem to handle it. is it something wrong that he is doing? or is there something helpful that I can do? does anyone else have/or have ever had this same problem? is there something wrong with me? please help! I want to please my boyfriend any way that I can
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im also really wondering because I love it when he goes fast and hard, and I want him to be able to do the same with doggy style. because its so hot. but it just hurts so bad when we're in that position:(
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I think the guy penetrates deeper in doggy style as opposed to other positions. He is probably hitting part of your cervix, which can be a bit painful to women. Make sure you two do some proper foreplay beforehand (Have in go down on you for a while). If you are new to sex or just a different partner, it is a common experience.

  • You haven't refuted that he has too long of a d*** and it's pounding your cervix. So just tell him thrusting is what you want but no more deep penetrations because he's hurting you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • He must putting too much of his penis in with this position. Because with doggy its easy to get a lot deeper penetration and if your boyfriend is really long he is hitting your cervix which is why your in pain. What he can do is not go all the way in and make sure your really wet.

  • That sometime happens, it can also vary depending on your time in the month. Ask him to start slow and also work with the angles, that can really help. Once you find the angle that works for you, it will be great!

  • its called your cervix. he's literally opening up your cervix that's why it hurts. I can't do doggy because it kills.

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  • This is why guys who think having a long d*** is what girls want are wrong. Your boyfriend must have a long d*** and he's pounding your cervix causing you pain rather than joy.

    • Best Answer right here. This man speaks the truth.

  • Honestly, how big is your guys d***? Lengthwise, not width. He might just be going way to far in.

  • Get on all fours and put you head on the floor and kindA spread your legs make you butt stick out

  • I've had this problem with an ex (couldn't do it doggy style it hurt her too much), sometimes a mans member is just too long and it winds up hitting your cervix, tell him not to penetrate as deep and maybe that will work.