1. Snuggle, Don’t Grope. You’re in the mood, so you reach out and grab us—our breasts, butt, or genitals, that is. Guys, believe me when I tell you that this is the biggest sin you can commit when trying to seduce a woman. It will not send us into an orgasmic swoon. (And, hey, if it does, you don’t need my advice, right?). Neither will groping us in the kitchen while we’re unloading the dishwasher.
These inept moves don’t get us all hot and bothered — they just upset us. Try hugging or kissing. Hold and squeeze our hand. Unload the dishwasher yourself. Women want to feel connected to our partners—in ways that don’t always involve sex.
As guys, you see something sexy and suddenly you’re in the mood for sex, ready to go. You pick up the mail, there’s a Victoria Secret catalog in the box, and next thing we know you’re sniffing in our direction like a dog expecting a treat. But women don’t work like that. We may see something that’s sexy, and that something may even be you, but we don’t suddenly want to have sex. That’s where men and women differ: You have to actually put us in the mood. You have to make us feel sexy and make us want to be sexual.
Here’s a tip: Did you know that studies show that if you hug for partner for 30 seconds it raises her oxytocin levels? Oxytocin is a hormone that makes us feel loving and connected and helps put us in the mood. So start with a hug.
Is she just holding out on you, has the opportunity just not arose, is she declining your advances.. or what's going on here?
Have you tried just walking up behind her, kissing her on the neck, rubbing her shoulders, rubbing her back. That stuff gives me goosebumps. I usually turn around and give him a kiss. And a kiss turns into an entire make out session. And that makeout session turns into clothes being thrown on the floor.
Is she being unfaithful 2 u? Don't take it the wrong way but I know I personally can't go very long with out getting me some. Hell I was jus bitchin 2 my man last night because we hadn't had sex in 3 days. It's just a thought.
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Just say that. Tell her that your a faithful guy but that can only last so long when your not getting any!
That'd be really off-putting imo. I don't know why she's not having sex with him, but if she's just not giving him any, isn't in the mood, or whatever, coming off like that to her isn't going to get the job done lol.
Sex is none too wise, that's why she's not game.
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