Tips on first time anal sex?

[Anonymous]

My girl and I have spoken about anal sex before and she has always insisted it will never happen. She tried it once with an ex and obviously didn't like it. The other night after some great sex she says maybe it's time to try another spot. When I asked what she meant she basically said anal sex. This will be my first time doing that and her second. Ladies, can you give me tips on how to make it work for her? What to do and especially what not to do so she'll enjoy it?

[Anonymous]

LUBE LUBE LUBE the more the better its going to be. Make sure she's really ready worked up have vaginal sex for a little bit that will help as well. When starting anal start with oral and use a finger while your giving oral the main thing is to make sure she is relaxed if she tenses up it will hurt. Once she is OK with the figure try using two fingers. I don't like fingers at all there so she maybe one of the few she may not be. Then your going to want to move to a toy make sure you use a lot of lube yes some women like it with out but she's already scared to to this so use lube and lots of it. Once she gets used to the toy then you can then you can use the penis make sure you use lube. I can't stress lube enough. Start very slow once you get the head in stop let her get use to it. Push a little in at a time and stop and keep that up till your fully in. Best position to try anal for the first time is have her lay on her back you get on top. I'm saying this is that way you can see each others faces and you can rub her clit as your going in to her because that will help her relax and make it more enjoyable for her. Start really slow and if she's alright go a little faster if need be pull out and put more lube on and if you can put some inside of her. You can also pull almost all the way out and just pour it on you that way too. The thing to remember with this is that it sometimes hurts at first that's why I said you can watch her face and stop and let her get used to it. Just don't rush with this. And lube lube and lube the more the better. Your better using too much then not enough. The second most Important thing to remember is for t relax and not think about what your getting ready to do or it will hurt.This is something that woman either love or hate there is no middle ground with it. When you are getting ready to use your penis have her spread her but cheeks because this dose help a lot with getting the head in I learned this trick after about the 4th time just relax and have a good time and remember Rome wasn't built in a day. Sometimes it takes a few time to fully get. But I have bigger O with anal and its just a completely different feeling. And I hear for men as well its a different feeling a well.

[kat330]

First off I'll let you know I really really love it! Take your time with her,do forplay make her so wet she's about to come,get some lube if she don't get wet enough ,slide it in very slowly or actually let her guide you in so she can be incontrol till she's comfy with it in..start movin slowly so it won't hurt because it really does till you get used to it lol. After a few times it gets easier and better! I do toys and all in there lol ..fun stuff .! Good luck hope that helps!

[archer86]

Anal sex is fun but it can also be a royal pain in the ass(pun). There are times that no matter what you do, the internal mechanics of the human body simply will not allow you to do what you want to and when. With that said, allow me to dive into the topic.

You want to conduct some pre-sex preparations such as enemas and anal douches. If you know in advance that anal sex is on the menu, try to drink lots of fluids and less foods in order to clear out the internal bowels. Unlike p*rn sex, you will need plenty of lube for penetration, particularly if the inserting object is large and wide. During the initial penetration, do it very very slowly and I cannot emphasize this enough. Also, if the tool doing the fun is large, you don't want to do it for a long period of time because this wears out the hole quite raw. The results being that you won't be able to sleep for a while and any bowels movements that does occur is going to be a rough time on the chamber pot.

If for some reason you can't clear out the rectum no matter how many cleansings you conduct, you just won't be able to do it. Try some other time.

This is what I've read in several magazines and how-to sex videos. I personally have never been given the pleasure of conducting anal on a babe. Seems I must keep searching more. Hope this info helps

[Jager66]

fast, hard, dry

[Anonymous]

You'll ruin her anus. They arnt designed to be penetrated. The walls will weaken eventually and she'll have problems going to the toilet.