Why does a guy come quick? Does it mean he has not had sex in a while?

[Anonymous]

I moved across country about 6 weeks ago, I was not in a serious relationship but I had a special male friend I had been seeing for the past year. He was the only person I was sleeping with and I'm pretty sure he was messing with other women, I think. Well as planned I saw him the night before I left and it was cool. We talk now that I'm gone and he said he was going to come visit and I didn't think he would. I am very picky about who I sleep with so I had have not had sex since I moved. Well to my pleasent surprise, my friend came to visit me for the weekend, which was cool. Well we had sex 3 times the first time I will just say I took care of him, I knew we needed to get the first on out. The next 2 times we were getting it in and he came and was like he was sorry he didn't mean to cum, and keep trying to but, he keep cumming, what does this mean? Is he not having sex with anyone else like I thought or he is starting to have feelings, he knows I like and care about him, but he knows I will not press him in to anything also, he normally doesn't come quick I know that's why I have been with only him for a year! Is everything ok, and by the way he shocked me when he left and kissed me and said he will be back soon very soon.

[katiesmuff]

If you are not playing with us here, you have a guy who thinks the world of you. Doesn't sound to me like he is messing around. Not cheap to travel anywhere any more so if he thinks enough of you to do that it is a definite positive sign. The fact that he is cumming like he does is probably due to several things including really liking you and excited about getting between your legs again and not seeing someone else when he is home. If a guy was getting steady pussy at home he is not going to spend the cash to travel across country to get what he is already getting at home!

[Asker]

I was just checking because other then us hanging out at the house time to time he never had time to go out in public, I guess that's why he confused me. Thanks I needed an outside opinion

[my2847]

He is not having sex with anyone but you I would say. I have gone on a no sex no masturbating for a few months and then its like "THE HOLY GRAIL" all over again and my wife knows that there is no way I will last long. So in my opinion if he can''t hold back, then it's because he isn't getting it anywhere else. The reason he couldn't last and isn't getting any from anyone else, yup bet he has feelings for you. Why else would a guy not get any unless he only wants it from one person.