Women think with their vaginas, why do they blame men for thinking with their penises?

[Anonymous]

They realize nice guys treat them with respect, but they would never date them. Nice guys are like little brothers to them. Thanks to their vaginas they date the guys who treat them like sh*t (even though they aren't emotionally attracted to bad boys, they simply are sexually attracted to them). Intelligent women would never allow men to treat them like sh*t. The vagina lowers a woman's IQ. Isn't it funny that they blame men for thinking with their d***s?

[LuvBiddy]

I hate to agree with you, but it's true that often times girls go for the bad boys with confidence. Unfortunately, these bad boys do not gain confidence from doing good things like volunteering, reading books, or tutoring. They are confident for getting a lot of women to fool around with them, which is what makes them bad news. You can't get someone like that to make any kind of commitment to you because at his current life stage, he lacks character. Not only that, but fooling around does not make a person more interesting. It's actually a drawback because it means the person's priorities are all messed up.

[Asker]

"these bad boys do not gain confidence from doing good things like volunteering, reading books, or tutoring" it's not about confidence. many nice guys are confident. it's about acting macho and tough. girls love getting humiliated by guys cause it makes them look more feminine/makes the guy look more manly. a confident nice guy won't get a girl, a confident bad boy will.

[LuvBiddy]

"girls love being humiliated by guys" - not true. if the girls had any idea what these guys were saying behind their backs, they would run for the hills. confident nice guys do get girls, but they don't try to get a lot of them. they go for the one that they want, and they are snatched up just as quickly as the girls that are most desirable.

[thatcrazygirl21]

The reason women don't date nice guys is because most of them lack confidence. They date the jerks because for some strange reason, they have confidence. It's just like the guys who date the skanks because they have size 0 bodies with 38 DD boobs and a butt of the size of a minivan. Guys wouldn't date the good girls because guys think of them as "one of the boys."

I rather date a nice guy even though there are nice guys who cheat on their girlfriends.

[Asker]

Most nice guys are confident. Being disrespectful to someone doesn't mean you are confident. Girls confuse nice with being weak. That's the main problem. Thing is, that's not true. Just look at Barack Obama. He's what you'd call a nice guy. He's confident and powerful, yet his woman looks like an ugly monkey. Hot women would never date him. They'd rather date a retarded bad boy.

[Kadiboma]

Hear hear, my point exactly. Well put.

[thatcrazygirl21]

These jerks have confidence as in they know what they want and they go after it. They don't second guess themselves. By the way, do you personally know Obama? How do you know he is nice? How do you know that hot women wouldn't date him? The nice boy needs to be speak up and fight for what he wants.

[Asker]

You still don't get it. Many nice guys have confidence, know what they want and go for it. They approach women, yet they get rejected. Why? Because they are nice. Women mistake nice guys for weak guys. It's ridiculous. I am a very confident nice guy, but I treat women with respect. If I treated them like sh*t, they'd think I'm manly (how sad is this?)... in this case they'd give me a chance...

[thatcrazygirl21]

Well then you have been chasing the wrong type of women then. Because I know lots of females who don't want to be treated like sh*t. I've gone up to many guys and been treated with disrespect. Same with many women. Guys just want their slutty girlfriends with their boobs out. What you are saying is the same way us females see it.

[lananoel]

lol.. Agreed. My female friends only seem to like men they can't control. By control I mean get an eye to eye level of respect. I don't get it and never will... The behavior is the same between sexes but fail to acknowledge it. For some reason trying to tame the untameable bad boy is so much fun for them. They think vagina will get the job done and it DOES NOT.

[LuvBiddy]

Yup. Sex does not cement a relationship.

[Raider_Z]

Stop trying to be "friends first." This is why you fail.

[irykiryk]

I know right... Hypocrites.

[udolipixie]

Thinking with your genitalia doesn't lead to smart decisions.

But why would a guy want a girl to be with him because he's nice & not because she likes his personality and finds him physical attractive (good to look at) & sexually attractive (can imagine themselves kissing him/having sex with him)?

Do you want to date anyone who treats you with respect regardless of how they look?

[Cassie16]

I'm sorry, I don't think that way.

And this is definitely a stereotype!?

[toulouse]

oops.. TYPO ;) " imo People who think / operate mainly based on physical attraction, negating character as a valuable source of judgement, are shallow and will produce shallow relationships."

[toulouse]

I do not care I a guy thinks with his penis, I just would not date/ f*** him. RESPECT- giving & receiving it, is most important to me, in all relations, within all aspects of life.

imo People who think / operate mainly based on physical negating character as a valuable source of judgement, attraction, that are shallow and will produce shallow relationships. I certainly do not envy them- I do not even really want to be around them at all.

[Shaun]

You and me both.

[Kadiboma]

Haha, you don't know women very well do you? The reason that a lot of women go for bad boys is because of their confidence, it's very attractive. It gets too much after a while usually, but for the short-term it's exciting and thrilling. It's got nothing to do with thinking with our vaginas! Whereas men...? You guys get turned on by photos of women you've never met with their boobs out - that's why they're page 3 GIRLS, that's why it's half naked GIRLS on the front of men's mags and none of men on the front of women's mags etc etc etc. I could go on, but I think I've made my point...

[Shaun]

Being a woman who only likes confident men is like being a bank that only loans money to people who don't need it. Confidence in men comes from success with women. The success with women must come first. If every woman refuses to build up confidence in a man, eventually most women will be without a man, as the supply of confident men dries up.

[Asker]

Most nice guys are confident. Being disrespectful to someone doesn't mean you are confident. Girls confuse nice with being weak. That's the main problem. Thing is, that's not true. Just look at Barack Obama. He's what you'd call a nice guy. He's confident and powerful, yet his woman looks like an ugly monkey. Hot women would never date him. They'd rather date a retarded bad boy.

[Kadiboma]

So you need to bed loads of women to build your confidence? (I take it that's what 'success' is to you)? Well that's not attractive either, a man who is confident in himself and who he is is what is attractive. And I'm not saying I don't like guys who are shy around girls, that can be lovely too, as long as there is a certain level of self-confidence that goes with it. Your answer saddens me, you shouldn't need women to 'build up' your confidence!?

[Shaun]

You're hot. You sound like you'd date him. But back to my point. I think you missed it.

[Kadiboma]

Well thank you. :) But I didn't miss your point. I can see why men get annoyed and feel they can't win.

[Shaun]

No, men don't need to bed loads of women to build confidence. The point is that women really are missing out if they insist that the man have confidence right out of the gate. They won't have it unless they've had success with women. So if that's their overriding concern, they are going to end up with players who have plenty of options and who will put up with far less garbage.

[Kadiboma]

As I said, I do see your point. I think there's a lot of miscommunication between men and women, and a lot of confusion... hence my username! lol

[Asker]

AGAIN: most nice guys are confident. The reason that a lot of women go for bad boys is NOT because of their confidence, it's because bad boys treat them like sh*t. They think those guys are strong and dominant, but the truth is... a strong man doesn't need to put a woman down in order to feel like a man. You women don't get it...

[goflipaburger]

Um, how does thinking with a vagina lead someone to date an asshole?There's no logic in that.

And I don't date sh*tty guys or "bad boys." Stop generalizing

By the way, I probably have a higher IQ than you do. Actually, I'm 99% sure I do.

So stop while you're ahead, because you're making yourself look like a misogynistic pig.

[Asker]

Desperately trying to prove you're superior to me doesn't impress me at all. In fact, it's pathetic. There is no logic in that? Look, I don't blame you. Women don't think rationally/they don't see logic in anything. Women think with their heart (emotionally) and with their vaginas (sexually). They see a nice guy ("aww he treats me with respect, aww he's so cute") and reject him. They see a bad boy ("uhh he treats me like sh*t. uhh he's so manly") and drool all over him.

[Asker]

Women are easy to manipulate. Even though I know they are simple puppets, I treat them with respect. It takes a lot of strength to respect women. Many guys (bad boys) are unable to take them seriously and I don't blame them.

[goflipaburger]

I barely need to try, and the point wan't to impress you. I think YOU think women don't think rationally, because if women didn't we wouldn't be alive. Rationality is what allows humans to survive. And what does thinking with a vagina have to do with rejecting nice guys? I think you're just butt hurt because no one likes you. In case you haven't realized this yet: you're not a nice guy, you're a gaping asshole.

[goflipaburger]

Also, it's likely you're lacking a bit of logic because the "thinking with your penis" scenario works logically like this: If a guy thinks with his "penis" (which is mere representation for sex drive), then he will likely seek a partner solely for the act of sex." So your logic in making a new one for women that is : Women think with their vaginas, therefore they choose bad guys. Makes no logical sense.

[Asker]

Lol you're so funny. How am I supposed to take you seriously? You're unable to understand simple things and you're unable to debate. Do you know what the opposite of rational is? Irrational, right. Women are irrational/emotinal, men are rational. Women need men in order to survive. They need protection. They need men to take the lead. That's one of the main reasons why they date bad boys. Nice guys expect women to think for themselves -> they treat them like humans/treat them equally.

[Asker]

"So your logic in making a new one for women that is : Women think with their vaginas, therefore they choose bad guys." They choose bad boys because they are sexually attracted to them. They only date them because they think they are sexy (= they think with their vagina). They don't date them because they like them. It isn't that hard to understand, einstein ;)

[goflipaburger]

Wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooow you're so stupid. I'm a perfectly rational human being, and if you were at all rational you would agree. And I don't need a man to survive. Millions of women go everyday without a man. We don't need you. Also, let me point out that a recent study on suicide found that most men under the age of 30 who committed suicide did it because they couldn't find a girlfriend; so who needs who is definitely in question.

[goflipaburger]

And I'm sexually attracted to nice guys, as are ALL the girls I know. Therefore, I only date nice guys. You're just so dumb. Go to school or something. You're just a vile human being.

[Asker]

They commit suicide because they need love. They don't need a woman who takes the lead/who protects them. That's the difference. By the way, I really hope you're not attracted to nice guys. You are such a bitchy and frustrated young girl (but cute, I must admit), you don't deserve them. I need to go to school? Not really, I'm already at university.

[goflipaburger]

I'm not a bitch, you're just stupid and offensive. Learn something at your university, or transfer. You clearly aren't learning very much.

[cuteLiLbunny]

i'm alittle confused about your question, I like nice guys. and yes I am sexually attracted to them. and I don't see how sexual attraction lowers IQ

[Anonymous]

Because penis wants vagina but vagina wants money.

[Asker]

lol bad boys don't have money

[Opinion Owner]

I don't want bad boys I want rich men.

[taster]

which confirms what we always suspected! lol

[Josht]

u better have some big boobs then

[Anonymous]

Because vaginas are intelligent and penis's are stupid.