I like when my boyfriend is dominant and want him to "punish me"...

i really like when my boyfriend slaps my ass and ties me up & does a bunch of other dominant things. but what I really want him to do is just hold me down and tell me I was a bad girl and keep slapping my ass as hard as he can and just finger f*** me or do whatever he wants to punish me. how can I ask him to do this without him thinking I'm weird?
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  • oh god..that reminds me of my bf! "youve been a bad girl. you know what bad girls get?" then strips me off and spank/ kisses top to bottom/ teases me! then thrust slowing and half way :(

    im one of the shy types too...and I don't think its weird! if he really loved you...i doubt he'd care! maybe he's into it too! just hint it if anything or do it to him lol

    and how is what you want weirder than your boyfriend spanking you and tying you up? ha ha its almost the same!

  • I had the same problem with my ex. I just wanted to be totally dominated and be his 'little slut', and I approached him about it but he really wasn't comfortable with it :(

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  • That's a very common type of request, and given that he already does similar things, he's probably only going to be excited to "try it out" once you tell him. It's not very far from what you already do, so there's little danger in him being offended or turned off at all.

  • you could try finding some videos of it and watching them with him and tell him you liked it

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  • Send him this post.

  • You can't. But that's okay; he'll probably do it for you anyway.

  • lol he won't think its weird, lol you have to dive in and try new things! :)

    my boyfriend found out a lot about me by trying things lol

  • i love this. I don't think its weird. I think he would be weird if he doesn't dig it. just ask what he's into, fetish and all and slide this concept into the discussion.