Why don't a large portion of women like getting eaten out?

[Thanatos]

I love going down on the women I'm with, every feeling, sound, taste, etc.. If I could, I'd do it every day (minus period). I like to do this, yet for some reason, the majority of women I've been with don't like a guy's mouth down there. I can finger them, have sex with them, even use toys, but no oral. Why is it ladies, that I hear you all complaining about a guy refusing to return the favor, but yet I know a lot of guys whose girls don't want them to. What gives?

[Anonymous]

I'm self conscious of how I look 'down there', smell and taste too.

I'm sure that is probably why some women will not let guys go down on them.

Also if the guy is not good at it.

But I really want to be eaten out, but I do not have a 'slit' or 'barely any' lips down there. They do not protrude past my outer labia, but they aren't small.

And even though I clean myself everyday, and would have a shower before doing anything 'mischievous' I still worry about smell..

Also, TASTE. I worry so much that I will taste bad... But that problem is easily solved with a diet change (I actually wrote an article on how to improve your taste 'down there', for men and women! link )

But my biggest fears are obviously looks and smell - looks more so then smell..

[Thanatos]

As far as looks go, I had a girlfriend similar who had 'equipment' similar to what you described. I find nothing wrong with that. Just like the male penis, every vagina is structured differently. Some are loose, some are tight, some have large lips, some have none at all. Clits can be big or small. It all just depends on the person. So don't worry! Hopefully you will find a guy who you will be comfortable enough with to let him give you that experience!

[Lexxers]

I know some girls who feel uncomfortable when their boyfriends go down on them, even though it feels good, because they aren't completely secure with themselves. I don't think I would have a problem with it if I knew the guy well enough, because I am comfortable with my own body.

I think it's a sense of self-esteem. If the girl does not like her figure, or has issues with her body, then having someone that close to that area would be embarrassing, even if the guy expressed his interest.

[selfishstars]

I love it.

I think that a lot of girls who don't like it, don't enjoy it because they are self-conscious, and there are a lot of guys out there who contribute to that. Girls overhear guys talking about how a girl looked, smelled, or tasted bad and then girls worry that that will be the case for them---so they either refuse to let a guy go down on them, or if they do let him, they have a hard time relaxing and enjoying it because they're worrying about whether they taste or smell bad.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

1 guy enjoys being eaten out :P

and I imagine that quite a few girls probably have had p*ss poor experiences or they have been so self conscious that they could never enjoy ti no matter how good it was and so they reinforce in themselves that it's bad/not good/whatever.

[thisGUYknows]

i've been with one girl who didn't want me to. I guess she was self conscience about it. I know that more girls orgasm with oral sex and finger play than intercourse itself. but this girl was able to orgasm with intercourse.

[eithyy]

The majority of women you've been with is not the same as the majority of women. Plenty of women like oral. You just have to find them. It does help, too, if you really know what you're doing.

[eithyy]

Update: Ah, yes. See! They like it. They just don't know they like it until they let you try. A lot of women are so caught up in the smell or taste that they refuse to let a guy down there without some serious convincing on his part.

[smilesgirl]

Well, if they don't, that's news to me...I would think, in reality, most love getting it, 'cause I know a lot of women only get off this way. I love it-- feels unlike anything else. Regardless of how good the sex is, nothing replaces the incrEDIBLE feeling. :) LOL

[tyt_2012]

All the girls who votes, votes yes. That shows most girls do like getting oral. You must be going with woman who are insecure about their vagina and the smell, look and taste of it. Personally, nothing would turn me on more than a guy eating me out.

[tyt_2012]

Update: Good for you, that's how it should be.

[htowngeorge]

I know you're not exactly polling me, but... I love everything about them head to toe, and when it gets down to it, that's euphoric to me and it's my thing. I'd rather do that then anything else (PERIOD)!

[Shaun]

Whaaaaaaa?

[nickiagney]

I'm pretty sure I want someone who's good at it :P

[Anonymous]

only guys with small d***s eat girls out

[nickiagney]

hahaha that's not true sweetie.

[Thanatos]

Most women orgasm through clitoral stimulation vs. penetration. It's a proven scientific fact. Also, if she goes down on you, why not return the favor? Finally, I have a rather nice endowment thank you very much.

[Anonymous]

well that large portion of woman havnt a clue what they're missin out on :) I LOVE it.

[Anonymous]

I think the girls who don't like it might just be self-conscious. I used to not let guys go down on me because I thought my own vagina was gross or something.

[Anonymous]

At first I didn't like it because I was self conscious, but after he convinced me he loved my stuff I really enjoyed it :)

[Anonymous]

I love it! I don't think I've ever denied my boyfriend access haha. Maybe other girls find it embarrassing? I'm not sure, but I know the first time around I was very shy about it. They shouldn't knock it before they try it :)