How should I react to my guy jacking off when I'm around?

I'm not sure how to react to this situation- for the second time I have heard my boyfriend jacking off in the shower. I don't think he realizes it, but it is completely obvious to be. I can hear him lie down, the splashing of the water and he is doing the deed, and his heavy breathing. I'm not sure why he has chosen to do this when I am only 10 feet away in the other room, some insight is welcomed. Also, how do I react; should I bring it up or let it be? Should I make a joke about it the next time he does it, create a serious conversation about it, or just never mention it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You should walk in the shower with him. Then start helping him. If not tell him u want 2 watch him jacking off. Then u will see if he really likes you. Why I say that if he does really like you. He will either keep jacking off for u. If not he will ask you 2 join in. Don't be afraid cause I know u want 2 see him jacking off.

  • maybe he isn't masturbating, maybe he just gets soap in his eyes... A LOT!

    • lol!

Most Helpful Girls

  • unless he's not interested in having sex with you I don't see why you'd feel like you need to say anything to him. Do you think he's doing he because he knows you can hear him? cause if that's the case then maybe he's being passive aggressive something to do with your sex life...

  • It's funny you're worried about how to react. How does it make you feel? That should tell you whether you need to say something to him or not, but you shouldn't be worried about how you should feel - just how you do feel.

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  • Does he close the bathroom door? If so you should lean against it and plead him to "beat it harder for (your name)" or something comical like that. Or "oh (name) are you choking your chicken? I know you're jerking off in there, save some for me." Relationships need humor

  • Let it be. If he wants an interruption, he'll ask.

  • lol I would jus make a joke about it

  • Leave it be. You wouldn't like it if he made a big deal about your masturbatory habits.

  • Don't say a word. Get naked and walk in on him and ask him if you can help in any way.

  • make a joke about it and then offer to do it for him

  • Walk in and watch him and help him do it sometimes...

  • It is what dudes do. Only way he will do it less is if you do stuff so he don'r have to.

  • Why do you care? What next.. do you want him to stop breathing when you're around?