If she's on RELIABLE birth control, rhythm method does NOT count, then it should be fine. However I do not abdicate lack of condoms for several reasons.
1) Girls, especially when they lose there virginity, tend to freak out about the chances of pregnancy. You want her to enjoy this, not in two weeks time when she's calculated her period wrong to be scared witless.
2) It's your first time, you're PROBABLY, not going to last terribly long and wearing a condom will help to maintain your stamina for a little bit longer. Also, if you were planning on pull out method (don't!) you might ejaculate too quickly to be able to pull out.
3) It says you're under 18, if anything should go wrong, either with birth control or pull out method (I do not recommend pull out method WHAT SO EVER) you are probably not in a financially stable time of your life to raise a child. If you can avoid that, do it. Seriously.
SO, if she's on RELIABLE birth control and has been for a while, you CAN have sex fairly safely without a condom. I don't really recommend it at your age but here's some things to know if you do do bareback.
-When you ejaculate inside a girl, it will make a mess. She will need to a) pee and b) shower afterward because being soaked to the brim in semen can be slightly uncomfortable (not sore, just annoying) if you wait too long to clean up. Also, if she doesn't shower, she could easily contract a yeast infection or UTI neither of which are fun.
-PLEASE get her off before you start having sex. If you've just ejaculated in her and she hasn't orgasmed, the likelihood of you eating her out or fingering her drop considerably. Men are like eww, I don't like my seminal fluid gross and just don't do anything. <--selfish lover
Main thing, if you choose to go down this path, make sure she's alright with it. My ex boyfriend mentioned once before I lost my virginity that we should do it without a condom and I freaked out. It took 6 months of being on birth control for me to be alright with him ejaculating inside of me. And I STILL took a pregnancy test every month... Just be prepared that you could be opening a can of worms here.
thanks! so you allowed your ex to ejaculate in you for your first time? it would be great if I don't have to use a condom and also not pulling out. and thanks, I will get her off first!
I didn't allow my ex to ejaculate in me my first time. It was 6 months in to our relationship before I was comfortable with that. And I was on birth control. Please for the love of all that is holy use birth control.
dont do the pull out method, you have to know when to pull out, I've only done it 1 time and no I didn't use a condom
Make sure there is some other sort of contraception (eg, her being on the pill).
Also keep in mind that STDs aren't only passed through intercourse. There are cases where performing and receiving oral sex with various partners has spread STDs.
So if you two have been smart about any experiences with other people and each other, and if there is some other form of pregnancy contraception currently being used, a condom is not 100% necessary.
I wouldn't advise you to sideline condoms every time though, it's always good to habitually practice safe sex.
Definitely do not do it without a condom. You aren't use to pulling out or even knowing when to. Usually when a guy looses his virginity it doesn't last long at all and he busts pretty sudden. You can't really prepare for things like that because honestly no one has a clue what to really do their first time. If you insist on not using a condom then have her be put on birth control. But also remember that it takes awhile before the birth control is fully into her system and working usually.
STDs aren't the sole purpose. Pregnancy is another risk. And don't you dare underestimate that risk.
Also, don't be too positive you don't have an STD. While it being sexually transmitted is a possibility, there are other ways to get them. Brief exposure to blood at the right places can be enough. Remember the twilight fad from a while back where people actually did suck each others' blood? STD fest. Hell, you can even 'inherit' them from your parents if you're unlucky, after which the disease may lie dormant. And they might be spontaneous anyhow. Think lice, viral fungi, etc
So, if you're absolutely, positively sure you have no stds, you can swap to another contraceptive.
When using the pill, however, DO BE MINDFUL OF HOW IT WORKS. You cannot expect her to chug one and be protected. It takes a while, OR there has to be a certain timing. Then, of course, a safety margin of one or two weeks is still a wise thing to do, reducing the risk of pregnancy even more. So go to the doctor, get educated about how it works, and read the leaflet that comes with it. The side effects might not be pleasant.
Also: Do note that losing one's virginity is highly overrated. Talk all you want about 'experiencing the moment to its fullest', chances are you both belong to the great majority where nerves and initial excitement will make it unpleasant. Think premature ejaculation for you. As for the woman, it might even hurt due to UNconscious muscle contraction from the nervousness.
FWIW,
Tim
Use a condom anyway. Chances are really, really, really, really good that you'll come too quickly without one. And although I never found a condom to interfere with the feeling, some people think it does. But that will actually be better for you, being your first time. You will make her happier.
Besides, even if she is a virgin, she can still have Herpes, HPV, or almost any other STD.
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man! these people are so paranoid! there is no need to do a whole gynaecology class here. do it if she is comfortable with it and don't ejaculate inside her. if you think you can't hold the first time then you can jerk off first ... then you can enter in the next session and when you feel who are going to come just withdraw...! and I don't think pre come leads to pregnancy..thats like rarest of the rare case
Yeah, but it CAN happen. Why take the risk, seriously.
i don't think you should be so worried. the man here can read all opinions and do what he wants
what you talking about pre-cums more effective then reg come to get her preg
hey but look I m sure you both are under 18 so please won't let her pregnent else everything is fine :) enjoy
So, you're talking about full-on, unprotected sex, right?
What things should you prepare for and consider if you do it without protection? You better prepare to be a daddy.
Always use protection.
Go ahead and enjoy Man. But make sure you won't Cum in her and make her pregnant.
You're going to orgasm way to fast at your age anyway. You will even with the condom, but at least she'll get a little more out of it!
I never noticed a significant difference between with or without a condom.
Just make sure she's on birth control for a full month BEFORE you do it and you'll be fine. Have her do the depo shot. That way you don't have to worry about her screwing up the pill.
Have her get the shot and a month later you can pound away at your leisure and bust both your nuts straight into her hot wet hungry snatch. I'm sure you'll both love it.
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the chances are very very slim... I have been doing it for quiet some time... never got pregnant... even a condom can break open
You obviously have never been with a guy who is a virgin.
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