Men, size DOES matter?

[Anonymous]

Normally when I get on here and write something, I give long descriptive details. But I will try and keep this short. In a way, size DOES matter. Let's be real here. When it comes to intercourse most girls if not all, but definitely most girls would not WANT their man to have a 3 inch penis when erect. Now while most girls, lets say watching a p*rno, sees a guy with a 10 inch d***, they would think damn, that's a nice looking cock. But if their man pulled down his pants when he was erect and had a 10 inch d***, she's probably going to run away. So in this sense size DOES matter. Now lets flip it to the side where size doesn't matter. If the guy has a personality that the girl likes, has sex appeal, and knows what he is doing when it comes to foreplay then size really doesn't matter. Hell, the guy could have no d*** at all and the girl could be satisfied. So guys, in the end, size does NOT truly matter. BUT in the sense that being too damn small, or too damn big, size does matter because the small guys might get looked over, and the big guys the girls are staying away from. Now I know this doesn't mean all women, but most women feel this way. So guys who are 5,6,7 hell even 4 inches. If you know how to please your woman, then your size, regardless if you grew an inch or two, or shrunk an inch or two, will be the perfect size for your girl. The reason why I made this title "size DOES matter" is so that men will click on it and be like woah, I knew it mattered! and then read this, and then the comments from women and realize it doesn't matter. Are there some women who think bigger the better... sure of course, but honestly, those women you probably wouldn't want to date in the first place for other reasons... So don't even waste your time. Also why worry about something you can't change. Sure you can get surgery but trust me it isn't worth it, not to mention it can have you ending up never being able to get hard again if the surgery goes wrong. So guys who are insecure, stop, that's where your problem lies. If you have confidence in yourself, believe it or not, you WILL see an improvement in your love making skills... Just saying. Well there goes trying to keep it short and to the point.. xD

[Anonymous]

There's nothing wrong with a girl wanting a bigger d***. What's wrong is the way some girls treat guys with small d***s. The comments some guys post on this site about things girls have said to them are ridiculous. Girls, there's no reason to be mean or laugh at a guy for being small - it's not his fault, and it's completely out of his control. Blaming him for it is like blaming a type I diabetic for not being able to make insulin. Chances are that he already feels insecure about it (for obvious reasons). Why cause somebody more pain, especially when they've done nothing to deserve it?

Maybe a few of you reading this mistreat small guys and justify your actions because you're annoyed/angry with them for "wasting your time." If that's the case, do you really expect somebody with unfortunate genetics to go their whole lives without trying to find love? Other people have hopes, dreams, and feelings just like you. They have one life just like you - it's all they're ever going to experience, and it carries just as much significance as yours does whether you value it or not [[I'm not making any statements about religion here...don't read too far into it]]. If you had a similar problem, I seriously doubt you would choose to completely give up and miss out on some of the greatest experiences in life just so that you don't cause anybody a minor inconvenience. As people, all we can really do is take what we've been given and try to do the absolute best we can with it. You can't blame a guy with a small d*** for trying (granted that he isn't intentionally misleading you about his size for an extended period of time...that's wrong, too).

If you're never going to be happy with a small guy, there's nothing wrong with leaving him as long as you're tactful about it. I just don't get why society sees having a small d*** as such a shameful thing (and even condones/encourages the shaming). Shaming isn't acceptable when you're talking about learning disabilities, mental retardation, or Huntington's disease (all of which eventually limit your opportunities for employment, but won't cause you to be mocked during your job interview), so why should it be for anything else that's always been completely beyond somebody's control?

[Anonymous]

There are about a 1000 girls who've said on this site repeatedly, that size does not matter.

And a tiny fraction who say it does.

You ignore the majority because you WANT to believe that your small d*** is a problem.

Lesbians don't even have a d***, and they are capable of bringing their partner to orgasm using mouth, fingers and toys. You think a guy with a small d*** has less to work with than a lesbian?

The fact is, young guys may be worried about the size of their d***s, but most guys as they get older, realize that the d*** is just one more tool in a very large tool box.

It's the sad pathetic types (who usually wind up paying some Dominatrix to call them small d***ed worms so they can get their rocks off) who obsess about d*** size until they are old and grey.

It's not enough for them to feel sorry about having a small d***. They desperately want the entire world to confirm that it's a big problem. And when they don't, they come to places like this to INSIST time and time again that it's a massive problem. And if 1000 women said it wasn't, and one girl said it was, they'd seize on that one girl and loudly proclaim "You see? ALL GIRLS WANT A BIG DICK!" And happily ignore the 1000 who disagreed with them.

You're pathetic. Truly pathetic. For reasons that have nothing to do with your d***.

[Asker]

You do realize that I was saying that size doesn't matter right? I even stated that if a guy knew what he was doing, he doesn't even need a d*** to satisfy his woman. Which will coincide with your lesbian section.

[timetowaste]

You might not need a d*** to satisfy a girl in the sense of getting her to orgasm, but there's something a **** inside you that feels so damn good. And I don't think I could go without that. Don't even mention toys 'cause they aren't even in the same ballpark. It just doesn't feel the same.

[moloz]

This isn't something most girls admit, thank you I guess.

[timetowaste]

Why are people thinking I'm talking about size here? I'm just talking about disagreeing with the fact that a man wouldn't need a d*** at all in order for me to be satisfied. Clearly misunderstood.

[moloz]

I meant the d*** part feels good. :D

[timetowaste]

I'm not sure why people would be so against my thinking penetration is something that's very pleasurable to me lol. Isn't that how it's supposed to be? Why all the thumbs down hate lol.

[moloz]

The purist girls that think you're a slut, probably. Or the guys that think you lie.

[ihatework]

people are reading it wrong I guess

[Asker]

I'm not saying that it is preferred or that they should not use their d***, just saying it's possible to please a girl without one, so if they can do it without a d***, then using their d*** regardless of the size will make her feel even better when doing it right after foreplay. And if I was you, I wouldn't go without that, that's like a guy saying he doesn't want his d*** in a girls p**** lol its ludicrous. ha ha wasn't going to, toy is rubber or plastic, a real d*** is warm and has a pulse. xD

[udolipixie]

Size matters.

No amount of good foreplay makes up for sucky sex.

[Asker]

So what you just said to me is that the size of the d*** determines whether or not the sex is going to be good.

[udolipixie]

Yes micro d*cks (yes they exist) aren't gonna have much.

[udolipixie]

* much luck LOL on the thumbs down damn why are guys so emotional over their size?

[Asker]

Okay, did you not read what I wrote at all? Re-read the first 14 lines. And try to argue with me that what I stated is incorrect.

[Asker]

Also, I did not give you thumbs down, to prove it I will give you a thumbs up. Since I can't rate more than once.

[udolipixie]

Yeah and you put 3 inches sorry but I add 4/5 inches to a step above micro.

[Asker]

Wait wait wait... so you are saying that anything under 8 or so inches is considered a micro d***. And that 8 inches would just be "a step above micro," meaning 8 inches is still small.

[udolipixie]

I out 4/5 inches is a step above micro. Where did you get 8?

[Asker]

Because you clearly wrote "add 4/5 inches"... so adding 5 inches to 3 would be 8.

[udolipixie]

I meant I add guys with 4 or 5 inches as a step above micro aka small but not micro

[Asker]

Okay,lets just go with 5 inches here. Since that is a step above micro like you stated, and you stated that "micro d***s" suck. Would you agree that if the guy knows how to use his 5 inches, not 3 since that's micro, and micro d***s suck, but if he knows how to use his 5 inches, that the sex can be good.

[udolipixie]

Micros don't have much luck. Small guys have little luck. Not really a difference hence just a step above. if he knows how to use his 5 inches, there's only so much a guy can do. The g spot is only a few inches in it's best to have length & gjrth to create pressure enhancing g spot orgasms. Plus bigger can get deep spot orgasms.

[Asker]

So what you just said, proved what I wrote to be true. That most if not all women do not want their man to be 3 inches. and that if a guy knows what he's doing, he can make his 4-5 inches work.

[udolipixie]

Uh no most don't want a 4/5 inch guy either 3 inches is like rotten food (die if you eat it), 4/5 inches is like spoiled food (sick if you eat ut) 6/7 inch guys need to learn to work it.

[Asker]

Please tell me where I stated that girls WANT their men to be 4/5 inches. Don't worry I'll wait...

[Asker]

Actually, I'll just save you the time, its because I never stated it. Some girls like a guy who is 4-5 inches, some girls like their guy to be 8-9 inches. Some girls don't want a guy bigger than 7 inches. Obviously for you, you clearly want a big d***. Some.. actually most... girls don't care all too much about the size as long as the guy is good in the sack, and that she loves him dearly.

[udolipixie]

girls don't care all too much about the size as long as the guy is good in the sack, and that she loves him dearly. As long as he's good girls don't care about that. Yep and bigger guys tend to be better. I know so many girls who won't do average after getting a big guy. Just like I know tons of guys who only do virgins. Size matters the only time it doesn't is when you love them

[Asker]

Most girls you know won't go average after getting big. Well, most girls I know won't even bother having sex with a guy unless she is in love with him. Sure you are 20 years old, and are trying to live it up. But to have the mindset that bigger is better is completely ignorant. I know you said tend, but you clearly have the mindset that if it's not big, and same with the girls you know, then you won't even bother with average. So let me ask you this, if you don't bother with average, how do you

[Asker]

know that those average guys aren't just as good or better than the bigger ones?

[udolipixie]

most girls I know won't even bother having sex with a guy unless she is in love with him. yeah those times have change guys & girls are no just into safe sex not love & sex love & sex is preferred but plenty of chicks do fwb know that those average guys aren't just as good or better than the bigger ones? I know so many girls who won't do average after getting a big guy. They had average then they had big. Big was better. They had average again. Stuck to big.

[Asker]

You are just proving your ignorance time after time. If a girl has big, and it was good, then go average and it wasn't as good, then go big and it was good. It's not good or bad because of the size, its because of the guy they had sex with. I do know girls have fwb, I didn't say all girls, I said most. Hell, I have fwb. But I wouldn't say plenty. Maybe plenty of the girls you KNOW, but not in our society I have friends who has 6 in. it sucked, went to 8.5 it was better, went to 5 and was amazing

[udolipixie]

Bigger is usually better. Longer penises can reach more the vagina has more pleasure nerves than the g spot hence deep spot orgasms. Longer penises usually have more girth so length + girth = more pressure = more pleasure. The average woman can easily handle 9.5 in L/2.5 in W. 60% of women are born with average vaginas.

[Asker]

What I'm getting at is it's not the size that make the sex good. It's the individual that the stick belongs too. If that individual just happens to be big then it appears big is better. If that individual was small, it will appear that bigger is not always better. Sure having friends with benefits is easier with a big guy, because you see a big d***, and you only want sex so it would be preferred in that situation but if you disregard all of smaller guys you could be missing out. Nothing wrong with a 1 night stand

[udolipixie]

Maybe plenty of the girls you KNOW, but not in our society so girls you know = society but girls I know don't? Society wise women have much more sexual partners than men, more one night stands, and more fwbs. Don't think they were in love with them all. its because of the guy they had sex with. true but you can only work with what you have. the average guys didn't suck they just weren't as good as the bigger guys.

[Asker]

So a one night stand with an "average" size guy isn't a bad idea. You find out whether or not he's good, and can choose to either keep seeing him or not. And I know about the vagina depth, that is how far it can be stretched too. That is not to say that is what it needs to be completely filled.

[udolipixie]

it's not the size that make the sex good yes it is. that size might be big for girls, average for others but size correlates to good sex I think you meant big penises doesn't always mean good sex It usually does though. Just like vagina size correlates to good sex

[udolipixie]

Unaroused 4 - 6 inches, aroused 7-9 inches, stretched 10+ Hence why average can handle 9.5 in d*cks

[Asker]

You do realize how dumb you sound right. Yes it is the size that makes the sex good. Okay, by saying that you are implying that because a guy is 9 inches that he's going to be good in bed. Or because a guy is 6 inches, that he's automatically going to be bad in bed. I also stated, for YOU, a big d*** might be what you want, but to assume that just because a guy is big, that he's going to be good in bed is ignorant. If the dude doesn't know how to work it, it doesn't matter what the size is.

[Asker]

It's actually 3-5 unaroused 6-8 aroused and 9+ for stretched. but okay. Which means, some may be 6 inches and no bigger before getting stretched, others 8 inches.

[udolipixie]

because a guy is 9 inches that he's going to be good in bed. Or because a guy is 6 inches, that he's automatically going to be bad in bed. when did I put that? a big guy who knows what he's doing is usually better than an average/small guy who knows what he's doing. they have the advantage of being to fill the 7-9 inch arousal state, more pressure, more friction, can reach the deep spot. As long as they won't hit the cervix it's good.

[udolipixie]

If the dude doesn't know how to work it, it doesn't matter what the size is. Sorry I was an ass. I assumed they both knew what they were doing. Bigger guys have an advantage. Just like tight girls over average/loose as long as she isn't too tight. Even if all three did Kegels and could control contractions for the tight girl she already had an advantage.

[Asker]

I said it's not the size that make the sex good, and you said, and I quote. "yes it is". Which means you are clearly saying that the size of the d*** is what makes the sex good. When I clearly stated it isn't the size its the individual. Then you prove me right by just now saying a big guy who knows what he's doing is usually better than an average/small guy who knows what he's doing. More often than not yes. But my argument was is that it's not the size, its the individual. (cont)

[Asker]

And by you saying it's that a big one who knows what he's doing... stop right there... that knows what he's doing... is that or is that not talking about the individual? Yes. it is. and I just saw you latest comment, which was before my last comment haha... no. if we are arguing size of individual, then we can't say they both know what they are doing when comparing size. lol

[udolipixie]

You put it in extremes that size has no indication of how good the sex will be. Sorry but most girls can tell a guy what she likes so 2 guys average and big with no skills do a girl most likely the big will pleasure her more since he can reach more & adds more pressure/friction. I meant size plays a part in good sex. '"it's not the size that make the sex good yes it is. that size might be big for girls, average for others but size correlates to good sex" girls do have a size that feels better

[Asker]

Well yeah I agree with you on that. I did state that some girls like 8-9 inches some girls like 4-5 inches, and some like it to be no bigger than 7. This means that size matters to that extent. But My whole point of this thing is not to argue which is better, but to let guys know that they can satisfy a girl if he learns how to please a girl. I'm not saying that guy is going to be the best she's ever had. But that they don't need to stress about size alone. When its more or less technique.

[Asker]

Which is why when I was talking about size alone, that I was disregarding how good or bad the guy is, because most guys tend to think, that just because they are big, or just because they aren't big. Doesn't mean they will be good in bed, or doesn't mean they will be bad in bed.

[udolipixie]

Oh.. So you're saying small/average guys can provide good/great sex it may not be better than a big d*ck depending on the girls. that it's what you do with it. Got thrown off on the foreplay & making her come through ways other then penetration. Seems like a crutch.

[Asker]

Ehh, I guess? Idk haha, its 5:30 and I'm tired ugh. and gotta go to work in a few hours... fun but I'll try to focus on this.. Yeah, what I'm saying is, just because a guy is 9 inches doesn't mean he's going to be good. and just because the guy is 5 inches doesn't mean he can't be good or even great. A lot of guys have insecurities about that, and since they can't change their size why bother worrying. ya know? They need to learn to work with what they got, and if they do this (cont)

[Asker]

The girl will be more than happy to answer his calls. hell, if the guy gets good enough, she will be the one calling him. And I made this thing so that these guys who are insecure about this sh*t, will realize that their penis size isn't going to decide whether or not the girl thinks you're good. It's what they do with it, and if they have confidence, and stop being insecure they will realize that by having that confidence it will actually make them into better lovers. f*** buddies, w/e.

[udolipixie]

Title should be Skills matter then

[Asker]

I was trying to have the title contradict the explanation. But yeah that wouldn't have been a bad title. Also people should learn to read the actual message, and not just the title and assume that is what I mean. Like the first anonymous male user that left a long response.

[udolipixie]

I read all that and what I got was that a small/average guy could be as good as big guys not that average/small guys can satisfy a woman.

[udolipixie]

/end get to work have a nice day

[joshuaty2010]

I agree on you. But having a big penis is plus points to the girls. Am I right?

[udolipixie]

yep big = plus

[Asker]

yeah, it's a lot like dating a guy who is hot as hell vs dating a guy who is ehh kinda cute. Looks, although do matter because we aren't going to get with someone we aren't attracted too, but looks are a bonus. And for you and some women bigger is a plus. Other women hate big d***s. It's all about preference really. Another anaolgy would be for me, if the girl has a flat butt, then ehh, it's not going to make it or break it. But if the girl has a nice ass... mmm hahah you know... hahah

[Asker]

analogy*

[Margillard]

This what girls really think of dick:
http://www.misterpoll.com/polls/368041/results

[Shaun]

Thanks for clearing that up.

[Anonymous]

Size matters to me cuz I’m petite, so anything bigger than the average size would hurt lol

[Anonymous]

A small penis can really satisfy a women as long as she doesn't care about the size and she cares about the man. She will have many vaginal orgasms and generally a good sex life.

Now , to answer the question. Yes it is definitely matters to all women because a bigger one gives an incredible variety of ways to have sex and also it makes the penis a huge attraction to women for giving oral , for feeling that they satisfy a man that has nothing to be embarrassed of and finally the penetration is much more adventurous than a small penis. With a small penis the penetration feels pretty much the same form the beginning to the end while with a large penis (and a good lover) the woman will go through many more chapters until climax and that doesn't mean that she has to feel pain . Most women are more likely to try anal penetration with a big penis that with a small one for the same reasons knowing that the experience will be unique.

I think that size is very important but hey , nobody is perfect , so it always comes down to the man and the women and if they do like each other.

[Anonymous]

according to your female answers, now you know why even average guys get insecurities about their size

[Asker]

the dude below you hits it right on with the first three lines... well the second line is only one word but yeah.

[Opinion Owner]

so far you have 2 size queens answering

[udolipixie]

Size queens really? So if a girl wants more pleasure and she finds a 4 incher better she's a size queen or is a size queen only girls who prefer penises bigger than yours?

[udolipixie]

Average guys have no need to be insecure they might not be the best sex but they can be good/great sex and the best partner for a girl. Acting like an immature bitch because of your insecurities won't help. If your penis is such a problem do fingering/oral some girls can live without pleasurable penetration.

[Opinion Owner]

if she judges someone on something they can't change she's a size queen

[udolipixie]

Just like some guys can live on cumming only through oral if their girl had a big vagina (30% omen born naturally) or loose vagina (d*cked out too many times)

[udolipixie]

if she judges someone on something they can't change she's a size queen people judge prospective partners all the time. so it only matters if it's not changeable? so you don't have to pause about a crazy, terminally ill, disabled, handicapped, hiv/aids, large vagina, extensive sexual history, bad vaginal/body/breath odor?

[timetowaste]

Whoa whoa whoa, I never said anything about size. Where do you get me being a size queen? I'm simply disagreeing with the fact that guys don't need d***s at all in order for a girl to be satisfied.

[timetowaste]

Disagreeing with the statement should I say.