My guy friend showed me his penis on webcam...

Basically I have a guy friend, about this time last year I told him I liked him, he said 'If I'm honest I thought you wanted friendship, cause last couple of times we've been out I've been getting awkward signals off you, so I honestly didn't know what you wanted' Followed by a few texts after he then said he was going to sleep and that he would text me the next day, he never did, so I never got a straight answer,we didn't speak for about a week after and I haven't seen him since, but we have kept in contact through I'm a lot. Anyway, last night he randomly video called me, we used to video call all the time, but haven't since last year. Some how during the conversation we ended up with him implying he would get his penis out on cam, so I dared him too...NEVER did I think for one second he was serious and would actually do it, but he did. Then this is some of the convo after...BTW he is 21 and I am nearly 21. Him: Wanna meet? Me: I'm afraid it's just you and your hand tonight ;) Him: Not tonight, I'm not leaving the house now lol Me: Well I don't know 'Wanna meet' sort of implies now lol Him: Ha, what would you want it to mean? Me: Well it can only mean one thing... Him: Cinema? :P Me: Does your brain only know the word cinema when it comes to going somewhere? Him: Where then? Me: Well try being more spontaneous, using your brain, see what you come up with. It really isn't that hard. Him: It is aha Me: Yes, no pun was intended there Him: Come on then I asked you, I didn't ask you to ask me what you meant by a meet. Me: But then it wouldn't be spontaneous anymore, as I would have told you Him: Screw spontaneous Me: Actually, I think you've been spontaneous enough for one night :P *THEN I WENT TO CLEAN MY TEETH* Him: So you never did answer my question, what do you want a meet to mean? Me: A meet - generally when two people meet up...I wasn't aware it had any other meaning Him: You said it can only mean one thing now :P Me: Yeah it can only mean one thing...and that one thing is 'wanna meet?' :P Me: Or, it could mean another thing Him: Explain Me: I don't really need to though do I? I know, you know, I'm sure everyone knows. Him: Well, go on aha Me: Why would I want to explain something to which you already know what I am going to say Him: Don't be shy ;) aha Him: :P I know you want to go cinema haha Me: Yeah couldn't think of anything I'd rather do *rolls eyes* Him: F**k? aha Me: So you did know what the other thing was that I meant Him: ;) but where? cinema? :P Then I said I was a bit cold and he told me to give my P*s*y a rub and I was like, I can't I'm shaking too much aha (Because I couldn't stop shaking) and he was like maybe I will have to do it for you one night then. Then there was a bit more banter, then the last half hour of the conversation went back to normal chat. What does this all mean? Did I block his attempt at asking me out? I was unsure if he meant date or sex as he said 'wanna meet' straight after showing me his penis.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well its obvious after showing you his thing meant that he wanted to do IT with you...And once you dared him to show you his thing,it was like a good chance for him to get you into bed...but then as the convo went on and when he saw that you weren't clicking...hence,going back to the normal chat...

    Yea of course guys wanna get into the pants of a girl whenever the chance arrises :P...So YES,you surely did block anything that he was trying to do with you lol...But its like you gotta ask yourself if you'd wanna even go out with a guy like him? because its quite possible that,he may just use you for a one-night stand...

  • hmm wow if showing a girl your penis can't tell her that you want to have sex than...than.. I don't know anything anymore. I don't know what is what! the world has lost its balance!

    aaaah!

    On a side note how the heck did you not run out of charcters when writing this whole thing?

Most Helpful Girl

  • Hmmm you guys don't sound 21! ;-) Thinking a little younger.

    All that would ANNOY me...I'm more forward. Very forward. I don't like games. Maybe teasing, but not the way you all did...but everyone is different.

    He sounds horny. And like a user.

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  • meant sex...obviously...

    Him: F**k? aha <--- right there

  • i think he just meant SEX

  • I'm sorry but all this hide and seek is such a waste of time and invitation to get so confused and have hurt feelings in the end!

    If you're both 21, behave like 21 years old do and keep it simple by talking straight to each other instead of playing hide and seek like that.

  • umm, to me that was clear as crystal. he wants to have sex with you.

  • he wants to bone

  • its harmless, guys sometimes just like doing that on cam I think

  • Obviously he wanted to know if you thought his penis was an acceptable size.

  • Sex