I don't know... Seems like the girls on this board like confident but nice guys. I don't think I would have it in me to be mean to a girl just so I can "get her". I hope this doesn't mean I'll be forever alone lol.
That's what I'm saying. They say they like nice guys (and confident). They say a lot of things. I'm guessing the women I've gone out with in my life are a fair sampling of the women out there, as are the women on this site. Women do want a nice guy, but only after they're in the relationship. Being nice does not build attraction with women. It doesn't get them excited about being with you. That's the point.
I've met girls who respond to being nice, but they are very, very rare. And the ones I ended up in relationships with kind of had other problems too, like a lack of experience or a certain amount of immaturity. Experienced women just seem to get off on a guy that doesn't care what they think.
Hm.. Doesn't care? I don't follow. As in you don't compliment them? I'm trolling by the way. Serious questions.
Exactly. When you compliment a women, you're telling her she's already good enough for you. To her that means that she doesn't get any added value out of being with you. She wants a guy she thinks is above her so she gets elevated out of being with him. They think if they have to work to get a guy's attention, that must mean he's valuable. That's why with most women, all you have to do is ignore them. They think it's because you're so busy being great.
Ugh... So confusing... When my girl friends tell me I'm a good looking guy and that they don't understand why I don't have a girlfriend yet I feel like a champion of the universe. So you're saying that I should NOT compliment them on ANYTHING when getting to know her? I'd imagine that would give her the impression that you're not into her. That also sounds really mean lol.
Women don't think like men. They have their own "rationale". They're mastered by their insane emotions which change more than the direction of the wind. I had a hard time believing it too, but once I started actually doing this stuff, I became a believer.And it's not mean. It would be mean if they cared as much about your feelings as you do about theirs. They don't. Happy hunting.
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