My question is, is it wrong to have non-penetrative sexual intimacy with him (including BJ and making him orgasm) if I don't want to have sexual intercourse with him that soon? I don't want to make him feel sexually frustrated because of the turn-on and built-up due to non-penetrative sexual intimacy. But I also feel that the lack of physical intimacy in a relationship is a turn-off and can affect the relationship too.
Hope you can help. Thanks a lot.