GUYS: Camping with girl. Sound like an undercover offer for sex or like the girl wants to go camping with you?

[Anonymous]

I like a guy he likes me- we like & are attracted to each other. If I ask him f he wants to go camping, will he think I want sex? I am not planning on having sex, I'm a virgin.. but do I have to put a disclaimer on the offer to go camping, so there is o confusion. he might get insulted if he was not assuming anything. would going on a trip to a random city be better or worse, for not giving wrong impressions of sex? We both like traveling and exploring places, so its a shared interest but he might think sex is too. I am OK, with physically intimate things up to a point. Any point before oral anal or vaginal sex. Please give m e YOUR opinion about yourself, If you feel you MUST speak on behalf of all mankind, so be it. but be sure to give a personal view as well. thank you;)

[hALLDAY]

If I ask him if he wants to go camping, will he think I want sex? Well it depends, would you be sleeping in the same tent? If he knows you like him then he may assume at least cuddling or making out.

Would going on a trip to a random city be better or worse, for not giving wrong impressions of sex? I think you are over-thinking this it doesn't really matter.

We both like traveling and exploring places, so its a shared interest but he might think sex is too. Well maybe you could communicate and clarify your intentions beforehand when you ask?

If a girl asked me out on a camping trip, my assumption is that there is a possibility that something could happen between us but I wouldn't get my hopes up.

[Asker]

hmm, OK thank u. would you get super frustrated? I was thinking of getting a tiny tent , tell him he should bring one, because mines too small.. but I like big tents lol

[hALLDAY]

No, I wouldn't get frustrated but if I liked her I might be a bit disappointed that I would be sleeping in my own tent.

[snowboarder720]

I understand where your coming from, are you asking ONLY him to go with you? Maybe you could invite more of your friends and he could invite more of his friends and have it a really big camping party. That way it doesn't sound discrete.

[Asker]

I thought of that & I wish I could but no. him. so I don't know who else he gets along with. he's kind of labor intensive.. its hard to be around him- around other people. he likes to talk one on one with me. he gets jealous are feels ignored if its a group. plus I want to get to know him better.

[snowboarder720]

well, there are other ways of getting to know him better than just camping. If you feel that camping with the guy is necessary, then go ahead and ask him. But if you only want to get to know him more, just go on a walk through the park. Take him to 7-11 and get one of their bomb slurpees

[Asker]

no , I've known him for 3 years. we do that kind of stuff, we don't get any time alone & nothing that it has a destination,. I need structure. something always interferes, anyways I want to go camping. ;)

[Anonymous]

Personally, yeah, I'd definitely think you were DTF. Tell him no sex but you'll still be physically intimate. I'd be a little bummed but I'd definitely still want to go.

[Asker]

dtf?

[Opinion Owner]

"down to f***"

[Asker]

yea lol I got that right after I asked ;) & if you did not would you be upset or feel tricked or get super frustrated?

[Opinion Owner]

You mean if I went on the trip thinking I was getting sex? I'd be disappointed but it's not like I'd be mad at you or anything, lol. If anything I'd be worried that you'd be mad at me for being a perv or something XC

[Asker]

lol OK thank you ;)

[Anonymous]

I think he might think it's sex

[Asker]

ok thanks,