Did he deserve to be kicked in the balls?

[Tamara45]

This is a follow up to my previous question. turns out my brother wasn't totally innocent after all. alright so like I said in my title this is a follow-up to my previous question, where some crazy girl kicked my brother in the testicles because she thought it was funny. at first I had thought my brother was the victim of vicious bullying, but I recently discovered that the girl wasn't totally at fault. it turns out that it was actually my brother who had called her to meet him in the park, and when they had met he began passing remarks of sexual nature to her, and she only kicked him in the testes when he asked her if she would consider sleeping with him. also, he got checked up at the doctor and got diagnosed with some pretty bad swelling and and bruising or something, so I guess he's gonna be alright. so now that the truth is out that the girl had her reasons for kicking with such viciousness in such a tender/sensitive area. so there isn't much we can do, since it was his fault in the first place. in fact I threatened to kick him there myself if he ever sexually harassed a girl ever again. i feel that he actually deserved it for behaving like a pig, but some of my girlfriends say that it really hurts for a guy to be hit there and that that girl went too far by doing that. so..did he deserve it or was he a victim? :O

[WhatisMisophonia]

A man or woman soliciting a person for sex does not in and of itself constitute a violation, unless the person doing the soliciting is of-age while person on the receiving end is under-aged, or if the person continues to solicit the person for sex after the person has refused. This would be classified as 'harassment'. On the other hand, a physical assault is physical assault, and is generally perceived as worse than harassment; particularly when the genitals are assaulted, which makes the assault riskier and potentially more physically and psychologically damaging. Women need to stop assaulting men just because they feel agitated. It's a shame that so many women have so much of what seems like a superiority complex, that you have more animosity toward your brother for daring to ask a girl for sex, than toward the girl who assaulted his genitals so that he had to go to the doctor. On top of that, you threaten to assault him as well? What is wrong with you?

[ihatework]

she went too far. he only said things and she could counter by saying things back instead of kicking the jewels.

[Josht]

i think they girl should actually get in trouble, if he can't have kids I would press charges

[crazyincalifornia]

It sounds Ok at first, but most girls don't realize how much it can hurt a guy.
I'm in my 6 year of Karate and have seen some stuff like groin kicks to guys many times.
They're illegal because their ball sacs are really easy to get to and not fair because they are definitely out of the match, maybe even for days.
I kicked a guy by accident and he had to be driven home. He never came back to our DOJO I think because he was embarrassed a girl did that to him, even by accident.
I would only kick a guy there for a serious thing.
He could end up in the hospital for sure.
And yes I've been kicked there too, and in the boobs, and no it doesn't hurt us.
LOL!

[WhatisMisophonia]

More often than naught, guys are just afraid of being made fun of by others, because society thinks guys are invulnerable sex maniacs who's favorite past time is to create female victims.

[Journeyman11]

Does it sound ok at first for a guy to punch her so hard in the stomach that she collapses, her ovaries swell up and she has to be hospitalized for being a bitch? No? Then explain to me why a guy deserves that for being an asshole, and why what she did is any less appalling then what he (theoretically) did.

[Sman13]

Ouch he had to be driven home, damn you connected but at least it wasn't on purpose. And getting hit in the balls is extreamly embarssing if a girl hits you. I was kneed as a dare by a girl in HS i dropped in front of so many people and they all laughed. Never doing that again haha, the girl felt bad and promised she'd only hit a guy there in self defense

[Anonymous]

nah, unless he put hands on her and forced himself on her? he didn't deserve that...just because he asked her if she'd have sex with him doesn't mean she should have kicked him there yes he was stupid and acting like a jerk but she could have easily just said so and walked away from him. That was unnecessary. She's gonna be asked for sex by more than one guy in her life kicking him was an immature way to handle it and not the right thing to do.

[Journeyman11]

Is it "immature" too when a guy punches a girls so hard in the stomach she collapses when she actually threatens his body? Like when she kicks him in the balls? It's unbelievable to me that you would call this "immature". It is fucking ASSAULT

[Journeyman11]

But for words? Harming a mans' body like this over words is "immature"? Wow. I am starting to realize more and more that women think their bodies and lifes are infinitely worth more than that of men. This is so disgusting.

[Journeyman11]

She should get arrested for assault, and get the same punishment a man would if he hurt a woman the same way. Men are NOT less worth. Go fuck yourself.

[kgrrl2323]

i think any guy that's being a pig deserves anything that comes to them for their behavior. I don't like feeling threatened or like I deserve to be considered as a sex toy for someone so I'd do it. yeah it hurts guys a lot to get hit there but I would rather him have swelling then me getting raped or god knows what else.

[JohNfromKolob]

so if a girl is being a B**** can a guy hit her? O OF COURSE not that different...women are even more sexist than men.

[kgrrl2323]

the difference from being a pig and a bitch are two different things. if a girl was making sexual advances towards a guy, he wouldn't turn that down or think that she's being disgusting, he'd take that and run with it. it's sexist in it's own way but, it's not everyday you hear a guy being raped by a girl, it's usually the other way around because it always starts with talk then it moves to more dangerous measures. just saying

[WhatisMisophonia]

You're making a lot of assumptions here. Yes, men get raped, and more often than you'd think. And yes, by women. The reason you don't hear about is is because MEN DON'T TALK ABOUT IT. We marginalize this group of people because to be a man evidently means to always want sex from anything that moves, and to be impervious to rape. Conversely, we think that to be a woman is to always be a victim, and usually made so by a man. Men are not out to rape you, and you need to stop being so defensive.

[OdieMog]

damn , aren't you a bit violent? :P

[Journeyman11]

Oh, ok, so if a woman treats me like a walking wallte, dehumanizes me and treats me emotionally abusively, I guess I can punch her so hard in the stomach that she collapses, her ovaries swell up and she has to be hospitalized.

[Sman13]

Although a bit excessive to hit his testicles, he shouldn't of done that, I've never been kicked or heard of a lady kicking a guy in the balls for no reason. I've been kneed by a girl once and i agreed to it, luckily with no lasting damage cause she kneed as hard as she could. She felt really bad and didn't know it would hurt me so much. Moral of the story is she kicked him for a reason but maybe not so hard next time haha

[Johanna_matt]

If he didn't actually try anything, like trying to force her or rape her I think she went too far. He could get seriously hurt.

[MeHigh]

oups, totally totally sorry. this was not intended to johanna_matt . this was meant to be a response to the question asker, not to this answer. Sincere apologies Johanna_ Matt :-S Sorry !

[Johanna_matt]

Haha!:D No problem!

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

Words don't justify a kick to the balls.

[diabloknk]

Was your brother an ass in this situation? Yes. Does that justify being kicked in the nuts? No.

[xzinax2]

he deserved it.guys should learn that being a pig leads to being kicked.it's simple,really.

[Thiezz]

She has no right to inflict physical pain and possible injury on other people just because they don't meet her standards of acceptable behaviour, unless she was in immediate danger, which she was not.

[xzinax2]

if it's so hard for guys to act like normal human beings,they need to understand that it's hard for us to act like normal human beings around them when they act like that

[Thiezz]

What a wonderful line of though. "If it's so hard for women to stay in the kitchen, they need to understand that it's hard for us guys not to beat them up when they act like that." Oh wait, that would be wrong. What it boils down to is this: is physical violence ever a valid response when confronted by a question that one considers inappropriate? I say the answer is no. It's ironic that a member of the "weaker" sex would advocate physical violence as an appropriate way of expressing oneself.

[xzinax2]

us not staying in the kitchen has nothing to do with guys,we're not insulting anyone by not staying in the kitchen,this guy however,showed disrespect to the girl by treating her as a sexual object,and if guys can hit each other over every sign of disrespect,then girls can do it too.

[OdieMog]

well perhaps that girl did feel threatened by those remarks and kicked out in reflex but perhaps she kicked way too hard. But still, nothing new girls often do just casually kick the testicles. perhpas many dont really understand how bad it hurts.

[Journeyman11]

Then guys can hit girls for every sign of disrespect too. And a kick in the balls is so much worse than a punch.

[Brando]

Unless a guy is trying to rape a girl, then I don't think he needs to be getting kicked in his balls. Some guys overexaggerte the pain, but I can tell you that it is really, REALLY painful if hit a certain way. Cold sweats, shakiness, testicle/abdominal pain, things like that happen. Even though your brother was acting like a horndog, kicking a guy in his balls is a serious deal. Not trying to sound like a drama queen, but it really can cause real damage in some cases.

But anyway, a girl knowing that a guy can't/won't hit her back if she kicks him in the balls is the worst. That's another reason why she really shouldn't have kicked him there. But I agree with you, keep him in line so he doesn't act like this towards another girl.

[Thiezz]

Violence is not an appropriate response to mere words. If a girl was making remarks of a sexual nature to a guy, and asked him if he would consider sleeping with her, would you think punching her breasts would be something 'she deserved'? No, you'd be up in arms about this horrible injustice and what a horrible person that guy must be.

[baliguy11]

When I was about 12 I was viciously beaten by two older teenage girls. I might have deserved something for being a pig(I should not have rubbed aganst them in the pool) but they attacked me in a hallway after swim team pratice. They pushed me against the wall and Lucy rammed her knee into my testicles. The other girl, Linda grabbed my hair and punched me in the face. They wrestled me to the floor while the other girls were cheering them on. The two of them pinned me down and began to punch me in the testicles. I never felt agony like that. The female swin team coach showed up and stopped it but did not seem to care that I was on the floor. She just told the girls to get along to the locker room. All she said to me was to put some ice on your nuts and be careful around tough girls. I probable deserved a slap to the face but wow...a beating in the balls? I was sore for like a week.

[Killfest400]

Uh, he's still innocent. If she didn't want to sleep with him, here's how she could have done it:

"No."

You make no mention of him trying to force himself on her or anything. He just asked. If it was some guy she DID want to have sex with, do you think this would have gone down the same? The girl is still 100% at fault in this situation, unless there's something you're not telling us. That's still assault, and if she's old enough, he should press charges.

[MeHigh]

F**K OFF biatch !

1 : the girl said that the boy still feels pain in his testicles after 3 years... this is not normal .

2 : if what you said is true , she still wouldn't have any reason to kick him so hard

3 : "that girl " said that she picks up fights only to kick boys in the balls, and now you come and tell us that is your "brother's " fault ?

4 : THE BALL KICKER , ASKED ANONYMOUSLY , CONSIDERING POINTS 1,2,3 AND THE NEGATIVE FEEDBACK SHE RECEIVED I BELIEVE YOU ARE HER.

[Armada]

Guys make sexual advances on women all the time and women rarely retaliate with a kick to the gonads. I think that girl is a bitch. I feel sorry for any man that hits on her.

[dudeman]

your brother was a d*** yes but he doesn't deserve to be kicked in the balls and its not sexual harassment to ask a girl to sleep with you if she says no and you pester her about it that's sexual harassment sounds to me like he was just being straight forward and she over reacted she was still at fault here

[Journeyman11]

When a girl behaves like a bitch, can you punch her so hard in the stomach that she collapses, her ovaries swell up and she has to be hospitalized? No? Then what she did is just as bad, unless men are just less worth than women.

[RoyJones]

i'd say he probably deserved some pain... but NOT there :P lol NEVER there... punch him instead lol but never ever kick a man in his balls... hurts like a fothermucker :P

[sammerlysate]

Put yourself in his situation. If you were making bawdy remarks to a guy, would it be OK for him to wind up and crack you across the face with his fist, causing damage like a broken nose, black eye, loose tooth, etc. Or should he take other measures first, like clearly telling you to stop, walking away, and reporting you to your parents/ authorities if you continue? Words should never elicit such a physically violent, dangerous, damaging assault. Unless the girl was in physical danger, any violence on her part is criminally negligent.

[ItsJosh1009]

I’d say your right. I’m a guy but you have to expect a girl to react that way and more so when you haven’t met the person before and in a park so I can see why she has done that in all fairness.

Sounds like you have no problem kicking guys in the balls either?

[Kate12girl]

I think it's deserved. I was wearing a skirt and sitting on the sofa with my legs open when my younger brother ran into the room and he said he could see my knickers. He started laughing at me and he was in front of me so I slid a little down on my back to be able to get a good aim. Then I kicked him in the balls really hard for laughing at me and my toe dug right in his balls! Ouch! I made him cry for hours after. It was very quick to get him. But as a girl it made me so mad at first when he was looking up my skirt. He never did it again!

[Sylvester421]

Do you think you could easilyer pop some small balls than big ones? And would you do it on a guy till he cums of it

[Anonymous]

Of course your brother deserved it! As a man, I support that girls kick guys in the balls when they go beyond the limits. Yout brother deserved to have his testicles ruptured so he's not able to have kids, just respect women!!

[Anonymous]

yea its sexy

[Anonymous]

OKAY did he touch or assualt her? if s..maybe its a different story..but OMG..if it was jsut words..what the hell is a mtter with you? Do you know how serious that is? Men can suffer all kinds of trauma from that...cardiac arrest, passing out, vomitting from the pain, and of course, possible infertility. All I have t say is that...THIS is textbok example of why so many men are not concerned about girls and there issues...If you women aren't gonna treat us with compassion or respect..why the hell would you expect it in return...i hope any time a guy demeans you or talks down to because your a woman..ur ember how you treated men. This is TOTALLY unjustified if it was only verbal sexual comments. PLEASE re-evaluate this...and if you don't see why this is wrong...please don't ever have any sons in the future.

[Anonymous]

She went to far if he tried to physically assault her then it's a diff story but really you can't do stuff like that to people just because of some words.