Should I be offended that my boyfriend told me my nipples were big?

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Right before having sex, my boyfriend said, "You have big nipples".  That night he avoided my breasts.  The next day we had sex again and this time he sucked on my nipples non-stop for three minutes.  I'm confused.  Does he like my big nipples or not?  They are dark brown and the size of a plain MandM.   My areola is the 1.5inches in diameter.   If it helps, his areolas are less than an inch in diameter and his nipples are the size of zits.  Sorry, I can't think of anything else comparable.

Brando · Accepted Answer

Honestly, it sounds like a typical case of male brain-to-word filter failure. It's a common issue in males and usually doesn't mean nearly what a female would interpret it as, as difficult as that might be to understand. The best course of action is to give him a little backbone and to not be affected by his comments. He's still having sex with you, chose to have sex with you in the first place. Men say stupid things, women get grey hair over it.

Don't do that. It was a comment that probably has very little meaning. If he meant it in a bad way, you'd know for sure.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

He just said what he was thinking. Saying "you have big nipples" is not the same as "eww you have big nipples. It sounds as if he just said it aloud as an observance rather than a critique. Then, of course, you said he was sucking on them non stop for a while the next day. He likes 'em well enough, wouldn't you say?

deathnote · Accepted Answer

HAHA! This is hilarious.. and no, you should not be offended :) everyone is unique and he's just pointing something out. Its like telling him 'one of your eyes are smaller than the other' its not an insult, just something you take notice of at the moment. :) if he sucked on for 3 mins, then its pretty obviously he likes it!

beerY33 · Accepted Answer

Not worth worrying about. Obviously he's still fine with them, since he sucked them the next day. (And if he wasn't fine with him, that's his loss and his stupidity/shallowness, not your problem). Kind of a dumb thing for him to say, but I don't think it really matters. Probably just an observational statement.

lolli · Accepted Answer

Idk. Sounds like he was used to smaller ones before. But he likes you and your boobs and realizes that nips come in different sizes and decided to enjoy them.