Girls, what is easier to learn to do: anal or deep throating? And guys, which do you like more?

I'm married and my husband does think I'm sexy. But I never considered myself a "slut" or adventurous in experimenting. I do give him oral but I HATE and don't like to swallow, and I REFUSE to let him come on my face. The only other crazy act I do is titf*** which my husband does love and I enjoy a lot too. My big natural boobs have saved me from bad tastes and taking it on my face for years. But now I'm at a point where I know my husband wants to experiment and said he wants to be fully inside me by enjoying other places in my body (i.e. head, ass). I won't kid myself, I knew the day I'd do something like this would come. I'm nervous, anxious and excited to please him. Deepthroating and anal both look really intimidating for me. I want to know how girls who do either or both feel. I've been told that anal is not hard by one of my girl friends but It still really scary. But I at least won't have come in my mouth. Do you taste come if a man cums into your throat? I would be really afraid to feel like I'm choking and dying if I did had a **** in my throat? Anal or deepthroat? Pros and Cons. His birthday is coming up and I promised I would surprise him. If you have alternative ideas of other thing to do I would love to know.
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  • Anal is honestly the best for me and I can say I actually enjoy my wife's ass more than her vagina. That's just me. Every guy has their preference. Some guys are curious to try something just once.

    I wouldn't just go straight and try either deepthroat or anal right away. Both take practice. Everything is mental and you have to have the right mind set to have fun. Rush it and you'll find yourself among the group of women with horror stories. Read up on what you want to try and practice methods for practicing it safely. Anal should NOT hurt and should never be forced. Take time, start small and work your way up to big. LUBE! and I am religious about being clean with enemas to be confidently clean.

    Although likeilovenastygals said, you shouldn't limit yourself. Your husband will love anything as long as you are into it. My wife is also not into swallowing and as a result I am not into getting head. If I knew she was into it, then I would love it. So remember what ever you do, have fun and he will enjoy it.

  • wel I shudnt think that you shud ever deny to try anything in sex when you are having it with your husband..y not do everything and make him happy and also do something new...u don't become a slut if you swallow your husbands cum...u shud feel happy to try something new, if you think of it to be bad you are never gonna njoy it...i know women who lick their husbands butthole, that doesn't make them slut or disgusting they are just doing to njoy themselves and make their partner happy...nothing wrong in it...

    so try everything because trying new things will always make you happy...

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  • well come deosnt taste that bad once youve swallowed a couple times , and the taste of it can be helped by what food he has in his diet , you should look it up , and there are tecniques to do anal to make it not so scarey(:xx

    • Would you say than that anal is easier or at least more comfortable to do?

    • my fiancee hates giving my head too.. but we tried anal which she never did before.. you just have to take it slow get used to one fnger in ure ass... when ure ready use too... get him to do it while he goes down on you or in doggie... then once that feels comfortable and if its pleasureable then try anal sex.. use lube make sure 2 fingers feels good then he can put it in you but go slow.. from there you can do stuff like dp with a toy etc which girls love let me know how it goes

    • sorry about that comment he stalks everything I write and writes stalker on it , he deosnt like that I have a lip ring , anyway that's completely inappropriate and uncalled for and I am taking it he's younger then he says he is if he laughs about sexual intercourse , if your going to try anal , use breathing in and out then relaxing , and let him go further as it relaxes more,i spose deapthroat is easier but some people don't like it, maybe you could try different techniques on how to BJ not nec DF

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  • id say I like deepthroat better, feels so good for a guy, anal you should try you might like it, I have had it done to me before and I enjoy it.

  • Neither...but if I had to pick one...deepthroating


  • I think for you be anal even if he shoots everything down your throat
    you will taste it

  • I would honestly go with deepthroating your man’s cock. Anal is…really not meant to give women the best pleasure, since you don’t have a prostate, it won’t feel as good taking his cock in your ass than if you were to peg him or even finger his ass. Because of our prostate, if it gets massaged just right during sex, he’ll likely experience one of the best orgasms he’s ever had. My wife (fiancé at the time) fingered my ass a handful of times while she was sucking my cock. The first time was surprising; the second time gave me the strongest orgasm I’d ever felt up to that point, and I literally flooded her mouth with so much cum she couldn’t swallow fast enough and a lot dribbled over her lips and down her chest. Lol I felt amazing and she was happy but also covered in cum…needless to say we had to make up a story to tell her family about what she had on her face when we walked back inside their apartment

  • I like anal better...theres nothing like the feeling of my balls against my girls booty and my **** between her thick butt ; )

  • Plenty of lube for anal! Get a small dildo or a finger and lube that up before hand.