Nope, not at all. What you do with your sperm prior to when we date is entirely your decision and if you choose to donate it to a sperm bank while we're dating, it's pretty much still completely your business (although I would like to know if the guy I was dating was doing it). I would resent a guy's interference if I wanted to donate eggs, and really what's the difference? Obviously I'd worry a little that one day someone might show up, looking for his/her father, but if it was never a secret I think I could deal...
If anything I would actually find that endearing. I mean, there are couples out there that are incapable of having children of their own, whether that is because of being sterile, or if they're a same-sex couple. Helping others to achieve what they can't do on their own is great in my opinion.
I don't quite see why that would be a turnoff.
No, I wouldn't mind if he's a current sperm donor (or a previous donor), as long as its through a trusted organization and is anonymous (like Feylnn said).
The idea that someone else might have "his kids" wouldn't bother me, because the woman or couple wouldn't see their child as someone else's. It's all theirs.
In truth, being a biological parent has nothing to do with raising your kids. My biological dad is someone I would have trouble restraining myself from pounding into the dirt if I ever saw him again. My adopted Dad however is someone I only hope to be.
You recieve sperm donations via the anus... deal breaker
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!If anything, both of them are turn-ons. Any kind of donation gives girls the idea that you are a caring person, so go ahead!
So you'd be comfortable knoing he could have kids knocking about?
well yeah. I mean, like AJ2293 said, being a biological father is a far cry from being a dad (ok, I'm paraphrasing here) and like I said, any kind of donation gives the impression that you are a caring person and would make a good partner.
not a deal breaker.
But only if it's well arranged legally (that he remains anonymous at all costs etc). I wouldn't want someone to ring our house one day saying they want to see their biological father and/or trying to get money.
I can't find any reason why this would bother me or be a deal breaker. It's actually a very humble thing to do as in many cases you are giving a family to have natural born children when forever what reason the hubbies soldiers don't exist.
I could understand if they had some concerns, but there's a lot more to being a 'father' than just being its biological producer.
Just keep it anonymous.
No.
I don't see why it should be a deal breaker. If you told me that I would not mind, some women want children abut don't have the right person to do it so artificial insemination is the next best thing.
that's a bit weird, but not a deal breaker by any means
why in the world would that be a deal breaker?
My initial thought was that girls would not commit to a relationship with a guy that potentially was the father of 10 children. They would want the guy to be the father of their children only. But I might be wrong and that is why I'm asking.
Tbh I thought the same as the asker... I'm sure a lot of girls would be insecure about thier man having 'x amount' of kids swanning about
but he's not responsible for any of those kids. girls shouldn't be insecure about that, I'd be leery of a woman who makes that some kind of an issue.
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