Guys;; does it bother you when you girlfriend gives you too many BJ's?

okay so I recently just gave my boyfriend a blowjob, but, it wasn't just one. me and him were hanging out together and I was on my period so I couldn't really do anything.soo I was giving him a handjob, and his pants slowly came off, I started kissing him, down his stomach and I looked up at him, it was the first time I had ever given head. I felt so nervous. But as the night progressed, I had given him 7 BJ's and by the end of the weekend 15! now my question is, does it bug you if your girlfriend gives you too many BJ's? is it okay? like, I don't know if it was okay that I gave him that many. he kept saying you don't have to if you don't want to but I just wanted to make him happy since we couldn't do anything else really. p.s he said I was amazing :P
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  • There can never be too many blow jobs :)

    But quality counts too, never forget about that.

    Here are a few tips.

    1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

    2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

    3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

    4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

    5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

    6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

    7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

    8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

    9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone.

    10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

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  • the more the merrier. But to rely on Bj`s alone is not good. Sooner or later, it gets monotonous and boring. Best to increase your sexuality with other tricks of the trade.

    By no means would I EVER discourage a woman from putting out. I will say that because you are under 18, please be careful.

    I wish the best for you

    • Well its still pretty early in the relationship, like about 2 months, so I'm not gunna put out right away.. i'll give it soem time

    • Thats a good idea. One step at a time. At the speed YOU want. =] It's all about you remember that. lol

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  • lol wowzers.

    Thats happen to me when I was on my period once.

    But I only gave him like 4 in one day. Mainly because I was only with him over night for a few hours.

    Anywayz,

    I have never heard a guy complain of having his dick sucked to much. lol

    and by saying "you don't have to if you don't want it" he really means " I want you to, but if you don't want to you don't have to" its guy language girly =] lol

    btw.

    Not to get personal.

    But did he come all 15 times.

    If he did, after a while it might actualy "hurt" him.

    Or he might feel some kind of discomfort.

    Exspecialy if he doesn't eat alot. lol

    • Noo he didn't come all 15 times ahah, he cummed twice actually,and he went to the washroom, and unloaded there lol

    • Ohhh. You don't swallow.... .....lol nvm don't answer that. That isn't my business lol But that's good. I guess. lol Hope you to have fun. haha

  • why on earth would that bother him? if he said it was amazing, you're fine. He may, however, feel a little guilty, because he didn't do anything for you, but if he's young, he's probably selfish and doesn't care.

    • Well he's 19, and I'm not the first girl to give him a blowjob, lol...but he was the first guy I gave one tooo... he askeed me the day after I gave him the first few blowjobs, if I was still on my period I waas like yeaah it doesn't exactly go away in a day lmao, but he was sweet and gave me back rubs. :) lol i don't know I thought it would bother her...:P but that's me beign insecure.. :P

    • He sounds nice! and don't worry , everything is probably fine.

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  • Yes it would bother me if my girlfriend gave me that many b.j's because it'd think she had a problem with thinking a guy needs to be pleased like that all the time in order to be happy. or that she's only interested in the sexual part of a relationship and has nothing better to offer.

    Giving head is nothing other than a guy getting off by a girl's mouth. It's not a loving act unless you love his di*k. Of course I like to cum, but not all the time because there's better things to do with a girl, and if that's all a girl can come up with to have fun then I'd think I'm in for a very boing relationship. It'd like she'd have a fixation with my di*k. (P.S. You should be amazing after # 15k, but I wonder how long a relationship like yours will last)

    • I agree. If he likes/loves you. He wouldn't want that many bjs lol Kissing is a loving gesture sometimes. I'd rather kiss my boyfriend then give him head like you guys were going at it. But from my comment it doesn't seem lyk that. But that's how it iz =] Peace [[BTW, sorry for invading your comment lol]]

    • Naw.. that's ok, thanks for your comment. it was great!

    • Idk if this is weird or not...but I actually think its really loving when I give my boyfriend head because I love every part of him. to me its the same thing as kissing his neck or giving him a back massage. with a random stranger, it would be repulsive...but with him its really nice =) weird?

  • If you both enjoy it, why bother putting a cap on it?

  • If you're going to bug a guy.

    Please bug him with a blow job.

    By all means.

  • OMG I'm laughing not on you but on how many bjs you did for him 15 in couple days .

  • that seems a little excessive. 15 for a weekend. if it were me, one or two a day would be more than enough. did you make him come all 15 times? I guess if I had to come 15 times in one weekend, it would certainly seem like a chore. too much of a good thing I guess.

  • That IS pretty amazing. Honestly there is no such thing as too many blow jobs. With that said. what are you getting out of it? Just make sure your relationship (and your sex life) isn't one sided. Clearly if you gave him that much oral sex, it must turn you on as well, but make sure that you aren't being taken advantage of.

    • Well she was on her period so that would be kinda gross...

  • No, I don't think you can give too many, and he is one lucky guy. Man, 15 in one weekend? wow. I don't think I'd continue to come after that many times, but it sure would be fun!

    • Well it waas kindaa 15 in like 1 daay sorrtaish..like it was 2am saturday morning when I gave him the first one and they continued til 5am, and we both fell asleeep, and theen lateer on in the daay...i did it more...until 11:30pm wheen I weent homee... so 15 times in one day.. uhmm, and he didn't cum, all of those timess..he came 1 time and he had a false alarm 1 time......but not on me ...he went to the washroom to dispense it.after I was gone though. is it a probleem if he didn't cum? :S