Experienced guys, is this missionary position possible?

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I hope I'd be clear enough.. This position involving the man's legs spread, straddling the woman's hips. Imagine yourself kneeling but with your legs spread apart. 3 questions: 1. is this position comfortable enough to maintain? 2. is it possible for the man to penetrate from this position? 3. his hands would be free, so it would be more possible to feel ard, find the opening and enter, right? thanks!

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selfishstars Master
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I'm not sure if this is exactly the position you're referring to, but my partner and I do missionary, but with my legs squeezed together and his legs on the outside?

It works fine for us and its the one position that is guaranteed to give me a g-spot orgasm every time.
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- Asker
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  ah yes was referring to that! is it difficult for him to find the opening? all he has to do is he simply feels ard right?
- selfishstars
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  He doesn't have a difficult time finding the opening. Though, generally we start in standard missionary position (my legs on the outside) so he's already inside me, then I'll bring my legs in together and he'll move his to the outside with him remaining inside me the whole time.
- Asker
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  oh so even with this position, he doesn't have difficulty right? technically, it shouldn't be so difficult to, since both his hands are free anyway right? :) hmmm. if its a guy's first time and he has difficulties locating where the opening is, would it usually be with the standard missionary or with this, girl-with-closed-legs missionary? hope I'm not too confusing!
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- Asker
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  and another question! would this man straddling on the outside of the girl position work if the girl's legs are open instead of closed? or does it only work when the girl's legs are strictly closed? :)
- selfishstars
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  Nah, he doesn't have any difficulty. That said, I'm sure it's easier to find the vaginal opening in standard missionary because your legs are opened wider. I think that a lot of guys have difficulty "finding the right hole" at first, but with practice and experience, it becomes easier.
- selfishstars
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  I think it depends on the guy's ability to spread his legs, and the size of the woman. Men vary in the amount that they can spread their legs comfortably, and its easier to have them on the outside of a petite woman than a larger woman, for example, since he doesn't have to spread his legs as far.
- Asker
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  oh yar true! but I was referring to like a larger woman more... he might have to spread his legs more and I don't think its comfy that way. hmmm this qn might sound weird, but if a guy thought he inserted himself into her ass instead (girl is quite large), this mistake would most likely occur only in the standard missionary right?
- Asker
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  and most virgins usually start with the standard missionary right?
- selfishstars
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  Keep in mind that good sex is about exploration. You can try different positions out and see if they're enjoyable or not. As far as inserting into the wrong hole, it can potentially happen in any position. I've never had a guy actually insert it into the wrong hole---usually it's just that he's feeling around with his penis between your legs and you can feel him poke around at your ass. If he can't see what he's doing, he might think it's the vagina, but the anus is quite tight, so it doesn't
- selfishstars
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  easily slip in. If I feel him poking in the wrong area, I just tell him and he'll position himself in the right direction. It would probably only actually go in if he pushes with a lot of force. I find that a lot of guys will also put their fingers down there to feel around first before trying to insert their penis (especially if they don't have that much experience) because it makes it easier to find the vagina. I would say that missionary is probably the most common among virgins because it
- selfishstars
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  is one of the easiest positions, and since the first time can be painful for the girl, it gives her more stability and allows her to relax her body more easily. It gives more control the the guy, which a lot of girls feel more comfortable with, especially if her hymen is still intact and the penetration will be breaking it.
- Asker
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  ic thanks! was just speaking to a guy and I find it funny that, 1) he could have entered the wrong hole (given it was dark yes) so was wondering what position he was in 2) he said the whole experience was really painful and it was like being tugged on by her ass.. 3) the girl was large so I'm not sure what kind of positions work for girls of her size 4) he was the virgin, not her. I just tend to tink virgin men are very shy and unadventurous and will stick to the common missionary, like you said.
- Asker
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  5) haha, it seemed like he didn't feel ard with his fingers at all and the girl was just a lie-there, do-nothing kind and didn't even guide him.. and they only did it 3 times without him ever finding the goal... wonder how disastrous it must have been
- Asker
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  btw, thanks for your comments! they were really insightful.. hmm. would it be OK if I msged you whenever I have some sex qns? would you mind in the least? :)
- selfishstars
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  Sure, no problem. :)
- Asker
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  It would probably only actually go in if he pushes with a lot of force. - you mean go into the front and not the anus right?
- selfishstars
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  No, I meant that if he's pushing with a lot of force at the anus, he may accidentally push into the anus, but in my experience, I've always been able to notice that he was at the wrong hole with enough time to let him know he wasn't in the right spot.
- Kim999
  5 mo
  Ya i love this, if u do this ask him to do a Cat. It would be very pleasurable
Imche Xper 1
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Yes this is very much posdible me n my hubby do it most of the times. First he enters me in usual missh pos then i slide both my legs in his so that he straddles me. Its satisfying try it.
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l-hedoniste Master
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Generally in missionary, it's easier to have the woman's legs spread than the man. Otherwise he won't be able to penetrate too deeply.
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- Asker
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  thats what I thought too, thanks!
- selfishstars
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  True, but the goal isn't always to penetrate deeply. I find this position great for g-spot stimulation.
- l-hedoniste
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  Oh, agreed. I only learned this by being teachable. ;)