I think you're assessment is right on that your friend thinks they're disgusting and degrading and now that you've done it she thinks you've degraded yourself. If this guy said that to his girl he's not totally wrong because I can tell you that that can be the case depending on the circumstances. Just blowing some guy you don't know for attention or to make yourself popular or something like that IS degrading and a guy most certainly doesn't have to care for a girl to ask for her to give him a bj, but oral sex in a loving relationship isn't degrading at all. A guy who loves you will not look down on you for that at all they want you to love their body just like you want them to love yours. if it was not asked of you in a degrading way then you in no way should feel that he doesn't care about you. Just don't do anything you aren't ready for or that you don't WANT to do.
No, that's ridiculous. Asking for a blowjob has nothing to do with whether a guy loves a girl or doesn't love a girl.
It is a sexual act that a lot of loving couples engage in.
A man likes you just fine if he asks for a bj. I've asked every girlfriend I've been sexually active with for a bj from time to time and it only had to do with pleasure. Of course I always repay by giving her oral later which he should be doing for you if he isn't.
No if you want him to go down on you, does that mean you think less of him
The act can seem derogoratry, but if you like each other and respct each other then there's nothing wrong about it
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!if you come here to ask that kind of questions, you are to little to give a blow job .
well my friend just seemed so serious I don't know sometimes I think she's just jealous because I actually enjoyed the bj but she says its disgusting and shed never do it :(
maybe she's not ready for it :)) it is nothing disgusting about it. it is a way of showing your appreciation . and if he wishes his ... thingie, then , believe you me , it is cleaner than his hands.
No guy told his girlfriend that.
he actually said he really wanted me to do it . .
No guy ever told his girlfriend that asking for a bj means the guy doesn't like her.
Truth is, most young guys would like to have a blow job, but don't know a delicate way to ask. So, it just escapes from their mouths. I don't think love is deeply rooted in giving a blow job. It's just a friendly thing you can do if you like the person, regardless of if you are actually in love.
I think if you're seriously asking this question, you're probably too young to be blowing anyone.
im 17
It's not so much about your age in years, but your emotional maturity. The fact that you think wanting a blow job from a girl means a guy doesn't care for her indicates a basic lack of understanding of sex.
well he actually wanted sex I said no.. then he said *can you do bj ?*
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