Signs he's enjoying sex and blowjobs?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend (I'm 20 and he's 22) of nine months have only just started sleeping together (a month ago). He was a virgin before me and I was forced into sex once before I met him. Anyway, none of us are much experienced so what are some signs that I can look out for to make sure he enjoys it? When we have sex he breathes very very deeply and sometimes looses his breath, is that a good sign? When I give him a blowjob he breathes heavy again and makes noises like "ahh". Sorry if this is too much information but when I'm giving him head I lick the lip of his head while I suck and he always flicnhs, like tightens his legs, I'm not sure if that's good or not? The other day when I gave him head he put his hand on my back and squezed me then his legs tightened again, I wasn't sure if this was a good sign or not, but then he giggled and stopped the blowjob to have sex. Is that bad? He moaned loudly twice in a row before he stopped me though. He also always asks me for blowjobs. He never cums during a blowjob but he says he has been very close, he cums through sex though.

[cindys]

If he never cums during a blowjob, that means you are doing something wrong. Try this next time: First, get your mind straight. Just because it’s called a “blow job” doesn’t mean you should view it as a job. He can see it on your face if you don’t enjoy sucking on his “friend” – and that’s NOT the attitude you want to convey. You have to love his cock.

It’s all about preparation. Make every blowjob one of a kind, unique, memorable. How do you prepare? Candles, good lights, music, some wine, fix up the atmosphere, spice it up. Look good. Make it special.

Throw him in the couch. Seductively, naughtily, with a sexy smile on your face. Look at him with fascination. You slowly get on your knees in front of him, unzip and take his pants off. Make a happy, surprised look – as if you just saw your favorite ice cream, and you are starving to death.

Men are visual. Pull your hair back, so that he can see you completely and enjoy the view. Massage his legs seductively, get closer to his cock. Before it grows large, put the entire thing in your warm, wet mouth – moan with pleasure. Slowly suck on his **** as it grows large in your dripping wet mouth.

A few “aaahs” and “mmms” are essential. There’s nothing better than the magic words when giving a blow job. No BJ is perfect without the right words entering his ear. Compliment him, tell him how much you love His **** in your mouth. Use your hands. Combine fast and slow strokes. Be his p*rn star, not a nun.

When you get tired, rest your mouth, stroke him. Be his “slut”, be dirty, sexual – free. Do whatever you want to do. He won’t think you’re a slut if you swallow, on the contrary – he’ll love you for it. So get dirty and slut it up.

Speed it up as you come to the finish. Involve his balls in the game. A perfect blowjob isn’t just with your mouth. Use your whole body. Let him see your sexy ass, thongs, a sexy necklace. The way to turn him on is by being turned on by yourself. You have to feel sexy in your body. It’s all about positioning.

Tickle his balls, lick them and suck on them gently. Use your sexy nails to drive him wild. Hold his shaft, lick it up and down sexily while looking him deep in the eyes.

Now you start pumping his **** faster. Fast, and short strokes. Pump, pump and pump some more. Moan louder, suck harder, stroke faster. And then – he starts shooting, and screaming, and popping his eyes out of his brain. Pull his **** out and pump it out gently. Open your mouth, show him what he gave you. Giggle. Then swallow all of it. Smile happily, give his **** a few more kisses and sucks – clean it up. ;) Of course – you can always get even better. I recommend you read Jack’s Blowjob Lessons, probably the best book ever written about satisfying your guy sexually, by clicking on the link

[zickzack]

At first, be both relaxed and open, so he can accept openess. Then start your fantasy, test some forms of sexuality, also without words. (the taste of pudding you will know by eating, is saying an english proverb)

My meaning to a blowjob is following: I myself are not enjoyed for such, it brings me not enough pleasure. At all, for man is a blowjob not so much interesting, like licking is for a woman. The reason is: The penis is more construct by pressure. The more pressure, the better it is. So the vagina is the right place for the penis. Deep inside the penis are many pressure receptors, this is the reason fur that.

[whocarez88]

frm your descrption it seems that if I would have been in his place I would have felt like in HEAVEN!

[arubian06]

if a man does not complain about you going down on him and if he asks you for it it usually means he enjoys it.

[TheGuyWhoKnowsStuff]

It sounds like he's enjoying it although he may sound awkward, he's inexperienced and some people just have unusual reactions to pleasure. Just ask him to tell you what he likes as you're doing it.

That said, the golden rule of blow jobs is do not use your teeth. He shouldn't feel teeth, which can cause injury.

[evander]

He never cums during a blowjob? what? OK so you should no that you can't get him to come during a blowjob, so should that be your goal or keep it that way? At least you know he cums through oral sex so yes that's a sign he enjoys it. Does he smile during sex?

[Asker]

Yeah he always smiles during sex.

[evander]

Thats a good thing.

[ThePostMan]

Tell him, you want him to cum in your mouth and see what he says.

[Wolfwarner99]

He will cum