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I think of my boyfriend as a pervert, advice?

im 19 my boyfriend 44 and we been together for over a year now I'm pregnant to and I can't stop thinking of my boyfriend as a pervert . When me and my boyfriend first started going out I found p*rn of 16 year old girls on his computer and I feel sick I can't stop thinking about this and I found it again recently he said it was he's sons but I don't beleave him . it werent even normal p*rn it was like cam sex videos of 17 and 16 year olds . I'm so hurt and disgusted. He also told me he don't masturbate which is bull. I love him but I feel ashamed and disgusted and hurt . He never use to want sex with me either just tryed to get rid of me and I feel like he just wanted to watch this that's why. should I leave him if its hurting me so bad I'm 8 months pregnant too.i can't forget it he denys it but I feel like he's a compulsive lier to.
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he doesn't seem like that kind of person tho. he really don't . but he use to hang round with his son of 18 to that's how I met him . I no he sound bad but he can be sweet he just doesn't seem like that . that's why I'm so hurt
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To all the people who's stuck up for this man and said this was normal was wrong , he has since then hit me acussed me of cheating threatend to take his life and has done it but survived , spat in my face called me every name under the son chat up 15 years olds cheated on me , drugged my drink, stole from me , don't pay for baby so I think you should all think again before saying this is normal its disgusting . I'm not with him no more
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Turns out this man was a actual creep cheated on me 24 7 with diff women , did like little girls he moved in with another women while we was together
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Most Helpful Girls

  • At the end of the day almost all men watch p*rn and almost all men masturbate (if he says he doesn't I'd think he was lying to you). It's not a big deal at all, I've been with my boyfriend for eight months and he watches p*rn and masturbates, I have no problem with this as long as he doesn't expect me to watch it with him and as long as he doesn't choose p*rn over sex with me then I'm happy for him to do what he wants.

    Your boyfriend is 44 and your 19 so it's pretty clear that he likes younger girls, I don't understand why your confused about this? If you found granny p*rn on his laptop THEN you could worry and wonder why he was with a younger girl like you. He's obviously just attracted to younger women, I wouldn't say he was a pervert, a lot of older men like younger women, as long as their legal I don't see what the big deal is. I'd be more worried if he didn't find younger women attractive because then you'd have to wonder why he was with you.

    If your honestly not happy with him then you should walk away but in my opinion, there's no need too. You should try and work on this especially as there's a baby on the way too.

  • why on earth did you start a relationship with him and why're you having a baby with him? sounds like you don't like him very much, the fact that he watches 16 year olds in p*rn doesn't make him a pervert it makes him normal, men like fresh young faces, hence why he's with a 19 year old. just because you're not mature enough to accept certain truths about him or about your situation don't blame it all on him and label him a pervert. sex is not illegal with under 18's in most countries, so what's the big deal.

    you need to look at your life and make a few plans for yourself, sounds like you made a big mistake and are starting to regret it. grow up, you'll teach your baby a lot more by dealing with your mistake now rather than later. and I hate that I'm going to say this, but it's well known that hormones of expectant mothers can do all sorts of things to distort your perception, it could be a normal reaction at the moment, but you're cutting off the one person who can potentially help you in this problem, him!

  • report him

Most Helpful Guys

  • For what posible reason do you want to be together that someone your age can't be

    - Money?

    - Daddy Issues?

    - Big Dick?

    Your confused that he's watching 16 and 17yr olds, but he's going out with you?

    How can you not make the connection

  • How does his sons feel about you?

    And his ex?

    Can't imagine there happy

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  • yeah you should...leave him...and go to school again,since you obviously missed the ''this is pedobear,he is bad'' lesson

  • ... what do you expect most 44 year olds don't go after 19 year old girls...sheesh...

    • are you serious, you'll find most 44 year olds would look at any teenage girl and think the same thing

    • ... most 44 year olds are maried

  • IM HAPPY YOU MOVED ON, HES NOT WORTH IT GIRL, YOU DESERVE MUCH BETTER! AND NEXT TIME DONT GO FOR MARRIED MEN!

  • WTF CLOSE YOUR LEGS TO MARRIED MEN

    • he ain't f***in married we been together over year can you not read or are you thick

    • He's lying to you. You seem uneducated because of your choice of words.

    • its not the fact I'm uneducated its the fact you can't read. I no his not married he was before me, I lived with him and see him everyday I know his ex and I no his family .

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  • He's 44. You're 19. You're really surprised that he's into young girls?

  • Does ANYBODY remember a time when they had REAL questions and REAL scenarios on this site?

    • I'm new.

  • Are you blond or is this a joke?

  • WAIT

    what is your age and his age again?

    • 19 and his 44

    • I think that was a joke.

    • want to know the punchline? the rest of her life HeyO

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