Hand job on the first date?

[Anonymous]

What do you think about a girl that gives a guy a hand job on the first date?

[sexpertstella]

It doesn't sound like a good idea to me. I think that a guy would have more respect for a girl that waited till the relationship was a little more serious before doing anything too sexual. Giving him a handjob on the first date would most likely make him wonder if you've given every other guy a handjob on the first date, and could also result in him not thinking of you as "serious girlfriend material". Therefore, the relationship wouldn't go anywhere.

[brookeelizabeth]

personally I think it will probably most likely not lead to the kind of relationship most girls want to have. you start giving stuff away like that already, and that's all they're ever going to care about. If you want a real relationship you should probably try getting to know each other in a different way on the first date, just my opinion though...

[sxcMel]

I agree, it's OK if all you want is a sexual relationship with the guy, but if you want something more meaningful, I wouldn't be doing that.

[brookeelizabeth]

yep exactly! it all depends on what you're looking for

[islands7]

Odd you should mention this event that took place 1st date
then she played hard to get, as I pursued half a summer
before allowed to get naked sexual again... and again
but had to break up over her lying about (not) taking her BC pills
Otherwise, she would have a been a keeper and my life taking a different route

[Anonymous]

Aces!

[Brando]

It would be awesome...but I probably wouldn't see the girl seriously after that- meaning she would have the image of being a sex doll. If you don't set forth your value to other people, then they won't treat you like you want to be treated (unless you're in it for flings anyway). It goes back to all that "People will treat like in the way that you let them".

[Godfatherman]

id probably think that by the third date she be upside down in my bed... lol

[taster]

Addendum: Keep in mind the responders ages...I am older...I don't think older people worry nearly so much about the "first date" does that make sense?

[taster]

I guess that is what I would call a Hot Date! What do I think about the girl? I don't know...1st date doesn't mean complete stranger...but then you probably wouldn't agree to date a complete stranger anyway...r we talking about YOU...and are you over 30? I would say that it is more acceptable for an older female to act quickly than a young girl. I guess I don't have a problem with it...and by the way..I would be grateful... not disgusted... Good Enuf?

[SnackG]

She moves really fast. I'd be nervous as f***.

[Anonymous]

She's a keeper