Is it harder (for you) to come when having sex in complete darkness?

Having sex in complete darkness, I felt less self-conscious. I didn't have to worry whether my hair was too wild; I didn't have to worry about him seeing my body in an unflattering angle; I didn't have to worry about him catching me make weird faces; Not having to worry about those things left me able to enjoy every second; My mind wasn't on what he was seeing-. (whether I looked okay), but on the pleasure he was giving me. The problem is that he wants to see me; My face, my body. He thinks I'm attractive but I don't know what he is seeing truly. I wish that I could see myself through his eyes for one moment because I'm not as attractive as he seems to think I am. But back on topic, he told me that it was "harder" in dark. It hurt me because to me it felt beyond amazing. I was aware of Everything: (How the sheets were wet beneath me, but still warm; how I would grip him as he'd pull out, how when he'd go in about 2 inches and slightly to the left my right leg would tremble; I could predict his stroke- 4 strokes with just the tip, 2 strokes long and hard). And all I can think is that 'it didn't feel as good to him'. 'How could he not have felt as in tune?' Is it harder (for you) to come when having sex in complete darkness? Thanks
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  • When a guy is having sex with you, any "flaws" you might think you have are completely invisible to him, even if he could see them otherwise.

    For a man, it is a HUGE turn-on to see your girl's body and face during sex. When you can make your girl feel so good that she no longer cares what she looks like, or that her hair is a mess, or that she's making faces, THAT is unbelievably hot, at least to me.

    Clearly it's difficult for you to understand how guys are visually aroused by women. We love those curves, we love those jiggles, those tan lines, etc. But you really, really need to know that your man no only doesn't care if you've got a stretch mark or a pimple or whatever, he doesn't even SEE those things.

  • Of course it is harder guys are very visual when it comes to sexy they like to see the woman and when you take that away half the experience disapers. You should just turn on the lights, I know its hard because you are insicure but look at it this way, you obviously trust him or you wouldn't be having sex with him so instead of trusting the you that thinks your not attractive trust in him who thinks you are beautiful so that way if even if you cannt trust in you you can trust in him trusting you which will let you trust yourself through his trust of you =)

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't like sex in the dark and I'm a female. I want to see my guy face and body.

  • I prefer semi darkness. Pitch black is disorientating.

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  • Well, there's no visual stimulation so it kight be harder to be as aroused or keep an erection

    But, it might make the guy more comfortable to do what he wants so he can be more relaxed and last longer

  • Not at all..in some ways maybe easier in the dark...but..I try not to sleep with females that I don't want to look at. I wil eventually want to look at my mate...to go exploring...but a few times in the dark would not kill me..if he says he likes your looks..then why do you doubt him?

  • Sex in the dark sucks. period.