Is it harder (for you) to come when having sex in complete darkness?

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Having sex in complete darkness, I felt less self-conscious. I didn't have to worry whether my hair was too wild; I didn't have to worry about him seeing my body in an unflattering angle; I didn't have to worry about him catching me make weird faces; Not having to worry about those things left me able to enjoy every second; My mind wasn't on what he was seeing-. (whether I looked okay), but on the pleasure he was giving me.

The problem is that he wants to see me; My face, my body. He thinks I'm attractive but I don't know what he is seeing truly. I wish that I could see myself through his eyes for one moment because I'm not as attractive as he seems to think I am.

But back on topic, he told me that it was "harder" in dark. It hurt me because to me it felt beyond amazing. I was aware of Everything: (How the sheets were wet beneath me, but still warm; how I would grip him as he'd pull out, how when he'd go in about 2 inches and slightly to the left my right leg would tremble; I could predict his stroke- 4 strokes with just the tip, 2 strokes long and hard). And all I can think is that 'it didn't feel as good to him'. 'How could he not have felt as in tune?'

Is it harder (for you) to come when having sex in complete darkness?

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