Heyy,not all guys are the same come onnn...
Well I speak for myself and when I was with my gf,it was a long distance kind relationship and I never either cheated on her (like obviously,i liked her too much and I'm NOT like that) and after 3 years then we talked about having sex.,which was then fine...
So it really kinda depends on the person...
And I know that its just so common for every other guy to only think of having sex,once he's with a girl...that its obvious for a girl to think like that about guys overall...
and they spoil my reputation because I'am a guy too lol...
I don't plan on waiting 3 years lol just until I'm ready which could be 6 months or a year or maybe sooner
Well here's the thing,its really Hard for guys to know that when a girl is really ready to do it...so over here,you gotta let the guy know how much time you want and so on...and I wasn't relating that you wait that long i.e. 3 years...the girl who agreed to have sex with me after that long was once a girl that I met in beginning who thought that she couldn't never be friends with a guy lol and then yea, I changed her mind...
and there was this another girl that I had a small thing with,and she was up for to give me a bj,with just knowing her for a month and met up with her for just a week...so what I'am trying to say that it really depends on the girl too...
yes there are still plenty of guys out there willing to wait till the girl is nice and comfy I was 15 and waited till my ex and I were both comfortable neither of us regret it we are still great friends so yes good guys, gentlemen are still out there
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Look if you want to string along a guy and make him wait 2 years for sex, that is your business. Go find a guy who wants to be strung along for 2 years and date him. Maybe some guys like that. But don't try to force your beliefs on others.
What I mean is, just cause I guy doesn't want to play your game does not mean he isn't "decent." I think the most decent thing people can do is be HONEST about what they want. What would you prefer, a guy who tells you honestly that he enjoys sex and wants to have sex with you, or a guy who lies through his teeth and pretends he doesn't care about sex, but really only wants to bone you?
Sex is not a big deal unless you build it up in your mind like its the end of the world. Stop stressing about it. If you want to be a virgin, fine! Good for you. But don't get all angry at all the men on earth if they DON'T want to be virgins. Its a free country, we can do what we want.
You're acting like I'm trying to torture a guy. don't answer if you're going to be a retard and make false claims
um what? You called me "retarded" and you think I am making false claims? lol that's pretty funny. Take a deep breath and consider what you just said. For a lot of guys, waiting for sex is torture. :-) That's the truth, especially at a young age, such as yours when their hormones are going crazy. But those same guys lie and say they don't care about sex because they don't want girls (like you) to hate them. Don't ask questions if you're going to be upset by honest answers. Calm down.
I'm not upset but you sound angry at the world so you shouldn't take that out on me. No where in here did I say anything about waiting for 2 years or "stringing a guy along" you brought that up
I'm always willing to wait until a woman is comfortable... it isn't something somebody should be pressured into. I'm not religious so I'm not a wait until you're married type of guy but I am definitely willing to wait until somebody is ready.
I think most guys are. You probably just aren't attracted to the decent ones.
I waited for about a year and a half with my first girlfriend. I'd do it again.
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