Is there a way to tell if a guy is a virgin?

[maddiereynolds]

Is there a way to tell if a guy is a virgin? By their way of talking, how they act around you, physical characteristics, appearance, walk, or anything else? I'm a virgin and I wouldn't mind to actually know if a guy is a virgin. If they aren't a virgin do they tend to brag to friends what girls they did? If you have been in a relationships do you tell it to your guy friends or do you keep it to yourself? I met a guy one time and he said he always keeps his feeling to himself and he is shy. He never said anything to me about relationships and his friend that was mine too said he never talked to him or mentioned any girls. Just wondering if their are clues without really asking them.

[KarKingJack]

Yeah but its not reliable. You shouldn't be too hung up on it anyway.

And about the friends thing; it depends on the guy. A good example is me and a high school friend, we sat at the same table at lunch. We were both very sexually active - be it inside or outside a relationship with someone. And every day, he used to talk about what girls he f***ed - by name - what he did with them, how much they came, what he did, motion by motion... To the duress of everyone else, I must add. Me? I didn't even mention it. Never wanted to, and it'd feel wrong.

I'll occasionally talk about something that involves sexual activity between me and someone but only when it comes up, and never by name. To be honest, I've only ever done that when he's talking about it, ahaha. And it happens to be a good anecdote, or something. Lets him know he's not the only one, too.

Annnnd interesting to note, most people don't believe him, hahaha. But it takes a particular type of guy, is what I'm saying. And its not too common. So I don't think you can tell from asking their friends, although they'll all have their own opinions on why he's most definitely 100% a virgin.

[Rizzle]

No there really isn't a way without just straight up asking them. Friends are not reliable for knowing if someones a virgin or not and people answer questions differently. It's not like all virgins will react the same way to certain questions or comments.

[goflipaburger]

There aren't really any clues. How about you just get to know someone really well before you become involved in them. That way you can actually see how many 'secrets' or personal information they leak.

If you want to know if he's a virgin, you can always ask "How many people have you slept with?" instead of "Are you a virgin?" during a conversation.

[evander]

The best way to ask, is "If your not a virgin, lets have sex right now". People cling to virginity because of the belief in purity and finding that "special someone" to give your body to. If he says no, then you know he is a virgin.

My opinion may not work for most people's cases for there are certain types of people, like asexual people, who are not interested in sex.

[KarKingJack]

Or people who aren't virgins by choice, who'll say 'Uh yeah no I'm not a virgin, lets do it', ahahaha

[SnackG]

I'd just admit it. Ask if you want.

[DeanWillis]

same. I don't understand guys who lie about being a virgin..

[moviedude714]

he is socially awkward