Would guys rather get an handjob or finger a girl?

[Anonymous]

Well my boyfriend has had a lot more experience then me he has gotten an hj and fingered his ex girlfriend alot. he said it was because she wanted to do it but I'm sure he didn't say oh please no. haha. but point is I'm not comportable with the idea of me being fingered. I personally rather have sex then get fingered. so do you think he would mind if I only gave him things instead of him fingering me?

[Anonymous]

Lol I would rather get a handjob than finger a girl as long as she'd comfortable with that. I wouldn't want her giving me a hj when she'd much rather have me fingering her. So it kind of depends on that too. If she's equal on both I'll choose the hj. But if she's not, then I'd rather finger her because her hj would suck but it'd be exciting to both of us seeing her get so turn on being fingered. Whenever it comes to sexual things, guys can go with the flow, but if the girl isn't enjoying herself none of that will usually be any good for either of us.

[michigan2489]

Well I can say for myself that I rather give to receive, but if you feel better giving a HJ then it's you, just let him know maybe he'll understand and would be ok with that.

[luvmusik8]

I don't think he would mind at all. Mainly, guys will finger girls to please them. They don't really feel anything when they do it, unless they happened to be turned on from making a girl excited, haha. If you have him a handjob he would definitely enjoy it hands down. I wouldn't worry if I were you about the other way, and since you are not very comfortable with him fingering you, tell him that if he ever tries to. He's doing it for you anyway :)