Help! How do I hide my pregnancy from the father?

I had sex with this guy to get pregnant, and now I'm 5 months pregnant. I slept with him just to get pregnant, he has a girlfriend and everything and I have no feelings for him and vice versa I just thought we'd have a cute kid so I poked holes in the condom, but I don't want him involved. But we go to the same university, how can I hide my pregnancy from him.
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  • What the F**k. There are so many levels of stupidity here I don't think it's even possible to do all of them justice. But I have to ask the question, you're still in university. HOW are you going to support this child financially? Or finish your studies whilst juggling a baby? Babies are damn hard work, and having one because you think it'll be 'cute' is a sucky reason.

    You commented in one of the answers that you're a feminist. Sexual liberation and sexual deviance (poking holes in a condom, facePALM) are two VERY different things. Someone who would do that, amongst the other BAD reasons you're giving does not deserve to have a child. Seriously, when will society start testing people before they can screw up a child's life.

    I hope this is a troll, but unfortunately there are far too many people who would do something this stupid, so for all we know this could actually be the truth.

    I wish your baby luck, s/he's certainly going to need it.

    • my mom is offering to raise it, while I'm at school

  • sooooooo...you poked holes in a condom because you thought if you got pregnant his genes and your genes together would make a beautiful child...

    uhhmmm. god forbid your child ends up coming out with deformities..then what would you do then...him knowing would be the last thing you would have to worry about.

    • i'd give it up. I don't want an ugly baby.

    • well goodluck with that...and hopefully the dude never finds out because the first thing I would do if I even saw this post and knew it was from you...there would be a huge lawsuit in the court. the only way to hide your pregnancy is to have the baby...wallah.

  • That is so wrong. I guess if he asks you can always say it's not his

    • yeah I can just say its not his. but I have to make it sound convincing. who knows he probably won't even want to be involved, which would be awesome:) thanks!

    • Good luck to you. Many others wouldn't feel the same as you... though, I think. But since you can provide fir the kid, then all is well. It's pretty easy to not be involved (especially for the guy). That's why it's usually the women who get angry and upset that their man leaves them heavily pregnant with a baby.

Most Helpful Guys

  • My ex girlfriend got pregnant, told me at 6 months after we broke up, told me it was mine, found out it wasn't when she was born, now I have full custody and she's in prison along with the biological father. Do not under estimate a guys feelings, we care just as much as you girls do. You are horribly wrong for doing this to someone.

  • Why do I get the feeling that you're just trolling? If you're devious and amoral enough to f*** a guy and poke a hole in the condom just to get pregnant, you should be devious and amoral enough to just lie to him if/when he asks if the child with his.

    • aint that that truff? lmao

    • i know to lie, but I need tips on how to hide me being pregnant

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  • Wow. The first part was devious enough, I'm sure you can come up with something on your own for the grand finale.

  • I realllllllllllllly hope this is fake. If not, you are screwed up and he has the right to know about everything.

  • BABY RAPE. BABY F***ING RAPE. This digusts me on so many levels do you realize what a violation of rights that is?

    I would say its' someone elses and stay the hell out of his life.

  • I pray that the baby daddy has more than enough brain cells to share with the child. 'Cos it's clear the mother is a few fries short of a Happy Meal.

  • It's women like you that make us all look bad.

    • My thoughts exactly. No wonder why guys think women are psycho b**ches.

  • you're evil.

  • bonjour troll.

    and how are you doing on this fine evening?

    • i'm not a troll, just being honest

    • Lmao

  • This is the reason why I hate society.

    Obvious troll is obvious.

    • i'm not asking him for child support or anything.

    • but maybe the child wants a "normal" family, ever thought of that?

    • in this day and age, what's normal?

  • What are you gonna tell the kid when it asks why it doesn't have a daddy? That's my question

    • i could say I don't know who he is, or I could say that I was raped or I could say he died

    • That's gonna either make the kid think your a.) a hoe b.) become depressed because they will think they are a rape baby or c.) become depressed because they will never meet their dad. That's how I would be if my mom told me that. I like having a dad. That's my opinion...and what about your parents?

    • well I'm a feminist, so being sexually active wouldn't be a big deal to my child.

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  • Don't be stupid. Say it's someone else's kid. Deerrr.

    • how do I hide being pregnant?

    • You DON'T. If you're serious about this which I highly doubt by the way, just say it's someone else's kid? You can't hide that. Until it comes out

    • i don't want anyone else to find out, and I don't want to give him any ideas about doing a DNA test

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  • This is on a whole nother level of fucked up.

  • Fxcking stupid. I don't know why you would even admit this.. You have issues

    • it's not stupid, it makes perfect sense. I don't want a relationship and why spend money at a sperm bank when I can get the same thing for free

    • Its stupid because its borderline crazy.. And that understating it. I guess if that's the best you can do since you can't get a man to commit and want to WILLINGLY make offspring with your crazy ass

    • i don't want a boyfriend. which is why I did this in the first place. if I wanted a relationship I wouldn't have decided to have a baby on my own.

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  • You're a psycho ! By what did you didn't only ruin your own life and destiny your ruined the guys' life and an innocent baby's life, only because you thought it was cute. Playing with people's lives only because you have huge emptiness isn't fair at all. I hope that God will lighten your way and give you your mind back.

    • jesus freak

  • Seriously? Your whole situation is stupid. You were obviously smart enough to get yourself pregnant without him knowing, you mean to tell me you can't keep it hidden from him? Lying worked for the first part, I don't see why it wouldn't again.

    • well its hard to hide a pregnancy cause you keep getting bigger

    • lie, say it's not his.

  • That's not right at all. He he has a right to know if has having a kid or not.