Handjob questions, advice?

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1. If I start going really fast up and down does this imply I think he's about to cum? Because my guy is really quiet so I can never tell if he's close or not, does going really fast feel good enough to make you come faster or should I only go really fast when I know for sure he's close?2. Lube or no lube?3. If I use lube, should I ask first or just put some on my hands and go for it?4. When giving a dry handjob is it the gliding motion of the foreskin that feels good and not the friction of my hand if his foreskin doesn't move much?6. If his foreskin doesn't go over the head of his d*** should I just stroke up until my hand hits the underside of the head? I would have thought without lube my hand going over the head without foreskin would hurt?7. How far before him cumming should I see precum? Ie is it pretty much instantly from pre come to come or is there a few minutes gap?

jackflynn7 · Accepted Answer

Thoughtful questions.

1. You will know that The Moment is about to arrive when his penis twitches once and puts out a large blob of clear precum. Fast is good but not heavy a grip. Remember that your hand is supposed to simulate a Vagina.

2. Use plenty of water-base lube. Cocoa butter is good.

3. Put some on your hands and go for it. Heat from friction and the resulting chafing will ruin a HJ.

4. Retract his foreskin (if necessary) with your other hand so the collar of his glans gets direct contact. Your Vagina retracts his foreskin on the way in.

6. (what happened to 5?) More of (4), retract his foreskin and form a ring with your stroking hand and slide it past the collar of his glans with each stroke.

7. You will see precum soon after he is hard. Its purpose is to make penetration into your Vag smoother. As I said in (1), his penis will twitch once and he will put out a large blob of precum. When that happens, his orgasm has gone on automatic and ejaculation contractions should begin in about two seconds.

FrancoBattiato · Accepted Answer

Is he cut? If yes;

1. Faster is always better, it'll make him come faster

2. Not for me, that's what foreskin is for

3. Always ask first :P

4. The gliding of the foreskin over the head is what creates the pleasure. Dry friction of your hand on the foreskin is not good (friction burns)

5. (you can't count)

6. Just go up and down as far as the foreskin allows, going over the head with just your hand and no lube will hurt

7. Precum is about how turned on he is, you can go from nothing to come if you do it fast, take your time and keep him edged (slow right down when he feels he's going to cum) and you'll start seeing precum. Everyone is different,

ilikesourlemons · Answer

1) no just do it and tease the glans and frenelum abit 2) no lube xd use ur spit 3) ask 4) yup it’s the foreskin 5) yea 6) prob after a min or so, when he gets excited

bunnybrat1961 · Answer

Use lube, if he wants you to go fast then go fast.  Play with the head and the shaft.  But I find that if you take your time it feels better for him and I think it makes the two of you closer as well.  It is nice  to look after the needs of others before your self sometimes.  I personally LOVE a long long slow and gentle hand job.  Just my opinion Dave

Anonymous · Answer

give him head and switch between the both maybe you can catch a surprise

Anonymous · Answer

LUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUBE.

And have fun with it. If you're giving him a handy, he should be able to give you some feedback. However, don't just ask if something is nice; our brains are operating at reduced capacity during party fun time. What is far more helpful is asking which one feels better (that can be hard to answer sometimes, too). However, many guys will be shy about giving even constructive criticism, so make sure he feels safe (things can go very bad very quickly to a guy that mouths off)

Anonymous · Answer

great question. can't wait to read all the answers!

Anonymous · Answer

Depends... are you gonna swallow his come from a hj?

Anonymous · Answer

All that technical sh*t is nice and all but all you really need to do is talk to him while your doing it. Say sh*t like "you like that daddy" or "I can't wait to have your come on my lips" or "how does that feel baby". Like Madonna said, "make him express how he feels, then you know his love is real". Spit reduces chafing. Using lube is OK but not necessary. Suck the tip while you do the HJ.

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