Should I give a blow job to guy who is not my boyfriend?

I don't have a boyfriend. I have a huge crush on this guy, I see him at the club every week, we have chatted a bit before. I know he doesn't want a serious relationship... I'm a virgin and I don't want him to think that I'm easy, so if he asks for sex, I'm going to said no... but what about blow job?
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  • Okay, this seems a bit out of context. I'm assuming you're thinking of a FWB scenario?

    Personally, I think it would be weird as hell for a girl to blow a guy just because he's pretty unless she has a fetish for giving head (in which case, just be safe).

    However, if you date the guy casually or hook up with him, there's nothing wrong with consenting acts between consenting adults. Just make sure that you're doing it because you want to, not because its going to make you "popular."

    My suggestion: imagine doing it. Them imagine what happens afterward. Does what you imagine happening afterward feel right? If so, is it realistic? Be honest. That should answer your question about as well as anybody can.

  • if you blow him what are you getting out of the deal. your not getting off. hell think its odd if you just go up to him without making out or anything and just start blowing him or ask him to blow him. that's what hookers do. kind of unendearing. why not try befriending him, date him, and go from there. how do you know he doesn't want a relationship. normally when a guy says that if he does that means he just doesn't want a relationship with YOU. Trust me on this.

    dont sell yourself short ...get a little more respect for yourself

    • Holy schnikeys. I just clicked on your picture...;-))))))) But erm, yes, I agree um, with you. ^_^

    • :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • Giving a blow job is no less a sexual act than sexual intercourse, you sound stupid just from reading this. Have safe sex with him but don't give him an unprotected blowjob you might catch something nasty.

  • Go ahead blow him.

    Guys f*ck girls they have no feelings for nothing wrong with blowing a crush.

    • lol oh really now? wow *laughs

    • Possibly the best answer I've ever seen from you... really, I'm impressed!

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  • how about you tell the guy to go blow himself. Why on earth would you blow a guy just because you have a crush on him? That is the most retarded thinking I have ever heard. Please learn to have some self respect.

  • "I don't have a boyfriend."

    Then do what you want. You don't want intercourse, but you would blow him. Say it, then do it.

  • No, that's just as bad, have some self respect

    xxx

    • Pffft, like you'd refuse a gobble if you were offered?!?!?! If you say ''Yes I would refuse''... there's something wrong with you If you say ''Yes I'd accept''... you're a hypocrite, either way you can't get out of it

    • I'm married, how d'ya like them apples?

  • Yes you should... if you want to that is

  • really? a guy from the club?

    bad bad bad idea.

    those places aren't good for meeting decent guys.

    my advise to you is, don't touch him.

  • well if you want casual sex or a one-night stand, go for it because it is easiest thing in the world for a girl to do, but if you want a relationship with him, I would not do it

  • Ask yourself, how does it help you?

  • He won't want a serious relationship anymore than if you didn't blow him or if you did have sex with him.