Guys, what would you think if you found out your girlfriend has a sex toy?

[Anonymous]

turned on? Intrigued? maybe a little intimidated? totally turned off? I own a vibrator, but its not like a massive thing, just a simple no bells or whistles toy... and I use it to pleasure myself quite often. Well, my boyfriend and I have recently ventured into the land of dirty text messaging, and I'm wondering if I should keep that part to myself or if he'd think it's hot? I don't really care either way I just have no idea what guys might think of their girlfriends using sex toy, and the goal is to turn him on, not make him feel uncomfortable... so if I can be open/honest at the same time that'd be great too, but if not I get it.

[Anonymous]

Alright I'll be honest and say I would think you're normal (most women seem to own them lol) but it's a turn on and intimidating at the same time. It's a turn on to know all about a girl's personal sex drive and life and that we're intimate enough that she would share that but then there is always that little voice in the back of my head asking if I'm as good as the toy and wishing my penis could vibrate lol! Since it's not massive (hopefully not bigger than your Boyfriend lol) it probably won't be an issue and more a turn on.

[Asker]

Not gonna lie, if guys penises came with upgrades that gave them the ability to vibrate, I'd probably take it lol, but they are two totally different things, not even comparable. you don't need to worry at all. a real penis is sexy. they are soft and warm, the skin is smooth, they bend and twitch and shoot come and one gorgious one is attached to someone I care about very deeply...Sex toys don't stand a chance. they're fun to get off with but the emotional and visual component is gone

[Opinion Owner]

Not gonna lie, you just boosted my guy ego up a few points! LMAO Thanks : )

[Asker]

good, I'm glad :) I can totally see why guys might be concerned about sex toys, but they don't need to be. I think that guys who watch a lot of p*rn are more intimidating because 1) you don't ever really know what you're up against, 2) you actually can try to measure up to it, but will likely fail. with sex toys it's not even a fair contest so it doesn't matter.

[Opinion Owner]

You just made the comparison I wanted to make but didn't because I didn't want to get into it because I was afraid of where and how off topic the discussion might go. Anyways p*rn is so not even close to the sensations, smells, sounds, and emotions a real woman can give that there really is no comparison. Don't even try to do the things your boyfriend watches girls do in p*rn because if he is anything like me he doesn't really want you to anyway.

[Caliguy88]

It’s hot. Happens all the time.

[debsman]

The insecure guys can't handle the idea of a girl using a toy. If I was to walk in on my wife using a toy, (we have plenty), I'd sit and watch her finish...then jump her bones. Maybe to find out how your boyfriend feels about a girl using a toy, tell him you have a cousin that told you about how much fun it is to use one and see how he responds. If its possitive, then let him know about your toy. Some things are best not said, (depending on the age of the guy).

[Asker]

good idea, I'll have to work on how to casually bring sex toys into the conversation though lol.

[debsman]

Has your boyfriend ever watched you masturbate using your fingers?

[Asker]

not really, I mean sometimes I play with myself a little during sex etc with him, but it's never been the main attraction lol. we've recently started sort of talking about it through text though, pretty much aiming to turn on the other person with the end result of one or both of us touching ourselves. I'm hoping that this will eventually lead up to similar encounters in person but we'll see.

[debsman]

Discovering each others' turn-ons in person is so much better.

[Anonymous]

Don't know if this helps but neither my current or any of my exes minded. In fact, every one of them loved to watch me use it or used it on me. One of my exes bought several of them for me. Yes, I have about a grand worth of toys. Money well spent. LOL

[MrOracle]

I'd want to see her use it on herself, and then let me use it on her, and then ways of using it while we're having sex, etc. Let it add to the fun.

[Konpachi]

Guys, what would you think if you found out your girlfriend has a sex toy?

- Honestly I would find that to be EXTREMELY HOT. This would basically indicate to me that she is not a prude and knows when to have some fun.

[tzdc21]

If she had it and discussed it with me, that's one thing. But if she had it and hid it from me and I found out on my own... that's where I'd get upset.

[Ezmotts]

I'd be fine with it.

[Anonymous]

I've never heard of a guy really caring. You're not using another guy's penis while he's away, so he's happy.

[Asker]

haha very true. I would hope he knows that I'd prefer him to a piece of plastic though :)

[Anonymous]

I would want to use it on her.

[Asker]

that would be so f***ing hot...

[Opinion Owner]

To bad I have never had a girlfriend to do it with though but it would be so fun

[Asker]

aw they just don't even know what they are missing haha

[Opinion Owner]

Lol I guess I hope I can meet a nice girlfriend at some point.

[Anonymous]

I'd make you use with with me watching you using it.

[Asker]

you wouldn't be intimidated/offended that it's not your d*** in there?

[Opinion Owner]

I'd be too concentrated jerking off to think about that stuff.

[Asker]

aah I love the thought of watching a guy get himself off. so sexy. I'd love to watch someone else but I don't know if I have the guts to let a guy watch me... I suppose it's only fair to give him some inspiration though :)