Anything I can do to tighten up my vagina? Please read more,since this makes me sound loose.

OK,so,I lost my virginity a couple days ago.I know that after sex,your vagina isn't as tight as it used to be.Let's just say I take extreme pride on how tight my vagina was ( I'm unsure having sex once makes you loose?), my exes could never get two fingers up there,and a pinky hurts too,sorry not trying to get graphic but I'm just saying.And they would also say how tight I am.
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Most Helpful Guy

  • A lot of what you might think is "tightness" is your hymen, which is a thin membrane of skin that covers the vaginal opening, except for a hole in the middle. Assuming your hymen was still intact, it was very likely ruptured when you had sex. Once the hymen has been torn, you should be able to get two fingers inside without too much problem, maybe three with a little bit of work. That's normal and is still considered tight. But it will never be blocked down to the small opening in the hymen that you had when you were a virgin.

    But that's not what "tight" means anyway. "Tight" refers to the vaginal cavity itself, which I'm sure is still plenty tight for you. Normally, it takes pretty severe stretching (using a huge dildo or something like a glass Coke bottle, or childbirth) to loosen a vagina in any significant way, and even that is somewhat reversable as the vagina has elastic muscles that will tighten up again over time. Multiple childbirths or other "trama" can certainly cause some permanent loosening, though.

Most Helpful Girl

  • im jealous lol

    do some kegal exercises if you worried! having sex once doesn't make it loose :o not really noticeable at least

    • Haha don't be jealous my friend..I have spent many hours in the bathroom crying the first time trying to use a tampon.SO STRESSFUL!Thanks a lot though!

    • LOL at least you're still tight! first time I had sex barely hurt too! man I was born loose ha ha tampons are so small tooo!

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  • Kegels, cream, and surgery.

    • kegels...during urinating right?Thanks!

  • Yes there is. It's called find a thicker penis to push it there.

    • trust me when I say a thick penis will make you feel virginal all over again.

    • hahaha,thanks!I'll find one when I need an ego boost.

  • Kegels

    • Anything with the word keg,and I'm in.Thanks man!