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Can you tell how big a guys penis is?

Can you tell, based on the guy's looks and physique, how big he is down there? I'm not saying the exact dimension ofcourse! Just if he is big or tiny. Does this make sense? A friend of mine said that a skinny guy will have a tiny one & a strong tall guy will have a big one! P.S. I'm virgin so I'm not well-experienced or let's say not experienced at all ;)
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If looks don't show it, can a guy's personality prove anything? Like if he's so confident> he's big. If he's shy> he's small. I know it might sound stupid but it's always good to understand and delete these myths I hear :)
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I'm not talking about shyness in particular. It doesn't make sense to me either. It's just an example. Can we link confidence, shyness, arrogance, selfishness, etc... to the size down there?
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  • No, there's no way to know without seeing it.

    A friend of mine is definitely a ladies man. Lots of girlfriends, and lots of interest in him from other girls. He is very confident in himself and carries himself well. On more than one occasion, I've heard him tell some girl that is hitting on him that he's not all that big. And one of his old girlfriends confirmed this (I didn't really ask!) but said he certainly knew how to use it. But it's an example of a guy who is very confident but not packing a huge cannon.

    Another example: a guy I worked with and went to some parties with was well-known to be large. He wasn't shy about whipping it out in certain situations, and more than one person told me about it. But he actually wasn't that confident around girls, because (as he told me one time) many girls would refuse to have sex with him once they saw it, and many who did would only do so once or twice and then break up with him because sex was uncomfortable. He didn't like to say it around other people, but he wanted a girlfriend, and couldn't seem to keep one. That made him insecure around girls.

    Size is random. There are huge, muscle-bound guys with small penises, and little short scrawny guys with big ones, and vice versa, and everything in between.

    • Thanks for the explanation! :)

    • Well, as a 55 year old man, and having had a fair amount old sex until I the past decade or so, and recalling what my girlfriends always said about my package. They all like it, and I'd never be embarrassed with it. I'm a 5'10" medium build with strong legs and my balls are way too big for my liking sometimes…my penis gets to be close to 10 inches hard but as thick as a flashlight. I've seen big black guys in prison that looked like that had a not bad sized camel toe, but no big shlong…. then again this little old french guy about five foot fuck all had a wrench and set of cojones that'd make a silver backed gorilla blush…just the luck of the draw. The MYTH regarding black guys is just that, a MYTH. Sure, lots of black guys have abnormally big retarded donkey-ass dicks…the chicks xan barely jam the helmet part in there slobbering gates…? Same goes for chicks and their potential amazing gash? Fat chick with the tightest quim you'll ever experience, skinny one with a scary black hole?

    • No probs…it's just the luck of the draw…big muscle-bound hunks, might have ridiculously tiny penises because of the steroids…then some 123 pound 5 foot 2 inch Italian guy might have 23 inches of friendly weapon…?

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  • Nope, penis size is genetic. I've never understood why so many girls have these types of common misconceptions about it.

    There is no correlation with the size of a guys penis and his hands, feet or height. Why? Because the penis does not have a bone in it, so it does not grow in proportion to their own body like most other aspects.

    Personality can't really say much about a mans size either. Things like confidence, shyness, arrogance, selfishness are subjective upon a person and their environment. The only correlation I've noticed is that I find most people who constantly talk about and try to validate its size to others are usually overcompensating.

    However, most guys really don't think with their penis and it has no effect in their personality, I don't see why it would. It's just a part of the body like all others

    • Thanks for the explanation! :)

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  • Nah, I don't think physical build has much to do with it. Size is random.

    For example, the guys I've dated:

    Big muscular guy, average penis.

    Skinny guy, average penis.

    Even skinnier guy, above average penis.

    The last one, my current boyfriend, is also the shyest guy I know. I don't think penis size dramatically affects a guy's confidence unless that's all he cares about... Like girls, even if we like our boobs, there are other things to be insecure about, unfortunately.

    There are a few guys who think they're God's gift to women because of their penis, but I think that's because they're just naturally douches :P

    • hahaha

  • No not true at all a lot of skinny guys are packin as a matter of fact I believe the thicker they are the smaller their junk gets...

    • More body fat in the pubic region does make it shorter but the girth remains the same.

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  • No.

  • @ the update

    I don't think so, at least the shy part, that doesn't mean anything about size. But confidence, maybe. If the guy is confident and wants you in bed, he's showing you signs, he could be big, but he might be big in his mind and small in your ideal size. I'm sorry if this doesn't make a whole lot of sense

    • lol It does. I'm not talking about shyness. It doesn't make sense to me either. It's just an exammple. Can we link confidence, shyness, arrogance, selfishness, etc... to the size down there?

    • ahh not really... I mean, I know guys who are the funnest around, you know just great guys that girls would love, and they admitted to me that they have small c*cks. So personality doesn't give it away completely. I don't know I'm not much help on this one =/

    • You're gr8! thanks :)

  • Well I'm tall and not that strong, but really skinny, and lets just say I'm REALLY happy with my size :)

    Just ask yourself how being fatter will increase that aspect of you.

    • Not fat. She's saying that a guy with big muscles for example who's tall & athletic would definitely have a big d***.

    • Yeah but that's what I mean, how will lifting weights with your arms, running with your legs, and crunching with your abs change the size of a d***? Doesn't affect it anymore than it affects how big your feet are (it doesnt) But I'm tall, so I don't know about that one, maybe that's the reason I've got a p*rn cock

    • lol thanks.

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  • again, personality has nothing to do with it!

    of course SOMETIMES if a guy is really confident he will be big, but likewise you get confident guys that arent.

    In short (excuse the pun) there is NO way of telling how big a guy is unless you get down to it (or he wears speedos)

    • lol thanks!

    • haha I loved your pun

  • as everyone else is saying no you cant. Just like you can't tell what a girl is like "down there" by looking at her.

    its famously reported that a small professional footballer in england has a MASSIVE "asset".

    • lol

  • I heard guys that are mean or assholes tend to be small, hence why they act this way, because they are pissed of a the size they have. I think chill guys, one myself, and generaly confident are bigger cause they don't feel self conscious and are comfortable with themselves. But overconfident can sometimes be trying to overcompensate. That is personality wise. Body wise, I really don't know, my guess if a guy is healthy or strong he is more likely to perform better in bed but not sure it will affect his size. Anyway just my guess so don't know could be completely wrong.

    • This whole story is to say that you're big! :P

    • No, I am also trying to defame assholes :P see 2 purposes to the story :D

    • Haha! ;)

  • It was a pretty stupid question, yeah

    • Well, you can still answer it.

    • LOL ;) The implication was 'no'. You can't tell =] In fact, its often a well considered theory that muscular guys are sometimes overcompensating for their lacking downstairs, but that's an uncertain science

    • Neat one :D

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  • Nope

  • no however personality gives it away sometimes

    • how?

    • People act cocky and arrogant, not that I do, I'm awesome

    • look all guys will quote on quote brag about their size, just look at the new south park episode and you will understand link I couldn't find an exact link to it

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  • no. some big guys have little ones and some little guys have big ones, and most people have average ones.

    p.s. your friend is a retard.

    • lol

  • Nope, the guy claimed with the biggest d*** isn't really tall and is a bit overweight

    I have read that height doesn't really show a difference don't know about muscles or whatnot

    • I doubt the personality thing will show it as they probably have more things to be confident or shy about than their penis, that wouldn't come across by just meeting someone

  • i'm 5'8" but have long legs and a very boyish petite little body, I also have a very boyish face that I don't even grow facial hair on the sides of my face.

    All my past gf's have admitted they knew I would have a tiny penis, with them usually guessing I would be about 4 inches erect. I'm 3.5 to 4 inches erect so they definitely were right about me, but that's probably more to do with my very boyish face that I only need to shave my top lip and chin, or maybe its all my factors combined that girls can guess I have a tiny penis.

    I've also noticed from pics online that any guy anywhere close to my size is overweight and just has 'concealed penis', and are a lot thicker than my penis

  • no , but I wish I could lol

    • lol me too.

  • The best indicator of a big **** is his father has a big cock. So f*** the dad to see if the son's packing.

  • Chondell?

    • No. lol Can you answer the question?

    • I know its you.

    • You're so busted! LOL;)

  • This makes me think of Chodes...

    And No you can not tell.

  • no, you can not tell how big someone really is by their figure. In fact, the big buff guys usually have tiny d***s. The only way to know for sure is to get him to drop his pants.

    Don't believe anyone who says "Big feet and big hands = big c**k." Cause its not true. My feet size is 9 and my hands are pretty small. I'm 5"8 and I'm 6.5 inches. Not big, but it's bigger than what people would think if they saw my feet/hands/height.

    • Thanks! So, you can never know :)

    • From looking at him with his pants on, yes :)

    • i'm the same dimensions as this guys

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