How soon should I tell a girl that I'm into feet?

[crispy256]

One of the hardest things about finding a girl for me has been whether or not she would be cool with my "foot fetish." In all other aspects I guess you could say I'm a completely normal guy, but it seems like much of society has turned guys with foot fetishes into a weird creepy stereotype that kinda freaks girls out. I guess I'm just wondering what you would think if a guy you started dating told you he was massively turned on by your feet? How should he say it so that it wouldn't make you freak out?

[taster]

Being neutral on feet, I am always surprised when I hear that someone likes them or when I hear that someone doesn't like feet. I c them as another body part of the female that I love...which, by the way, entitles me to touch them...and rub & massage them..probably have kissed them B 4...females are more accepting of what their males want when they are in love with steady relationships...In my experience, most females want to please their lover...one said the other day that she was fine with a foot fetish...but no toe-sucking..I asked why...she said that she was ticklish...What EXACTLY would you like to do with these females' feet?

[crispy256]

Well, a big part of it for me would be knowing that she was enjoying it. I've told a few past girl friends, and a few of them actually found it really sexy. It really gets me going when the girl initiates, like putting her feet in my lap or asking me to rub/kiss them. Getting to lick and suck the toes is a big turn on for me too, but I'm not a selfish guy so once the girl gets me started I really make it worth her effort. Footjobs are fantastic!

[taster]

You should not ever have much problem..what you described...and if you approach steadies... I am into their pee and I have never been told "no"

[crispy256]

I had a friend that was into that, and he was one of the few I was comfortable talking with about my infatuation with girls feet.

[diabloknk]

I'd say you should tell her right about the time you guys actually start talking about sex and what you guys like/don't like. If you're close to having sex and you haven't talked about sex yet, then now would be a good time. You don't want to mention it on the first date- that's just too much information on a first date. But it's something you need to tell her before the first time you guys f***.

[learningthegame16]

Well I would be surprised and I would only find it creepy if he wanted to do crazy stuff to them. So I guess it depends on how odd this foot fetish really is.

[taster]

Ur attitude seems reasonable to me..I keep trying to get these feet & armpit guys to tell us what they want to do with your feet & armpits...but...alas...no success...yet...

[learningthegame16]

Well I am pretty reasonable :P I'm guessing there might be licking involved? I have no idea.

[taster]

This one commented below...he doesn't sound a lot different from me...even tho I am not a foot guy.. Thank you for responding...

[crispy256]

It's really not all that odd. Basically feet = t*ts for guys like me, at least that's how I've kinda translated it. Feet are the most curvaceous part of a womans body. I guess the thing that has bothered me for so long, is how sometimes the media portrays guys with foot fetishes as really weird and crazy horndogs that can't keep their eyes off a girl with open toed shoes. A few examples: the guy on the bus from the movie Road Trip and that movie Morning Glory with guy played by Patrick Wilson

[learningthegame16]

Hmm, well then it wouldn't be much of a problem. I'd recommmend telling the girl your seeing when you think she can handle it, if that makes sense. Some girls are more open and accepting so you can definately a girl like that before sex, however if she's a little more close minded I'd suggest sleeping with her a few times so she becomes comfortable with you. Then you can just mention that you adore her feet.

[l-hedoniste]

"In all other aspects I guess you could say I'm a completely normal guy"

Wrong. You're a completely normal guy, period. Don't let anyone tell you different.

[crispy256]

I appriciate that, it's always kinda made me feel different, and I've always felt like I couldn't talk to other guys about how awesome a girls feet were. I always felt kinda alone...

[l-hedoniste]

You're not alone. I know plenty of guys like you, and they all have girlfriends whose feet they can worship. You'll be fine, better than fine.

[Light_Yagami]

lol test the water, try and bring it up in conversation relating to a supposed friend who told you that he had a foot fetish, gage her reaction and go from there.