Any tips for initiating sex with an very inexperienced guy?

[Anonymous]

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 and half months now. I know he's a virgin and never been in any kind of relationship before. He is very, very quiet and shy around other people but opening up more and more around me. He's really sweet and we always cuddle and kiss and stuff but I really want us to take the next step and have sex. I'm getting the feeling that I'm going to have to initiate things cause he's really nervous when we get a bit intimate. I'm not used to this!

[BeowulfNode]

I'm sure he wants sex too, nearly all guys do.

seeing as he's a virgin and you are not (I assume from what you've said) he is extremely nervous about it and possibly intimidated by your experience.

while you're kissing and cuddling work your hands underneath his clothes, and start taking them off him. If he doesn't object and doesn't take yours off, take your own off too. With your bra, he'll undoubtedly fumble with that and ruin the mood so it'd be good if you did this before he had a chance to reach for it.

I seem to be saying this a bit lately but I'll say it again. The more frequently a guy cums the longer it takes each time. It may be a good idea to tell him very early on that you want to make him come over and over again so that he won't feel too bad about cumming very quickly the first couple of times that day, and that by the end of it he'll at least have lasted longer than a 1 minute wonder at least once.

[Belgie]

Tell him straight up "Tonight, I want us to have sex".

Write it down if you have problems saying the words.

If you can't even talk to your chap about sex, then you probably shouldn't be having sex with him.

[Italiangirl99]

Start kissing and putting your hands in the nether regions

[l-hedoniste]

Get naked, keep your hands on him, keep your lips on him, and let nature take its course. Humans were at this before we even had language. You'll work it out.

[FrancoBattiato]

Just whip out his junk and jump on!

[Anonymous]

kiss him slowly and whisper in his ear: do you want to