When you're finished with foreplay you have several techniques you can try out. The options are endless actually. The art is combining all of them, using the right one's at the right time and being ready for the grand finale. So, here are a few things you will be using.
Stroking Some girls have absolutely no idea how to give head. Why on earth do they use only their mouth? Use your hands. You have to use everything you can, you're mouth is just part of the blow job. You have your hands, tongue, nails, breath, teeth (don't use them if you're a beginner 'cause it can be really painful for your partner), voice, words. Everything.
So, hold that **** and stroke it. Almost always, while you're giving him head, while you're holding his **** in your mouth also hold it in your hand and stroke it. The important thing about stroking is Tempo and Pressure. Tempo is the speed you stroke it at, the pace. Usually as the blow job is going from beginning to end you have to slowly increase the tempo of stroking. Especially in the end.
For most guys it's impossible to come if you're not stroking it at least a bit. It's hard to put enough pressure on the shaft by using only your mouth. Never let your hands lie still and go unused when you give head.
Your mouth Well, to be honest - the bigger the better. Most guys prefer looking at nice big lips and a big mouth. Somehow we linked up in our mind that a big mouth equals a great blow job. I guess the p*rn industry should be blamed for that. Actually in reality the size of your mouth is not so important... I already said earlier that you should drink some water before giving head. The easier your mouth slides on his cock, from the head to the end the better. Make sure you make his d*** as wet as possible. Spit on it if you must. Don't be afraid to suck hard, a lot of us enjoy it that way. More about this subject you can find in the Jack's Blowjob Lessons.
Your tongue Is your weapon of mass explosion. Use it while your lips are locked over the head of his cock, do some tornado moves round his head. Pay particular attention to the frenulum, which is the loose patch of skin on the underside of the penis where the head meets the shaft. This is a very very sensitive area. Run your tongue along it. Guys just love it when you gently lick it there. Be creative. Use your tongue in every possible way... tease him with it. As you hold his shaft stick your tongue out - look him in the eyes and say "aaaah" then lick the tip of his head and give him a naughty smile. Guys just love that.
Deep throat is cool and all, but probably not the holy grail of what feels best for most guys. You should pay attention to the most sensitive parts of the d*ck. The most sensitive is the frenulum, on the underside of the d*ck where the head meets the shaft. You should be sure to give it a lot of attention with your tongue. Check out some videos of a p*rnstar named Carmella Bing. She does this thing where she flicks her tongue on a guy's frenulum and it looks like it'd feel absolutely amazing. The other thing to do is to be able to tell how close the guy is to cumming. If you can back off just before and let him come down a bit and then build him up again and do that a few times, then when you finally make him come it will be absolutely incredible.
Happy sucking!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Deep-throating does nothing for me, to tell the truth. It's a proud bit of athleticism, but I can do without it.
Watch some p*rn. Also ask your guy, not us, he'll know what he wants and likes.
Communication is key.
Deep throating feels good, (not necessarily wonderful) but it's not the only thing that feels good.
It's best if you vary things up a bit.
Suck the head while stroking? Good.
But you could also try :
Removing from the mouth, and tentatively licking, teasing, blowing gently on it
Keeping everything still, except your tongue.
Very very gently using your teeth to nip at the shaft (not the glans)
Play with the balls.
Watch some p*rn videos to get some inspiration.
Since you don't mind deep throating, you could try this as an experiment: put his hands on your head and tell him to take control. Make sure he's not shy about it: tell him to be absolutely selfish and do whatever gives him the most pleasure. Once you know what feels best for him, you'll be able to imitate that.
yes. It won't kill you.
A lot of girls don't want to, but since you don't mind, definitely do it. If you can go deep, you should being doing it. No guy is going to stop you or complain I can guarantee, and yes they're going to like it a lot more.
I actually don't like it. To me it is p0rn theatrics.
The technique that gets me off is "nursing" (licking and sucking like a baby) and very rapidly stroking the shaft with a moderate grip. When she is playing down there and decides to finish me, she can get me off in one minute at any time by doing this "full bore".
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