Feminist have been trained and push the idea that all men are rapist in waiting. When in actual fact less than 1 in 1000 rapes happen in the us per year.
https://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/cv14.pdf
The common push of these idiot females who believe the propaganda is a falsified study by feminist Mary Koss which manipulated the definition of rape to include regret, feeling obligated, and having any amount of alcohol in your system and having consensual sex. This is the 1 in 4 women bullshit stat you always hear about.
They push ads and media to make men perpetual monsters with ads like "Don't be that guy" or "Draw-the-line" where they push media which tells everyone that men are all rapist and you should be scared as a female of all men. This fear mongering is a complete lie and creates an unnecessary rift between the sexes. They also ignore, dismiss, excuse, or ridicule males who are raped. Which allows for many female sex offenders to go without punishment. The entire bullshit system they have created allows for the massive abuse of the system where women use false allegations as a means of power, revenge, and sympathy. It's become almost 50%.
falserapearchives.blogspot.ca/.../...feb-1994.html <--- Yes this is a blogspot but he uses and points to actual studies.
The truth of the rape idea is this... MEN don't agree with rape. There are a handful of crazy people who rape and some happen to be men and some happen to be women. But when you ignore female rapist, it's easy to say all rapist are male.
You can't "teach men not to rape" we ALL know not to. It would be the same as saying "Teach all women not to kill their babies and put the in dumpsters" because a handful of fucked up women do it, therefore ALL women should be stigmatized.
Any female who says or believes that 4.5 billion men are rapist (or potential rapist) because of the actions of a few, are completely delusional and should be locked away for being mental unstable.
100 completely against rape, its the violation of a persons sovereignty, it shatters them. I haven't ever been raped or sexually abused in anyway; I've been very fortunate, but I've had friends who were.I can honestly tell you that the vast majority of guys are 100% against rape, periode. The don't condon it, or even think it is justifiable, ever. I think your female user is confused with the fact that a lot of girls have "rape" fantacies, which is really just rough sex, with the element of control on the guys part. ANd the guys want to have rough sex with their girls/an aquantence. But rough sex is not the same as rape. Rough sex is concentual, and desired. Rape is not.
Thank you! I 100% agree
that's good to hear from a man
I agree with that view because most men have said they'd rape if they could get away with it (her not pressing charges, no kid resulting, and in some cases having the ability to erase the event from her mind).
I thought you didn't believe in stats?
lol I guess you only believe in the ones that support your thinking.
Will you claim troll if guys don't disagree with you?
I really want to see what Anonymous guys say. The only way those studies were able to get such raw info was by ensuring the guys all said was confidential and not legally punishable (tons of guys admitted to rape..that super sucked)
Most men? Who says that and how do you know this? If thy guys you're around do it, you need new friends. lol
? I feel like I'm only hearing one side of a conversation, please fill me in. And most guys would never even fantasize about rapeing a girl, it's usually rough sex, that is concenltual and she wants it. Not he's telling he to want it. In a lot of p*rn, which is male fantacy, a common theme is domination and submission, but the female p*rn star is usually a willing partner. Yes there is a pervert group which supplies to the few that are aroused by rape, but it is by no means the majority.
Lol, your the user she's talking about, aren't you?
thanks for this post @asker. because i have been assaulted as a child, and i hate that bastard. because of him i get scared of most guys in my life. and i use to think all of them are rapists (a ptsd symptom, and also our lovely society painted that picture in my head more ). but this post made me read the opinions of so many men. and it throws some light on reality of how men actually feel about rape. thanks to everyone who shared their opinion. :)
I disagree that all or most men rape. But I personally know guys who are considered "normal" who have done it and also "normal" females who have committed statutory rape. It's not just lunatics - usually it's someone's relative, friend or partner. People with bad coping mechanisms with anger, and feelings of rejection or disappointment, tend to be most vulnerable to committing to rape, IMHO. Which is a lot more than a few psychopaths.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Rape is stealing, to take what is not freely given is a moral and legal violation. It can never be justified, and only the mentally insane would attempt to.
Agreed, thank you
very true +1
Dear god. NO way. I'm the 6'2 260pound guy that breaks down the door and beats the rapist to within an inch of his life. Girls may like the bad guy most of the time but the hero is still better in the end.
Most definitely, thanks for your input :) and being the hero haha
that's heroic what you did
I find it to be one of the most loathsome, vilest, most disgusting acts anybody could ever perpetrate on another human-being that cannot ever be justified; it is unforgivable and even if it is extreme, should be punished with death. I take a very, very dim view on it given my own circumstances and how personal a topic it is for me.
Thank you, and I'm sorry for whatever happened to you
You'd have to get similiar results from multiple and different samples to state facts from multiple and different studies with sample sizes over 100,000 were wrong.
lol I guess you only believe in the stats that support your thinking.
AGAIN?!?!?!?! OMG just stop, you are really crazy, just show your proof or go AWAY! This may not be some huge study but its enough to show me that men from across the world disagree with YOU
stop being lazy and look it up. Plenty of 3 girls and 8 guys seeing my answer messaged me & got a link. lol So what I was stating this is an American men issue. lol and the majority agree with me because I'm nust repeating what came out of their mouths. lol at the crazy. Can't argue logically so you claim stupid, crazy, psychic jokes?
I did and I didn't see any of the studies, so Prove your point! I'm begging you please, so I can see that your not blowing all this smoke out your ass and end this annoying conversation with you, and I was being sarcastic because you did not talk to every man so therefore, you don't know what all of their opinions are, we went over this already, I called you stupid & crazy because you obviously are, go back and read everything. Either provide a link or go away, I got what I need right here in the ?
Worst thing that could ever happen to a girl. It traumatizes a female on multiple levels.
very true
yeah and men who are against rape are real men, rapists are losers
Most men DO NOT want to rape women. Whoever thinks that is a f***tard, that's sick to say.
I agree 100% :)
good to know. Most women do not get raped that proves that most men are real men.
No ifs, no buts RAPE is RAPE!
If you say no, we are naked, I got a condom on and ready!
I'm Thinking 'f***!, f*** this bitch, she needs to go'
One thing that has to be respected is a woman's wishes on HER body.
plus on a light note, half the fun is in the games!
Thank you :) I respect that
Every so often I entertain the idea of giving up my life as it is and becoming an avenger, in order to hunt down and torture or kill as many rapists, pedophiles, abusers, and the like as I can before I am arrested or killed myself.
That's disturbing, but really sweet at the same time.
But then you realize that you don't have the chops to sort out the truth like courts do, and that is why vigilantism is illegal and wrong. You realize that you would end up torturing and killing many innocent men, mainly on the word of vindictive and cruel women who use "violence-by-proxy" as their weapon of choice.
I don't think it can be justified under any circumstances. I know I could never rape a woman. I can't stand to see people suffer, let alone be the cause of it.
Thank you
Agree with you.
Rape is a horrible thing that, along with all other forms of female abuse, will cause other men to dish out some "honor" to the so-called man. Seriously, someone who uses his natural power and strength over a woman to steal sex from her is just low beyond words.
I agree, thank you :)
There is no justification for rape. It's a sexual assault designed to do nothing but humiliate, control and harm the woman. Only a sociopath could get himself hard by terrifying and sexually assaulting a woman. Just because a woman wants to walk around with her boobs falling out and showing crack or even walking down the street nude does NOT mean she's asking to be raped. She may be inviting guys to make sexually suggestive remarks to her, trying to pick her up because they do want to f*** her but she's not inviting to have herself be raped. It would be justifiable homicide to kill a guy caught raping a girl, in my opinion.
I like the way you think, thank you
Actually no women even wants a guy to make sexual remarks on her from a distance. that is eve teasing and it hurts. We dress up for ourselves like guys do for themselves. I m saying dis being a girl.
@IndianGirl01 you should speak for yourself not for every girl.
The female user is dead wrong.
Never justified. It is a criminal act punishable by a life sentence for an adult and death if it is a child.
I agree with you, thank you
Depends whether she looks like she could stop me
I know your personality from other Q's, but dude. Not cool
Haha you clearly don't know my personality :P The internet is a stage and I am an actor. NOTHING is sacred, EVERYTHING is a target. <3
Creepy lol
Well I hate the thought of raping a woman... why would I even want to have sex with anyone if it's not consensual? It's horrible and meaningless.
:) your right, thank you
Rape is... Often talked about, fussed over, argued about and whined about, but to it nothing is ever done about =] And I don't think anything should be done about it, either. You can't shelter the masses from the dark side of human nature, you can't keep people as children through a ridiculous promise of safety. Rape has always happened and will always happen, its traumatic and unfortunate, but for everything bad there's good.
For example, rape exists, but also, people rescue baby seals. =]
I think rape is good if its done to someone who has the ability to grow from it. Not that I encourage it, but most of the people I've known who were really worth knowing have been raped, and looking at their lives I can see how dealing with it affected them positively. To someone who wants an easy way out of their problems, its the best thing ever, because its the most effective bail out of the 21st century. You can't argue with someone who blames all their problems on rape. There are only these two groups of people in the world - people who grow from an experience and people who cling to it.
But overall, I don't *like* rape. If someone I love tells me they've been raped I get really, really genuinely upset about it, wether they can deal with it or not. I don't want to rape anyone and I don't think it can be justified at all. The psychotic rape, the unilluminated justify it. ^_^
You're saying that rape CAN be justified in some cases. The greater majority of women who have been raped no longer trust men. At the best it takes them many years of therapy and healing to recover from the attack. Some women are permanently damaged from the attack and wind up in a mental ward. There is NO positive outcome for a woman by raping her. You're demented.
Your short-sighted, illiterate and very silly =]
I meant Old Arab, though, like medieval Arabia, and things. Feudalist arabia.
TOTALLY HATE RAPERS . I WISH WE COULD RAPE THE RAPERS!
Haha then you would just be one of them XD
yeah b
I could NEVER rape a girl, just the idea of it is a disgusting act! seeing her their crying from beaing forced into doing something she doesn't want to do and just basically abusing her like a rag doll is not appealing in the slightest. Obviously it happens but this is the small minority, most men have morals to some degree, as far as rape goes this is out of the question for the majority of men.
The girl you are talking about sounds extremely disconnected from reality or at least has a screw loose. She needs to learn a bit
That girl has made 2 separate comments on here if your interested in seeing exactly how loose the screws are haha. And thanks
Oh wow! lol, she can't be serious :O. I'm assuming she is just attention seeking, you can't be that deluded
Idk but that's scary if she is lol
rape can never be justified and most men don't want to rape anyone. generalizations like that are weak minded.
Agreed, thank you
True. Most of rapists are men but most of men are not rapists. Raping is not men's natural character trait.
lol don't mind her, most of her thoughts are farfetched and delusional.
Lol agreed :)
I am totally against rape, just recently my friend was raped by her ex when she was intoxicated. I believe why some guys rape females is because its been a while for them and why not just have a hooker for night instead of ruining a persons life.
It's sometimes that, but a lot of the time they do it for power :(
some men rape women but there are still men who are very brave to execute rapists by their own hands.
sh** ! that hit me. :( i feel sorry for ur friend. hope that she recovers from it. my best wishes with her. and tell her to be brave and strong. <3
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