Is life worth living if you can never have sex?

girls please don't tell me I'm a pig for askin this. I'm trying to cope with the fact I may never be able to have it without pain. Guys (who aren't virgins) Is it really the most amazing thing in life?
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  • This kind of pisses me off. Are you serious about this? You've asked this Several times before, several of us have answered so exactly WHAT are you looking for? Your d*** is broken. Big deal. You're relatively healthy I assume if your biggest f***ing woe is sex. Your young, you're of sound mind, you don't have a disability that will stop you from functioning. There's are people who live in extreme poverty, children living with cancer, cleft palettes, etc., women being gang raped in the midst of guerilla warfare, people starving to death, etc. Many of whom fight every day and have the courage to demand the best of themselves and actually hope and live and love and refuse to pity themselves to the point of questioning if life is worth living and even the ones who do have hell of a lot more reason to than you do. My mom works with criminals and I just hear horrible sh*t all the time, I pay attention to what's going on in the world, and I just think you're ridiculous its not even like you have clinical psychological issues you're just investing your time pitying yourself because you can't have sex. Hell yes I love sex its amazing and I wouldn't voluntarily choose to give it up but if I had to because of an injury It wouldn't be the end of the world. There's so much beauty tragedy love and opportunity out there. So much more to do. Sex is amazing if you do it right but its not the center of the universe. So f*** off dude and get a life and stop dwelling on what you can't change. You could be investing your emotions and energy into something else. Have you seen a doctor and asked if there's anything that can be done? Do that and if you already have just MOVE ON. Damn get a grip. Its not that you're life isn't worth living its that you're a pathetic whiny bitch. That's all that is.

    • Life isn't worth living if you can't ever be happy regardless of your circumstances.There's no point in living only for the sake of being physically alive. And maybe I'm just weak. But you said it yourself sex is amazing and you wouldn't ever want to do without it.

    • I agree with your answer but you totally ruined everything that you said when you said that you "love sex and would never give it up" that just completely discredited you no offense, I mean obviously if you are so in love with sex why would he not be.. of course he wants to experience it too just like you did.. just saying.

    • I disagree with you lucky but that's your opinion. I can love something and say its not essential to life. I'm not going to say sex isn't great. The question wasn't "am I missing out on something great?" It was "is life worth living without this" totally different. And question asker just shut up.what is your problem? I wish I could slap you. You can find happiness in life in other things. Did you not get anything I said?

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  • Ok... well I think that you should.. go on with your life. I am 20 and a virgin and yes I want to have sex but I am not gonna like kill myself because I am not having it. You should stop dwelling on this and do something else with your life like seriously, join a club or something where you meet people. I met my boyfriend on here, its just dumb that you would want to end your life because of this.. I mean you can do other things sexually, you just need to be more confident to attract a girl who will want to do stuff with you.. I would never date or hookup with a guy who was all mopey.. I have dated guys who are not the hottest guys ever in life but they act like they are and its sexy... whereas I met a guy who was decent looking but so self conscious that I wanted nothing to do with him because he needed me to constantly validate him... ew.

    • So validate him...

    • No... I mean the thing is I would tell him that he was attractive or whatever but it just wasn't enough he was always like I am not good enough I am not hot enough blah blah and I got tired of it!

  • there's other things you can do honestly it's not AS fun as people say (for me anyway)

Most Helpful Guys

  • holy f***. your a depressing person. just off yourself already so we don't have to read the "im so ugly poor me" questions any more.

    be a f***ing man, take some initiative in your life and go do something instead of moping around like a little bitch. get some friends and go have some drinks at a club or something. join a dating site. join a club of some kind. the less time you spend writing about how depressed you are and ho ugly you are the happier your gonna be. so get your lazy ass off your computer, go for a jog or go hit the gym, by some new clothes if you can, do your hair up and above all, WOMEN DONT BITE SO TALK TO THEM!

    • You're right about most of what you've said, but don't even joke around with telling the kid to "off himself"

    • it was meant as a scare tactic. don't get your knickers in a twist.

    • man I'd love to kick your ass for saying that to him

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  • Ill take the form of mother nature herself and tell you that, your purpose in life, is to have as many babies as you can.

    The purpose of humans is to: REPRODUCE.

    No one here in GaG cares about you. We don't have control of your fate, your destiny, or even if you choose to follow the path mother nature gave us, which is reproduce, we really don't care. You make your own decisions.

    I hope this has slapped you back to reality.

    • Well said!

    • If the purpose of humans is to reproduce then I may be potentially worthless because the doc told me I may be sterile.

    • It doesn't mean you are worthless, it means that you have a new purpose in life.

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  • Sex isn't the only thing in life, or even the best thing. It's up there, though, so good luck getting that fixed.

  • you're so pessimistic...

    • If I wasn't in pain I wouldn't be.

    • It's fairly common on this site with inexperienced guys. I'm one of them. I'm slowly on the rise towards optimism though.

    • good for you!

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  • dude you can have sex with out doing the in side thing with a girl there are way of having sex with some one you care about so don,t think that you can,t have sex with out pain because you can have sex and have no pain you and her just need to find new was of doing it

  • "I'm trying to cope with the fact I may never be able to have it without pain". What do you mean? The ladies are the ones who receive the most pain if anything in sex lol.

    • physical pain from an injury

    • Oh, sorry for that man. My condolences to your wiener.

  • No, it's not "the most amazing thing in life". You place way too much value in sex, judging from the sheer volume of these questions you've asked. Besides, there's other ways to make a girl feel good without penetrative sex.

  • Ask a priest. They're experienced in this type of life.

    • No they just go to little boys. lol Wouldn't be helpful.

    • Maybe that would be some advise.

  • yes life is worth living without havingsex. Sex isn't the solution to everything. There are better things to be worried about other than having sex.

  • Yep.

  • really..u gonna let a few muscle contractions define u..Isaac Newton..virgin..created modern physics among many things..listen to a Mozart symphony..read Shakspeare..good god ..sex iz wwayyy down on the list of what you should be enjoying

  • for guys yes it is worth living, for girls nope

  • Life is terrible without sex. But I think it's important to persevere through life anyway.

  • Yes.

  • Yes it sure is worth living without sex, don't be silly! There are plenty of enjoyable things to do in life. Sex is definitely not the greatest, way overrated dude. In fact I don't care if I never have sex again, because I don't like it.