Bad dancer = Bad at sex?

I'm a virgin and I'm an *awful* dancer. I have no rhythm whatsoever. Do you think it's true that if you're not good at dancing you'll be bad in bed? The thing is I'm half Colombian so most people assume I've got rhythm...I feel like this is some sort of self fulfilling prophecy..so what are some tips on how NOT to be bad in bed? Lol.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If you want to be bad in bed... be super self conscious, scared, uncomfortable, and just generally not enjoy the experience.

    If you want to be good... regardless of anything else... you should thoroughly enjoy yourself, let go of everything and just get carried away in your sexuality. While not hurting your partner.

    Rhythm is easy, if you can't move in time with your partner, just sit still and take it. And be a pervy pervo

  • youre a girl you just have to be able to follow not lead

    • You know, even in respect to dancing, THAT'S HARD.

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  • No, as much as peolple want to make that connection, I really ont believe it exist. I was an amazing dancer and in all honesty I sucked at sex for the first 2 years, I knew how t move, but that's it. There is not correlation to it, otherwise most guys would suck at sex and they dont.

    • what kind of dance are we talking about

    • I did all kind of dancing...but no pole dancing if that is what you were thinking...But I didl ots of belly dancing.

    • @curiousone: How did you get over the initial 2 years? I have a reason to ask that question. We could talk off line if you want.

  • Not the case at all, lol. I can't dance at ALL [neither can my guy], and I'm a good lay. =P Just don't get insecure and intimidated, do what feels natural and try not to be self-conscious about it.

  • Ur a virgin you get a pass who cares if your 1st time isn't the best

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  • Well, I was with a girl recently who is terrible at following my lead when I dance with her, but amazing at following my lead in the bedroom! There is no correlation at all. Besides, as far as sex goes, everybody just wants to please their partner. If you allow him to please you, and let him know what you like, then he'll want to come back for more!

  • If the guy is all about cowgirl ... maaaybe.

    But I think I'm in the majority in that what I wan is a dirty little thing who gets wet and excited when I push her into the position I want and pound her.

    I don't think that takes a lot of rhythm on her part.

  • Lol, I doubt it. And anyway you can get better at both

  • Very good question. First of al, I think the question MAY only be valid for girls. But as most have indicated, it is not true. I think the better way to relate them would be if a girl cannot act sexy when dancing or trying to dance, how can she act sexy in bed.

  • I hope not. I don't dance.

  • It's not true. Don't worry, just have fun.

  • No I think it just gives extra like being flexible

  • No I've never heard that